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Uthando kunye nobuhlobo zezona mvakalelo zimbini zimangalisayo kwihlabathi. Ke kwenzeka ntoni xa ezi mvakalelo zimbini zingqubana? Uninzi luthi umfana nentombazana ngekhe babe 'ngabahlobo kuphela' ubomi babo bonke. Kodwa loo nto ayinakuthathwa njengeyona nyaniso iphambili. Abantu abaninzi bahlala beyona nto ibalaseleyo kubahlobo babo bonke ubomi babo. Kwangelo xesha, ixesha kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuba abahlobo bobuntwana kwenzeka ukuba babesini esahlukileyo ekugqibeleni baya kugqibela ngokuwa omnye komnye. Makhe siqwalasele iingenelo kunye neengozi zokuthandana nomhlobo wakho wobuntwana.
Ukuphulukana nobuhlobo- Ukuba ufuna ukuthandana umhlobo wakho kwaye nobabini kwenzeka ukuba bathandane oko konke kulungile. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntu ithandana naye? Unokuphela uphulukana nobuhlobo bomhlobo wakho wobuntwana. Kwenzeka ukuba bakuthembe njengomhlobo wabo osenyongweni. Kwaye xa le ntembeko yaphukile bayadimazeka kwaye baphele bonakalisa ubuhlobo bexesha elide.
Olona lwalamano luhle- Kodwa icala eliqaqambileyo lengqekembe kuxa bobabini bethandana. Akukho budlelwane bungcono emhlabeni kunobu. Uhlala ufuna iqabane lakho lobomi ukuba libe ngumhlobo wakho osenyongweni. Ke yintoni enye into ebhetele kunokutshata oyena mhlobo wakho usenyongweni? Akukho maqhinga kunye nolindelo olungafanelekanga olubekelwe omnye nomnye kwiimeko ezinjalo. Uyazi kakuhle iimvakalelo zomnye nomnye kwaye ungathandana nomhlobo wakho wobuntwana ngendlela ebalaseleyo.
Akukho nto intsha- Phakathi kweziphene ezimbalwa zokuthanda umhlobo, enye kukuba ngekhe kubekho nto intsha inokuphononongwa ngomnye nomnye. Kodwa kwelinye icala xa udibana nenye entsha kuhlala kukho into onokuyifumana malunga naloo mntu. Kananjalo emva kwexesha elithile, ungaqala ukuphulukana nomdla kumhlobo wakho wobuntwana njengothando kunye neqabane lobomi. Akuyi kubakho mfihlakalo ukutyhilwa malunga nomnye.
Yazi Yonke Into Ngomnye Nomnye Njengomntwana akukho mntu une-pretension ngaye. Ke xa ukhula nomntu njengomntwana uye wazi zonke izinto azithandayo nangazithandiyo. Yintoni abathanda ukuyitya, bathini ukhetho lwabo lomsebenzi njlnjl zonke ziyaziwa nguwe. Kwaye kunjalo nakumhlobo wakho. Ude wazi nosapho lomnye. Oku kwenza ukuba kube lula kakhulu kuni nobabini ukulungelelanisa nosapho lomnye emva komtshato.
Ke, ukuba ufuna ukucebisa kumhlobo wakho gcina ezi zinto engqondweni kwaye uqhubeke kubudlelwane.