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Ubudlelwane xa bujika bube muncu, sifumana iindlela zokukuyeka. Ukuphelisa ubudlelwane kulula kodwa ukuba uyenza njani le nto ibalulekileyo.
Zininzi izizathu zokuba ubudlelwane buyehluleka ukunamathela. Nje ukuba siyeke ukuziva sithanda umntu, siqala ukucwangcisa ngendlela yokuphelisa ubudlelwane.
Sihlala sibuya ubudlelwane obunje kwaye sibe ngumntu obandayo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa.
Le asiyondlela yokujongana nomntu owawukhe wamthanda. Kukho iindlela ezithambileyo onokuthi ubuphelise ubudlelwane kunye nenqaku elilungileyo.
Ukuze ndikuncede ngokwazi iindlela ezahlukeneyo onokuthi uphelise ngazo ubudlelwane, ndizise phantsi iindlela ezithile onokuthi ubuphelise ngazo ubudlelwane ngaphandle kokulimaza okanye ukuba ngumntu obandayo.
Phambi kokuba singene kuyo, ndingathanda ukuba wazi ukuba ngaba likho ithuba elincinci lokubuyela kubudlelwane? Ukuba ewe, cinga ngokuvuselela umdla wakho ukuze ubuyele kwisithandwa sakho.
Nangona kunjalo, kwelinye icala, ukuba unomdla wokuphelisa ubudlelwane, funda ngakumbi.
Ukuqhekeka akukaze kube mpuluswa kubathandi.
Ke, nazi iindlela ezithile onokuthi ubuphelise ngazo ubudlelwane kwinqaku elilungileyo.
1. Yiba ngokuthe ngqo nangokunyaniseka
Ukuqhawuka kungenangqondo kwaye akukho mntu ufuna ukuba kufike kubudlelwane. Kodwa ukuba iyenzeka, ke khumbula ukuthembeka kwaye ubhekise ngqo kulomntu owahlukana naye.
Akukho namnye ofuna ukuphelisa ubudlelwane ngendlela ekrakra apho ungaze uphinde ufune ukubona ubuso babanye kwakhona.
Ke, ukungqala ngokuthembeka yeyona ndlela.
Kuya kufuneka uxelele iqabane lakho izizathu zokuba kutheni ufuna ukubuphelisa ubudlelwane kwaye uzame ukuthembeka apha. Sukubetha ujikeleze ityholo kuba oko kuyakwenza ukuphela kube nzima, njengoko nobabini nibaleka nizama ngesizathu esinye.
2. Yiba Nembeko Kwaye Uthantamise
Ngelixa unyanisekile kwaye ungqale, zama nokuba nobulali kunye nembeko. Umntu ophelisa ubudlelwane naye wayekhe wakuthanda kwaye nithandana.
Ukwenza into ebuhlungu ngekhe kulunge okwangoku. Ke, njengokuba uthetha ngokuthe ngqo, yenze ngentlonipho kwaye ube nobulali njengoko usenza.
Ngale ndlela, awuyi kwenzakalisa umntu ophelisa ubudlelwane naye.
3. Biza amagama akho
Amagama adlala indima ebalulekileyo ekugqibeleni, njengoko ayenzile ekuqaleni. Ukukhetha amagama alungileyo oza kuwathetha ngelixa uphelisa ubudlelwane kunokuba yinto ejijekileyo.
Nyaniseka kumazwi owathethayo kwaye musa ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ukhusela into oyithethayo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kubakho impikiswano kwaye uyiphephe, kuya kufuneka ubeke amagama ngohlobo lokuba lungonzakalisi iimvakalelo ngelixa uphelisa ubudlelwane.
Ndithembe, uya kudinga ukuba amagama ayinyani kwaye aye kwinqanaba, ngelixa uphelisa ubudlelwane.
4. Sukubanika iiThemba ongenakukufeza
Sibona abantu ngelixa bephelisa ubudlelwane babo besithi bazakuba ngabahlobo kwaye baqhubeke nokunxibelelana. Isiqingatha sabantu ehlabathini xa bephelisa ubudlelwane, badla ngokuthetha izinto ezinjalo xa bengade bathethe nokuba banxibelelana okanye babe ngabahlobo kunye ne ex yabo.
Ke, xa ubuphelisa ubudlelwane, yinyani kwithemba olinika umntu. Ukuba awufuni ukunxibelelana nabo, yitsho ngqo. Ungaze unike ithemba elingeyonyani xa usazi ukuba awuthobeli lona.
5. Bayeke bathathe ixesha labo ukulenza
Asinguye wonke umntu onokuzisebenzisa iingqondo zakho njengawe. Ke, xa ubuphelisa ubudlelwane, vumela omnye umntu athathe ixesha lakhe lokulungisa isiphelo ngendlela yakhe. Musa ukumcinezela omnye umntu.
Nika umntu ithuba lokuqonda ukuphela kobudlelwane. Awunakumthuthuzela umntu, ke mabathathe ixesha labo ukuze bazive bhetele.
Ngale nkqubo, uqinisekile ngokuphelisa ubudlelwane ngaphandle kokubangela inkathazo kuwe okanye kubo.
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