Ukuba awukazichazi eyakho Myers-Briggs uhlobo ubuntu , sincoma kakhulu ukuba wenze njalo. (Thatha ixesha lakho. Siza kulinda.) Nangona ukuqonda iimpawu zakho ezithile akuyi kutshintsha inkcubeko yethu yoxinzelelo oluphezulu, kunokukunika ingqiqo entsha malunga nendlela ohamba ngayo, ngokubhetele nangaphezulu (kuba hey, thina' kwakhona zonke iingxowa ezixutywe). Ulwalamano lwakho nabantwana bakho—kunye neempawu obamiselayo—lubonisa ngakumbi impumelelo nolonwabo lwabo lwekamva kunezinye izinto ezininzi. Nantsi indlela uhlolo lobuntu bomzali olunokunceda ngayo ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni omele uyitshintshe malunga nendlela yakho yomzali-kunye nento ongayibhiyozela.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniISTJ: Lowo ugqwesileyo
Ubaluleke kakhulu, uthatha isigqibo, ulungelelene kwaye usebenza ngokufanelekileyo. Unokuba ngumzali onguMgunyazisi weencwadi zokufunda. Ngokuqinisekileyo ungumnikazi wekomityi yekofu kunye neNdlela yam okanye uhola wendlela kuyo. Yonke idyasi ixhonywe kwigumbi lodaka. Wonke umsebenzi ubhalwe (izitikha zomvuzo zixhomekeke ekwanelisekeni kwakho). Kwaye izulu liyabanceda abantwana bakho ukuba baphulukana nomsebenzi wabo wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya, balibale isidlo sabo sasemini okanye babhomboloze kakhulu kwindawo yokutyela. Iindaba ezimnandi zezokuba, abantwana bakhula kakuhle ngolwakhiwo, iinkqubo zesiqhelo kunye nolindelo olucacileyo. Kodwa kwakhona, bangabantwana; ukwenza iimpazamo kukwinkcazo yomsebenzi wabo. Unokufuna ukuvumela ukuguquguquka okuthile, ngamanye amaxesha. Ukuba ngumzali kumoshakele kwaye kubhidekile. Ukuba uhlala ulawulwa ngokuqinileyo (kunye nokulawula), cinga ukuba usebenza kwindawo yoloyiko kunokuba uthande. Usenokuba udala ingxaki entsha kubantwana bakho (ukungabikho kokuzimela, iintloni, ukungaguquguquki, ubundlongondlongo noontanga) kumzamo wokulungisa endala kwixa elidlulileyo.ISFJ: Igcisa leMveli
Ufudumele kwaye uthembekile, ulungelelanise kodwa unyanisekile, unenkathalo kwaye uluncedo. Mhlawumbi uyingcwele yeentlobo zobuzali: Igunya. Abantwana bakho bayazi ukuba ungumphathi kodwa abaziva uvalelwa ilizwi labo. Ukholelwa ekuzilungiseleleni impumelelo kodwa uzivumele ukuba zolule amaphiko azo kwaye zibhabhe, nokuba oko kuthetha ukuba ziyantlitheka. Uvuleleke ekusonjululweni kwengxaki ngentsebenziswano. Kulapho ucela igalelo labo xa ugqiba imiphumo yezenzo zabo ezigwenxa ukuze baqonde kungekuphela nje oko bakwenzileyo okuphosakeleyo kodwa kwanendlela yokwenza ngcono kwixesha elizayo. Qhubekeka ushukuma le nto yobuzali. Unayo (ngokucacileyo) oku.
