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Akukho nto ibuhlungu njengale yokuba umntu omthandayo ngentliziyo iphela, akakuthandi umva okanye abuyisele iimvakalelo zakho. Kodwa eyona nto imbi kakhulu xa kufuneka ucenge iqabane lakho ukuba lihlale kubudlelwane.
Ungabathembisa ukuba uzakwenza izinto ngokwentando yabo, ungaze ukhalaze ngayo nantoni na okanye ucele uxolo xa ingelilo ityala lakho kodwa usithembe oku kuthetha ukuphulukana nesidima sakho kwaye ayikho enye into kubudlelwane.
Zininzi ezinye izizathu ezinokukunceda wazi ukuba kutheni kububudenge ukucenga umntu ukuba ahlale kubudlelwane. Skrolela ezantsi ukuze uqhubeke nokufunda kwaye wazi ngakumbi!
Funda kwakhona: Iindlela ezi-8 zokubuyisa ulwalamano lwakho nomkhondo xa iqabane lakho likhupha kude
1. Uyehla Ukuzihlonela
Ukucela umntu ongafuniyo ukwabelana nawe ngobomi babo, kufana nokulahla ukuzihlonipha kwakho. Kuba uya kuvuma ukuzitshintsha kwaye wenze konke okusemandleni ukukholisa iqabane lakho, uya kuphulukana nesidima sakho. Awuyi kuba ngumntu ofanayo. Umlingane wakho unokukujonga njengongento kwaye akuphathe ngokufanelekileyo.
2. Ubuhlobo bakho buxabela isiphelo sokufa
Qonda ukuba ubudlelwane bakho sele bufile xa ucela umntu ukuba ahlale kubudlelwane. Nokuba uyaphumelela ekugcineni ubudlelwane bakho, ayisahlali injalo kwakhona. Awunakufumana uthando kunye nentlonipho kwiqabane lakho njengangaphambili. Ngamanye amaxesha, unokuziva ukuba iqabane lakho lenza into elungileyo kuwe ngokuhlala nawe. Ngapha koko, iya kuba nguwe kuphela oya kubeka iinzame kwaye atyale ixesha kunye neemvakalelo kulwalamano.
3. Umlingane wakho uthatha ukuba unikwe
Nje ukuba iqabane lakho lazi ukuba uya kwenza nantoni na ukusindisa ubudlelwane, unokukuthatha kancinci. Umlingane wakho akazukukhathalela izinto ozithandayo nangazithandiyo. Akanakuthathela ingqalelo nayiphi na ingcebiso kunye nezimvo zakho ngenxa yokwenza isigqibo. Ngapha koko, iqabane lakho alinakho ukwabelana ngezicwangciso zalo, iingxaki okanye iingcinga nawe.
4. Unokuhamba Ngokubandezeleka
Kuba unyanzele iqabane lakho ukuba lihlale kubudlelwane kwaye nikulungele ukuzincama kukho ithuba eliphezulu lokuba ungadlula kuthotho lweembandezelo. Ngokucenga iqabane lakho ukuba lihlale kubudlelwane, uyamvumela ukuba akuphathe kakubi. Usenokungazihloneli iimvakalelo zakho kunye nemizamo yakho. Ngenxa yoko, unokuhamba noxinzelelo kunye nokungazinzi.
5. Iqabane lakho lingaziphatha ngendlela ekrwada Nawe
Kwimeko apho ulicenge iqabane lakho ukuba lihlale kubudlelwane, iqabane lakho linokuphuma likrwada. Usenokungakhathali ngeemvakalelo zakho kwaye akunike ihlombe elibandayo. Kananjalo, nokuba wenza ntoni, unokucaphuka ngokulula njengoko iqabane lakho lingasakufuni. Kodwa ekubeni inguwe osabambe ubudlelwane ukuba bungahlukani, iqabane lakho liziva likhathazekile kwaye licaphukile kuwe.
6. Ungonwabi
Ngoku xa yonke into itshintshile, iqabane lakho lisenokuba likhohlakele kuwe, amathuba okuba ungaziva ungonwabanga. Ngubani owaziyo ukuba iqabane lakho linokuthatha ithuba lokunyamezela nokuzincama kwakho. Isenokuyisebenzisa gwenxa imali yakho kwaye ayisayi kubuya nantoni na. Ezi zinto ekugqibeleni ziya kukwenza uzive ulahlekile kwaye ungonwabanga.
7. Uyakufumana Ungenakuzinceda
Ungazifumana ungenaluncedo kulwalamano lwakho njengoko sele ulahlekelwe lixabiso lakho kubomi beqabane lakho. Kuba awuzimisele ukushiya iqabane lakho, unokukuphatha ngendlela engalunganga kwaye ke, unokuzifumana ungenamandla. Nokuba ungazama ngandlela zonke ukuvuselela uthando kunye nokudibana phakathi kwenu nobabini, izinto zinokuthatha indawo engeyiyo.
8. Ubuhlobo bakho buba yityhefu
Ekugqibeleni, uyakufumanisa ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buye baba yityhefu njengoko iqabane lakho kunqabile ukuba lijolise kwizinto ezintle. Kuba iqabane lakho alizimiselanga kwaphela ukuhlala kubudlelwane, kukuthatha kancinci, ubudlelwane bakho bunokuba yityhefu. Endaweni yokuzama ukuvuselela uthando, iqabane lakho linokukulawula kwaye lisongele ngokukushiya ukuba kukho into engahambi kakuhle. Kungcono ke ukuba uphephe ukumcenga ukuba aqhubeke nobudlelwane.
Funda kwakhona: Iimpawu ezi-10 eziqinisekileyo zokuba i-Ex yakho iphelile kwaye ayifuni ukuba ubuye
Kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe ukuba uqonde ukuba iqabane lakho likushiya oko akuthethi ukuba ulahlekelwe kukuzixabisa. Zama ukuzithanda kuqala. Sikucebisa kuqala ukuba wonwabe kwaye emva koko uthandane kwaye ungangeni kubudlelwane ukuze ufumane ulonwabo. Ubudlelwane bufana nendlu kwaye budinga isondlo kuwo omabini amaqabane. Ukuba umntu uzimisele ukuhamba, kungcono ayiqonde imeko kwaye aqhubele phambili.