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Umntu ongazange akholelwe 'kuThando', umlingo wakhe, uSuku luka-V kwaye ngokusisiseko akazange athathe ixesha kwimisebenzi yam, ade ayicinge okanye ukuba igama elinobumba amane lingayidibanisa njani imiphefumlo emibini ebomini? Ngaphaya koko, kwakungeke kwenzeke ukuba umntu onje ngam ayamkele into yokuba abantu banokukhetha amaqabane abo ebomini kwimizuzu nje embalwa yokuthetha kuseto lwendabuko lomtshato ocwangcisiweyo. Umlandeli ongagungqiyo kwezi, wayengazange waziva oko, phambi kokuba ndidibane noSuriya, emva kokuba abazali bam bendinike ifoto yakhe isindululo sokuqala esinqumle iicrunches zokuqala. Nangona incoko yathatha nje imizuzu engama-45, ndakwazi ukuthatha isigqibo ngakwisithonga esinye, kuba ndandikudimaza ngokulula kwakhe! Ke umtshato wawucwangcisiwe.Esi yayisisiqalo sebali lethu lokwenyani lothando! Zange bakholelwe abahlobo bam xa babebalisa iziqendu ezifanayo, kunokuba bangayamkeli into yokuba bavumile ukuba baphile ubomi kunye emva nje kokuba bethethe nabantu abaza kuba liqabane kanye, phantsi komtshato wesintu womtshato ohleliweyo. Xa isenzeka kum, zonke izimvo zam ziphikisana, njengoko kuye kwafuneka ndiyamkele ukuba iyasebenza.
Yonke le nto iqale nge-14 kaNovemba ngo-2010 (ibingeyiyo i-V Day kodwa olo lusuku lwethu olukhethekileyo). Intlanganiso yethu yokuqala yayingoSuku lweCofi. Njengoko umgca wethegi usitsho, 'Nantoni na inokwenzeka ngekomityi yekofu', ebibonakala ngathi sisicatshulwa esenzelwe thina, njengoko oko kuqinisekisa ukuba sihamba sibambene ngezandla! Kulapho ndabona khona ukuba ikomityi ibindibethile nam! Le mizuzu engama-45 yayithetha, ndandilungile kuyo yonke into, nangona ndingazange ndivume ukuyekelela nabani na ekhaya okanye kubahlobo bam, konke kwenzeka naye, ndisazibuza ukuba kwenzeke ntoni, ngelixa ndingasifumani isizathu!
Ewe yayilixesha lokuqala, ndaziva ukuba ukhona umntu ondikhathaleleyo kunaye. Ngapha koko, ndonwabile ekugqibeleni kuba bendinokuthetha nomntu osondele kakhulu entliziyweni yam emva komntakwethu, endiza kuthetha naye ngayo yonke into.
Ukuba seLuthandweni, kundiguqule ngokupheleleyo! Ngapha koko, ndandivile okuninzi malunga nothando oluguqula umntu, lumenze imbongi, kodwa ndothuka kakhulu xa ndiqala ukubhala iivesi, ndizicaphula! Kulapho abahlobo bam bandixelelayo ukuba sisiphumo sothando! Kubonakala ngathi iphindaphindwe kabini emva kokuzibandakanya kwethu, njengoko ixesha lethu lokuthandana lihlala kwiinyanga ezi-7 ezinde. Yayifaka kwigobolondo le-nut, ukubandakanyeka kwakuyinto 'emangalisayo'.
Ngelixesha leenyanga ezisixhenxe zokuthandana, yonke into ithathe isihlalo, ngenxa yeeshedyuli zethu ezixakekileyo ezisivumele ukuba sidibane kuphela ngeempelaveki, emva komsebenzi njengoko bendihlala ndiphumla iveki kube kanye kwiiveki ezimbini. Kodwa, sikwazile ukuzisusa zonke ezo, kwaye sidibana xa kunokwenzeka.
Njengoko ukuthandana kwethu kwakuqhubeka, uhambo lwaseburhulumenteni oluya 'kwisiqithi separele' lwenza mandundu imeko, yayilukhenketho lwam lokuqala, ndedwa! Kude kude nabazali, yayiyeyona nto yayixhalabisayo, ngelixa ndandibhiyozela usuku lwam lokuzalwa ndedwa kwilizwe elingummelwane, ndongeza nje kukudana. Emva koko, kwafika isimanga sobomi bam, njengoko ndafowunelwa nguSuriya, ndaza ndazi ukuba wayeze yonke indlela ukuza kundinqwenelela ngomhla wam wokuzalwa! Kulapho ndabona khona ukuba naye useluthandweni! Kwakungowona mzuzu ubaluleke kakhulu kwibali lethu lokwenyani lothando. Ngaba usengawubiza ngokuba ngumtshato ohleliweyo?
Kwakungummangaliso omnandi, njengoko ndafumana i-e-khadi entsha kugwayimbo lwe-12 kusasa kunye neminqweno emihle exabiseke ngokwenene. Nangona wayendibizele umnqweno, akazange abonise ukuba wayeza kundikhawulela!
Ndivume izihlandlo ezingama-zillion ukuba ukuba bendikhe ndakwimeko yakhe, ngekhe ndithathe isigqibo esinje! Nangona yandikhumbuza ngeVaranam Aayiram, yayisothusa ngokwenene. Olona suku lokuzalwa lungalibalekiyo!
Ukuba oko akwanelanga, uhambo losuku olunye lokuya eChunchi, lwalucudiswa nangexesha lokuthandana kwethu, ngaphandle kokundwendwela zonke iivenkile ezinkulu kunye neeresityu ezininzi ezilandelwa ziimovie.
Ngomdla ofanayo, phantse ubuntu obufanayo, akukho zimvo ziphikisanayo, eyethu 'ibe yintsomi egqibeleleyo, ethi ekugqibeleni ibe sisizathu nemfihlo yokungena ngempumelelo njengendoda nomfazi. Uninzi lwamaxesha ngexesha lokuthandana kwethu sisiseko esifanayo. Ithuba legolide ukusuka ngo-Nov 2010 ukuya kuSep 2011 lenze iqhinga, elithe ekugqibeleni laphindaphindeka emva komtshato, njengoko bekuziinyanga ezintlanu ngoku. Njengoko ukuthandana kwakudala umlingo phakathi kweentliziyo njengoko sasisazi kwimeko apho singekhe siphile ngaphandle komnye nomnye. Inene leyo bubuhle boLuthando!
Nge-V Day uthatha umyalezo kweli bali ukuba ngethamsanqa elincinci umtshato ocwangcisiweyo nawo unokuguqulwa ube ngumtshato wothando.
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