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Umtshato yeyona ndlela indala yokudibanisa phakathi kwabantu ukwenza isivumelwano sokuhlangana kwabo. Liziko elidala kakhulu eliphumelele kuvavanyo lwamaxesha kwaye yamkelwa ukutyhubela iminyaka ngokweenkcubeko namaxesha aguqukayo.
Ukuhlala-kubudlelwane yindlela entsha yomanyano ethatha umbono wokutshata. Iguqukile kwinkcubeko yasentshona kwaye yangena kubungcwele bomtshato kuzo zonke iinkcubeko kwihlabathi liphela. Ukuhlala-kubudlelwane ngokusisiseko ngumtshato ongekho semthethweni kunye nokudibana kwabantu ababini abahlala kunye.
Ubudlelwane bokuhlala okwangoku abuzukuvunywa kumazwe amaninzi kwaye imithetho ayikasekwa ukujongana nombono. Abantu ababini abagqibe ubudlelwane babo ngaphandle komtshato iseyi-taboo kwiinkcubeko ezinkulu zasempuma. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lweenkcubeko zasentshona ziye zavumelana kwaye zamkela ubudlelwane bokuhlala obamkelwa luninzi lolutsha apho. Uninzi lwabantu lukhetha ubudlelwane obunokuhlala phakathi kwabo ngenxa yokulula kunye nengxaki yasimahla.
Umtshato yinto ebiza imali eninzi efuna ixesha elininzi kunye nezixhobo. Ukusilela komtshato nako kufuna ingxaki efanayo ukujongana noqhawulo mtshato ngokusemthethweni nangolunye uhlobo. Apho njengolwalamano oluhlala ngokubanzi ngokubanzi kufana nokujonga kwangaphambili umtshato wakho ukuze ubone ukuba uyakusebenzela. Unokuhlala ukhetha ukutshata ukuba iyasebenza okanye iyaqhekeka ngendlela yasimahla xa isiya emazantsi. Ngamnye wethu unemibono eyahlukileyo kunye nembono malunga nobudlelwane bokuhlala.
1. Inkululeko kunye nokuba bhetyebhetye kobudlelwane bokuhlala kuyo yeyona nto ibenza butsaleleke kwisizukulwana esitsha. Ababini ababandakanyekayo ababophelelwanga kukuzibophelela emtshatweni ngokusemthethweni nangokwemigaqo ngokubanzi.
Ubudlelwane obuhlala phakathi kwabantu abunangxaki njengokucwangcisela abantwana, ukunxulumana nezalamane ezixhwalekileyo, ukwabelana ngezinto zonke njl.njl.
3. Xa uhlala kubudlelwane obuhlala ngaphakathi, uzimele ngokwasezimalini kwiqabane lakho. Akukho sinyanzelo sokwabelana nomvuzo wakho kunye neqabane lakho, ukuba nenkululeko yokuceba iimali zakho ngokuzimeleyo.
4.Ukuhlala kubudlelwane kungasetyenziselwa uvavanyo lokuhambelana phakathi kwakho neqabane lakho. Inika ithuba lokuba ubone ukuba uhlala kanjani kunye neqabane lakho kwiimeko zobomi bokwenyani ngelixa nihlala kunye.
5.Asingabo bonke abantu abakhetha ubudlelwane obuhlala buhleli. Abanye badla ngokukruquka ngumntu omnye emva kwethutyana. Ukuhlala kubudlelwane kulungele bona njengoko banokutshintsha amaqabane abo xa omnye eqala ukuziva edikiwe ngomnye.
6. Xa kuthelekiswa nomtshato, ukuqhekeka ubudlelwane bokuhlala ngamava anzima. Akukho zibophelelo zomthetho ekufuneka uzizalisekisile ngaphambi kokuzahlula. Kuya kufuneka ujongane nemeko yeemvakalelo zokwahlukana.
7.Kuhlobo lokuhlala ukhululekile ukuba usete eyakho imigaqo. Akukho milinganiselo esekwe kwintlalo yokuhlala ikunika isileyiti esicocekileyo ukuze ubhale eyakho imithetho yobudlelwane.
8.Ukuguquguquka kobudlelwane obuhlala phakathi kwabantu abatshatileyo kukhulu kakhulu. Abanye abantu abatshatileyo abafuna ubudlelwane bokuhlala banikana inkululeko yokuba namaqabane amaninzi ngelixa behlala kunye.
9 Isibini esithatha inxaxheba kulwalamano lokuhlala akukho mfuneko yokuba sincame okanye silungise iindlela ezifanelekileyo. Unenkululeko enkulu yokuba yinyani yakho xa unobuhlobo obuphilayo. Akukho kunyanzelwa ukuba ulalanise indalo yakho ukuze uhambelane neqabane lakho.
10 Okokugqibela kwaye eyona nto inomdla kakhulu kunxibelelwano lokuhlala kubantu abaninzi yinto yoqhawulo-mtshato. Xa kungekho kungahambelani nasemva kwewayile yokuhlala kunye, izibini zinokuthatha isigqibo sokwahlukana ngaphandle kobunzima bokuqhawula umtshato.