I-INFJ: Amandla okudala
Uyabonwa, unomdla kwaye uyakhuthaza (Umzobo weminwe onqunu? Umgquba wosapho? Ingcaphephe uK'Tan ebopha ? Yizise!). Ubafundela imibongo kwisizalo kwaye ubaculele iingoma zomculo ngesiFrentshi . Izipho zakho zokudala kunye nokunyamezela okuzolileyo ngamaxesha anzima ziimpawu abaya kuba nethamsanqa ukuba bazizuze ilifa. Ewe, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuncama ubuthongo ukuze utshise iglu kwisinxibo seHalloween / uhombise iikeyiki / iicaligraph izimemo-kwaye uya njengaye yona. Indawo enye onokuthi usebenze kuyo (ekubeni ungumlandeli onjalo wokufuna ukukhula komntu, emva kwayo yonke loo nto)? Ubuzaza bakho kunye nokuqina kwakho kunokuba yi-combo entloko kubantwana abancinci ukuba bayiqonde. Uziva yonke into ngokunzulu kodwa awukwazi ukubakhusela kuyo yonke i-bump kunye ne-bruise (ngokweemvakalelo okanye ngenye indlela). Ziva iimvakalelo zakho (ngokungathi unolunye ukhetho-ha) kodwa ungavumeli ukuba bakuguqule ube yi-Helicopter okanye iLawnmower.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniINTJ: Umntu ogqibeleleyo
Ungumdlali onamandla othatha isigqibo, unengqondo kwaye uzimisele. Uyabathanda abantwana bakho ngokukrakra kwaye uyakuxabisa ukuqondana. Kodwa ekufundeni iprofayile yakho yobuntu, eli binzana lahlala liphumile: Lilandela ubuchule, uphuculo. Asikwazanga ukuzibamba ukucinga: Umzali weTiger. Ukufuna okona kulungileyo kubantwana bakho kuyaqondakala. Kwaye ukuseta ibar ephezulu ngokuqinisekileyo ine-upsides-ukuba yenziwe ngovelwano. Kodwa ukunxulumanisa ukuzixabisa kwabo nezinto abaziphumezileyo kuza neendleko: Ukuphila ngenjongo yokwanelisa abazali bakho akulula, itsho ingcali kwezemfundo. UJenny Grant Rankin , yaye aba bantwana banokuba nemvukelo kamva ebomini—bancame usukelo olusempilweni ngokupheleleyo—xa befikelela kwiminyaka yokuba umntu onokukwazi ukuzimela.’ENXULUMENEYO: Kukho iintlobo ezi-4 zezitayile zobuzali. Yeyiphi iFilosofi oyilandelayo?
ISTP: Isilungisi
Unengqiqo kwaye unengqiqo. Ungumboniseli opholileyo kwaye ungumsombululi weengxaki zokudubula. Uzimele kwaye unomdla (bona: isigqibo sakho sokukhulisa abantwana-eyona adventure inkulu kubo bonke). Kwaye okwangoku, ingqondo yakho yocazululo inokungasoloko iyazi indlela yokujongana nomntwana oguquguqukayo (hayi LA ikomityi!!!) MOOOOOOM )—ngokwengcaciso, ezibini zezona zidalwa zimangalisayo nezingenangqiqo kwezakha zahamba emhlabeni. Iindaba ezilungileyo? Uyakwazi ukuziqhelanisa neemeko. Singacebisa ukuba kufundwe kancinci ?
ISFP: Ukutshiseka
Unobubele, unenkathalo, unovelwano, unengqondo, uthembekile kwaye uluncedo. Unomonde kwaye uzinikele. Unazo zonke izinto ezenziwe ngumama onobuchule (okanye utata). Kodwa ukwanalo uhlobo lobuntu olulungiselelwe ukudinwa kwabazali. Iyeza lokunyanga ukudinwa, Iingcali zithi , akukho nto ukhetha ukuyenza (oko kukuthi, uzibethe ngenxa yokungafumani ixesha lokuzinyamekela); yilento wena yala ukwenza. Cwangcisa imida yakho, yenza ukhetho lwakho kwaye uvele uthi hayi nanini na kunokwenzeka: Kwi-PTA, kwimisebenzi eyongezelelekileyo yekharityhulam, kulwahlulo olunokungalingani ngokugqithisileyo lomsebenzi wengqondo okanye wasekhaya, ukuya. ukuba ngumama weofisi . Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, funda ukwenza uthi hayi ebantwaneni bakho ngamanye amaxesha . Niya kuba sempilweni nonke ngenxa yayo.
