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Loluphi uhlobo lolwalamano owabelana ngalo neqabane lakho? Ngaba isekelwe kwinkanuko okanye luthando? Kweminye, lonke ulwalamano kufuneka lube nentwana yenkanuko, kuphela emva koko inokusebenza kumanqanaba okusondelelana. Ungabamba, ubambe kwaye ubonise uthando kwiqabane lakho, kodwa ingaba niqabana kangakanani na?
Ngaba uyazi ukuba ukwanga kubalulekile kubudlelwane ukunceda ukudala ukuba yintlantsi ekhethekileyo uthando? Ukuphuzana kubudlelwane kuya kunceda ukukugcina usempilweni ngeendlela ongenakuze uzicinge.
Izizathu zokuba ukwanga kubalulekile kubudlelwane kungenxa yokuba kuyanceda ukubopha umtsalane womzimba kwenye. Xa isibini siphuzana, bayatshintshana ngeemvakalelo ngamanye amaxesha ezingachazeki ngenye indlela. Ukuphuzana kubudlelwane kuya kutsala uhlobo lokuziva ukhuselekile omnye komnye kwaye kuya kuphucula ukusondelelana nothando enabelana ngalo.
Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni ukwanga kubalulekile kubudlelwane, nazi izizathu zakho ezi-9 eziphezulu:
1. Ukuziva Unxibelelwano
Isizathu sokuba ukwanga kubalulekile kubudlelwane kukuba yenye yeendlela zokuziva unxibelelwano lwemiphefumlo emibini njengenye. Umtsalane obonelela ngawo xa imilebe ixubana nenye, ayinakuchazwa. Ukwanga yindlela yokuqala yokudibanisa ngokwasemzimbeni. Unxibelelwano luyinyani kwaye luyakubetha kwithuba lokuqala ngokwalo.
2. Ukuthi Ndiyakuthanda
Iindlela zokuthi 'Ndiyakuthanda' zininzi, kodwa enye yeendlela eziphambili kukumanga nokwenza iqabane ukuba luzive uthando olu uziva kwaye unalo. Indlela othi ngayo 'Ndiyakuthanda' inokwahluka kwaye yindlela yokubamba iqabane ezingalweni kunye nokuphuza indlela yokuphuma. Ukuqikelelwa kwemvakalelo emehlweni kunye nendlela imilebe eshukuma ngayo enye kwenye ithetha ngothando amaqabane analo omnye komnye.
Zininzi iindlela zokubonisa iqabane lakho uthando lwakho kubo nokubanga ngenkanuko yenye yeendlela. Ukwanga kuyimfuneko kubudlelwane ukubonisa omnye umntu, kunxibelelwano olunzulu, uthando lwakho ngabo.
3. Yomeleza ukuSondela
Xa uncamisa iqabane lakho, kukho indlela yokusondelelana eqala ukukhula kubudlelwane. Uhlala usondela kakhulu kwiqabane lakho kunanini na ngaphambili. Ngale ndlela, uziva ngakumbi xa nincamisana rhoqo. Yenza ugqatso lwentliziyo lube nye.
4. Yakha Ukuncamathiselwa ngokweemvakalelo
Ukwanga kwakha uncamathiselo lwemizimba emibini kunye nemiphefumlo emibini. Unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo oluphefumla ngexesha lokuncamisa lwakha unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo phakathi kwesibini. Ukwanga kunceda ekuqokeleleni iihormoni ukuba zisebenze njengebhulorho yonxibelelwano lweemvakalelo. Ukiss olunye lunokukunika ukonwaba kwekhulu.
Ukuncamathiselwa ngokweemvakalelo yinto eyimfuneko kubudlelwane kwaye xa uncamisa, uncamathiselo lweemvakalelo lwonyusa isongelo ezininzi.
5. Yongeza ubuhlobo
Xa uncamisa, ukusondelelana phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho kuyanda. Ubusondeleyo yenye yezinto eziphambili ekwakheni ubudlelwane. Yenza kwaye iphule ubudlelwane. Ukwanga kunceda ekwandiseni amandla okusondelelana kubudlelwane.
6. Yongeza ukuthandana
Ukuba uziva ukuba ukuthandana kuyafa kubudlelwane, konke omele ukwenze kukufumana umzuzwana wokuqaqambisa olo thando kwakhona. Lo mzuzu uhlala uncamisana. Ukiss olunothando lwenzela ukuthandana okungekhoyo. Kubudlelwane obuswele uthando, ukuziqhelanisa nokwanga kuhlala kuza njengendlela yokuvuselela uthando phakathi kwesi sibini.
7. Isebenza NjengoXinzelelo loXinzelelo
Sonke sinoxinzelelo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Esinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba kutheni ukwanga kubalulekile kubudlelwane kungokuba isebenza njengokuxinezeleka. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukubamba uthando lobomi bakho ezingalweni zakho kwaye umange ngothando ukuba asuse lonke uxinzelelo lwakho. Ukuncamisana ngokuqinisekileyo luxinzelelo lwebhasi xa udinekile okanye unengqondo egcwele uxinzelelo.
8. Inceda ulwalamano ukuba lukhule lomelele
Kutheni ukwanga kubaluleke kakhulu kubudlelwane kuba kunceda unxibelelwano lobudlelwane ukuba bomelele. Ukwanga akubopheleli nje imilomo emibini kunye kodwa kwaneentliziyo ezimbini zabantu ababini kunye. Kwenza ukuba wena kunye neqabane lakho nibe bekhululeke ngakumbi ngelixa nisemzimbeni. Ukuphuza kukwenza uzive imiphefumlo emibini njengamntu mnye.
9. Inceda ekuhleleni imiba
Ukuba wena neqabane lakho nibe nomlo ombi, makeup ngokuzanga. Ngubani owaziyo, ukwanga okugqibeleleyo nokunomdla kunokukunceda ugcine ulwalamano lwakho! Ukuphuzana kwenza izilungiso phakathi kwesibini. Yindlela yokucela uxolo. Ikwayindlela yokwenza ulonwabo kwiqabane lakho. Ukwanga luhlobo lokubonisa indlela oziva ngayo ngeqabane lakho ngalo mzuzu. Ukuphuzana kwiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeemvakalelo kuyanceda ekuhleleni iingxaki kubudlelwane.
Ukuphuzana kubalulekile kulwalamano. Uhlobo olunye lwentshukumo lubonisa iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo.
Ukwanga yeyona ndlela yexabiso eliphantsi yonxibelelwano.
Ukwanga omnye emvuleni kususa zonke iintlungu. Ukuncamisa okukodwa ebusuku kukwenza ulale kamnandi. Ukuphuza omnye kusasa lusuku oluhle ekuphumeni.
Ukuphuzana ngoko kubaluleke kakhulu kulo naluphi na ulwalamano.
Ukuba ukuthandile ukufunda eli nqaku, ndiye undazise ingxelo yakho engezantsi kwicandelo lokuphawula.