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Wakha wazithandabuza iinkonzo zomkhonzi wakho? Zisoloko zithembekile izalamane zakho kakhulu. Wakha wafuna ukwazi ukuba lixhasa njani iqabane lakho lobomi? Ezo zithembiso kunye namazwi athuthuzelayo akwenza ukholwe, isenokungathembisi kangako.
La mazwi athuthuzelayo anokungangonwabisi ukuba uthembele kumntu ongalunganga. Kwaye ekugqibeleni inokukushiya kwimeko edlakadlaka ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngokwezezimali. Kodwa umbuzo ngulo, yeyiphi enye into onokukhetha kuyo?
Akutshiwo ngokufanelekileyo ukuba ixesha lilodwa linokuvavanya ubudlelwane bakho kunye nabantu abakuthandayo? Kuyinyani oko, ixesha lolona vavanyo kuphela olubonisa ukuba ulungile kangakanani umkhonzi, ukuba ziluncedo kangakanani na izalamane zakho kunye nenkxaso yomfazi wakho.
Ixesha elibi linokukwenza ukuba ubandezeleke, kodwa liyakufundisa izifundo ezininzi, lisenze siziqonde iimpazamo, kwaye likuxelele ukuba ngubani oyena mntu ulunge ngakumbi kuwe. Ngokunxulumene nayo, kukho isicatshulwa esidumileyo esinikezwe nguChanakya- vavanya umkhonzi wakho xa ungekho, uvavanye izihlobo zakho kunye nabahlobo ngamaxesha obunzima kwaye uvavanye umfazi wakho xa uhlelwa lilishwa.
Vavanya isicaka sakho xa ungekho kufutshane
Xa ungekho, isicaka siya kuba lula kwaye sikhululeke. Eli lixesha, ubume bakhe bokwenyani buya kutyhilwa. Usenokuzama ukuba imali owawuyigcine phezu kwetafile, okanye usenokukuxelela ukuba uyigcine kwindawo efanelekileyo xa ubuya. Usenokuyibeka ecaleni, kwindawo ekhuselekileyo aze akwazise kamva.
Nokuba imeko iyintoni na, ukuthembeka komkhonzi kuya kuvavanywa. Umntu ongenakumthemba ngezinto ezincinci akafanelanga ukuba umthembe kwaphela. Ukuba angaba isixa esincinci namhlanje, khawufane ucinge indlela aya kukhululeka ngayo ngokwenza njalo, iminyaka emihlanu ephantsi komgca. Ke, lumka kwaye ungaphoswa lithuba lokumvavanya.
Vavanya Izalamane Zakho Ngamaxesha Obunzima
Kanye xa unemicimbi yezemali, unokufuna uncedo. Kuyacaca ukuba ukucela izalamane zakho ngoncedo isenokungabi lolokuqala ukhetho engqondweni yakho, isenokungabonakali inokwenzeka, kuba ufuna ubudlelwane buhlale bulungile, okanye imbeko yakho ihlale injalo. Ukufuna uncedo lwezezimali kwizalamane yile nto abazali bethu besicebisa ngayo, kuba bakholelwa ukuba ubudlelwane buya kujika bube mbi. Yinyani leyo.
Kodwa into ethethwa nguChanakya kukuba ingxaki yemali lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuvavanya izihlobo zakho. Uthi xa ubacela uncedo, zimbini iziphumo ezinokubakho- nokuba injongo yakho iyakufezekiswa kwaye uya kwazi ukuba kufanelekile ukuthemba okanye akunjalo. Esinye isiphumo kunokuba kukungavumi naluphi na uncedo kuwe. Oku kuyakubonisa ukuba ubunokondla ubudlelwane obungalunganga.
Abazithandayo baya kujonga izibonelelo zabo, kwaye baqale ukugcina umgama, bekubona unamathele kwimfuno yemali. Abo banenkathalo baya kwenza konke okusemandleni ukukhupha imeko. Utshintsho luhlala luhleli. Ngexesha, iingxaki ziyasombululeka kwaye ziphele, ngakumbi kwimeko yeengxaki zemali.
Kodwa ukutyala imali kubudlelwane obungalunganga yeyona nto ibuhlungu. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukuvavanya, ngaphambi kokuba kuhlwe, kwaye ufunde ukuba loluphi ulwalamano ekufuneka ulugcinile. Yiyo loo nto, ngokuka-Chanakya, umntu akufuneki aphoswe lithuba lokuvavanya izihlobo zakhe ngexesha lokudinga.
Vavanya Umfazi Wakho Ngexesha Lelishwa
Kukho intetho ethi-nkqu nenkosikazi yakhe ayixhasi indoda enelishwa. Xa indoda iphulukana nayo yonke into ebinayo, umfazi ozicingela yedwa unokuqala ngokuqalekisa indoda, ngokungazisi mali ekhaya, okanye angamenza buthathaka ngokuziphatha, okanye angamshiya ecinga ukuba akasayi kuphinda aphile naye kwakhona.
Umfazi ofanele ukugcinwa uya kuba nguye oya kumxhasa kubunzima nobunzima, utshilo uChanakya. Ngokutsho kwebali, xa u-Tulsi Das (imbongi eyaziwayo) wayengasebenzi kwaye engaholi kakuhle, umfazi wakhe wamkhalimela kangangokuba wagqiba kwelokuba amshiye ngonaphakade azinikele kuThixo, eqonda ukuba umfazi wakhe akakwazi ukuxhasa kuye, nguThixo kuphela onokumnika ngokulinganayo uthando.
Amaxesha anzima amfundisa izifundo ezinkulu kwaye ezi zinike umkhombandlela omtsha ebomini bakhe, kwaye zimisela ukuba aziwe kwihlabathi liphela njengembongi eyaziwayo.