INFP: uMgcini woXolo
Ungumncedi onenkathalo, onovelwano, onombono kunye novelwano. Ufuna imvisiswano. Ungazifumana uhlala ulamla iingxabano phakathi kwabantwana bakho, kwaye mhlawumbi (ukuba ungaphakathi isigaba sokuvelisa isangweji ) phakathi kwabantwana bakowenu nabazali. Qonda imida yediplomacy yakho. Yiba ngumama, ungabi ngumfeli-nkolo.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniINTP: IRanger yasimahla
Uzimele, ugxeka kwaye uzimele. Usenokukholelwa ukuba xa kufikwa kubuzali, kuncinane ngakumbi. Unokuba ulungile (bona: Operation Varsity Blues ). Kule mihla kunye neminyaka, kunokubonakala ngathi akukho nto inetyhefu ngaphezu kokuba umzali we-Snowplow . Kodwa nangona abantwana bakho bebonakala bezimele, basakudinga (ewe, kwanabantwana abakwishumi elivisayo abambakraza emnyango). Iingcali zithi ukudlala okanye ukuthetha-on-one kunye nomntwana wakho ngamnye imizuzu elishumi, kabini ngosuku, kuya kuphucula kakhulu ukuziphatha kwabo kunye nexesha lokugxila. Qwalasela esi sikhumbuzo sakho esithambileyo sokungena, nokuba imvakalelo yakho yokoyika okanye yokuphepha ikuxelela ukuba ujonge.ENXULUMENEYO: Iindlela ezi-8 zokuQhagamshela nabantwana bakho xa uthiyile ukudlala
ESTP: Ibhabhathane loluntu
Unqwenela imincili kunye nesenzo. Uyazenzekela (Uhambo lwangempela veki? Ndivumele nje ndithathe iPack n’ Play!). Kodwa nepragmatic yakho, imo eguquguqukayo inokuvavanywa sisiko, imonotony yesiqhelo yobuzali. Undoqo kukufumana uluntu lwabazali abanengqondo efanayo ukwanelisa idrayivu yakho yentlalontle. Aba bahambi bahamba nabo baya kukuxelela ukuba ewe, kuyinto eqhelekileyo (kwaye ikwamnandi kakhulu) ukufunda incwadi enye, ukutya ukutya okufanayo kwaye ube neencoko ezifanayo izihlandlo ezili-14 lamawaka ezigidi.
ESFP: Ubomi beQela
Unamandla (nangona emva kweminyaka elishumi yokungalali), uqhutywa luluntu, unobuhlobo, unenkathalo, ubonakalisa ngokucacileyo kwaye uvule (nangona emva kweminyaka elishumi yeengcebiso zobuzali ezingacelwanga). Indlu yakho lucango olujikelezayo lweentsuku zokudlala kwaye iimpelaveki zakho zigcwele amatheko omhla wokuzalwa. Uyazenzekela, unothando-mnandi kwaye unesisa kumntu wonke. Abalandeli bakho bangumkhosi; qiniseka nje ukuba abantwana bakho bayazi ukuba baphezulu kuluhlu lwakho.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniENFP: UMphuphi
Unentelekelelo, uyilo, ushushu kwaye uyadlala. Ngubani ongcono ukuba angene kuzo zonke ezine kwaye azenze i-unicorn kwiiyure ezintandathu ezithe ngqo ngeCawa enemvula? Xa ufunda, wenza onke amazwi. Xa ubhaka, uvumela abantwana bakho bongeze yonke imibala yokutya. Unethemba, uhlala ujonge into entsha neyonwabisayo, kwaye utyekele ekucingeni ngekamva elizukileyo losapho lwakho. Ngentloko yakho emafini, unokufuna uncedo olongezelelweyo lokuhlala ucwangcisiwe (Iincwadi zabo zethala leencwadi ziza nini? Ugqirha wamazinyo uthe ntoni?). Kodwa kukho iijenali zembumbulu zaloo nto.ENTP: IGlobalist
Unamandla, ukrelekrele kakhulu kwaye uzimele. Ulwamkela utshintsho kwaye uyathanda ukutshona amazinyo akho kwiingcamango ezinzima, ezingabonakaliyo. Ufumana ukungazinzi. Ufuna ukuhamba ihlabathi kunye nabantwana bakho. Ngokusisiseko ungu-Angelina Jolie. Kungekudala uza kuchitha ixesha losapho lwakho uvolontiya okanye uqhanqalaza kuneerhinestones ezibengezela kwi-DIY fairy wands. Ukholelwa ngokunzulu ukuba ukufundisa abantwana bakho ukwenza umahluko gaphandle phaya bayakuguqula ukuba bangoobani na apha phakathi . Qwalasela. Yazi nje ukuba kulungile ukunxiba ii-PJs zakho kwaye uzipholele ekhaya kanye ngexesha.
ESTJ: I-She-E-O
Ngaba nangaliphi na ithuba ungumongameli wePTA yakho? Ngokuzithemba kwakho, uxanduva, ulungelelwaniso, ubuntu obulawulayo, ngokuqinisekileyo kufanele ukuba unjalo. Uthatha isigqibo, ujolise kwiziphumo kwaye akukho budenge (iinyani nje, ma'am). Ungalibali nje ukonwaba-kwaye uwole abantwana bakho-ngelixa uxakekile ukhaba yonke loo nto--.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniESFJ: Ewe (Wo)Ndoda
Unoxanduva, intsebenziswano, isazela, ucwangco, unombulelo kwaye unyanisekile. Heyi, uyabathanda abantu nje! Nto leyo ecacisa ukuba kutheni uqhuba i-carpool yebhola ekhatywayo ngobusuku obuthathu ngeveki ngelixa ukhokela umkhosi we-Girl Scout kwaye usebenza ixesha elizeleyo. Konke oku kukholisa abantu kukushiya uqhuma ngumsi, okanye njengoko omnye umbhali ongumzali wayibeka loo nto , Ekupheleni kosuku, ndinike yonke into endinayo, kwaye okuseleyo kukubukela i-husk engenanto. Abafazi basekhaya bokwenyani . Abantwana bakho bafanelwe lixesha lakho nengqalelo yakho. Wonke umntu uza okwesibini.ENFJ: I-Oprah
Unentlalontle, ufudumele kwaye unembeko. Uzama ukunceda abantu ukuba balungise iingxabano zabo; ayisivusi imbiza wena. Unako ukugcina imfihlo njengeshishini lamntu, nto leyo echaza isizathu sokuba bonke abahlobo bakho—kunye nabahlobo babantwana bakho—bezityand’ igila kuwe. Uhlala uyazi into elungileyo onokuyithetha. Qaphela kumolokazana wakho wexesha elizayo: Nkosazana, ubethe i-jackpot.
ENTJ: Jikelele
Ungumququzeleli kunye nomcwangcisi. Uthatha isigqibo, unobuchule kwaye uyazimela. Uthanda iinkqubo kunye nabamakishi bangaphandle bempumelelo (amakhadi eengxelo ezilungileyo, izicathulo ezintle). Uhambo lwakho lweDisney bekufanele ukuba uphumelele ibhaso. I-pantry yakho iyayenza Khloe Kardashian ujongeka utyhafile. Ukholelwa ukuba kuhlala kukho indawo yokuphucula (kubandakanywa xa kuziwa kwiqabane lakho kunye nabantwana). Ngoko kuthekani ukuba abantwana bakho bakubiza ngokutyhala? Uya kuba ngumnxeba wabo wokuqala xa izinto zisiya emazantsi.
ENXULUMENEYO: Esona senzo sakho sinetyhefu, esekwe kuhlobo lwakho lweMyers-Briggs
