Inqununu yesikolo esiphakathi e-Utah ibe phantsi kokugxekwa ngokuxelela intombazana yebanga lesithandathu ukuba idanise nenkwenkwe ngoSuku lweValentine ngaphandle kokuchaswa yintombazana, I-Salt Lake Tribune iingxelo.
Ngomhla we-14 kaFebruwari, u-Azlyn Hobson, umfundi wase-Rich Middle School e-Laketown, wayevuyiswa kwaye exhalabile ngomdaniso weSuku lwe-Valentine yesikolo kuba wayefuna ukudansa nomntu othile, ngokutsho kukanina u-Alicia.
Wayewuvuyele kakhulu lo mdaniso. Wayendixelela malunga neeveki ezimbini, umama wentombazana wakhumbula. Kwakukho inkwenkwe esikolweni awayeyithanda, eyayifuna ukudanisa nayo, yayiza kuba nelona xesha libalaseleyo.
Enye inkwenkwe yeza kwibanga lesithandathu yaza yamcela ukuba adanise. Loo nkwenkwe yayikhe yamenza waziva engonwabanga uAzlyn ngaphambili, ngoko ke, wathi hayi.
Ukanti, ngendlela engaqhelekanga, inqununu yesi sikolo, uKip Motta, kutyholwa ukuba uxelele uAzlyn ukuba makadanise nale nkwenkwe.
Wayengathi, ‘Nina hambani nidanise. Akukho nto ithi hayi apha,’ utshilo umfundi webanga lesithandathu kweli phephandaba.
UAzlyn akazange avume ukuthobela kodwa wavuma ukuba oko kwakubuhlungu.
Andizange ndiyithande kwaphela, uxelele i-Tribune. Bathi bakugqiba bathi sele yenziwe, ndathi, ‘Ewe!’
Ngokutsho komntwana oneminyaka eli-11 ubudala, iingoma zitshintsha phakathi kokukhethwa kwamantombazana kunye nokukhetha kwamakhwenkwe kwimidaniso. Abafundi kuthiwa kufuneka babuze xa ilithuba labo kwaye kufuneka bamkele xa bebuzwa. Imithetho yesikolo iphinda ithintele nawuphi na umfundi ekuceleni abanye ukuba bagcine umgama wabo xa kuvela imeko engathandekiyo, utshilo.
Emva kokuva ngesi siganeko, uHobson wabhalela uMotta nge-imeyile, i-Tribune inika ingxelo.
UHLALA enelungelo lokuthi hayi, i-imeyile yomama ifundwe. Amakhwenkwe akanalo ilungelo lokubamba amantombazana okanye awenze adanise nawo. Abayenzi. Ukuba amantombazana afundiswa ukuba akanalo ilungelo lokuthi hayi kumakhwenkwe, okanye ukuthi hayi akunantsingiselo, kuba aya kunyanzelwa ukuba enze njalo, siya kuba nesinye isizukulwana esivakalelwa kukuba isiko lokudlwengula liyinto eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo.
NgokukaHobson, inqununu efundisa imidaniso kwesi sikolo, iphendule ngelithi lo mfundi webanga lesithandathu bekufanele ukuba uvakalise inkxalabo yakhe ngale nkwenkwana phambi kokuba kuqale lomdaniso.
Sifuna ukukhusela ilungelo lomntwana ngamnye lokukhuseleka nokukhululeka esikolweni, uMotta uxelele iphephandaba kudliwano-ndlebe. Sikholelwa kuloo 100 pesenti. Sikwakholelwa ukuba bonke abantwana kufuneka babandakanywe kwimisebenzi. Isizathu somgaqo-nkqubo njengoko besinawo (kwixesha elidlulileyo) kukuqinisekisa ukuba akukho bantwana baziva ngathi bashiywa ngaphandle.
Inqununu kutyholwa ukuba yaxelela abazali bale ntwazana ukuba bebenokuyisusa ngokupheleleyo intombi yabo emdanisweni ukuba ibingakhululekanga ngabafundi abathile. UHobson, nangona kunjalo, uthe isisombululo siyingxaki.
Kuya kuba lihlazo ngokwenene oko kuba uAzlyn uyayithanda le midaniso yasesikolweni, ngaphandle kwesi sihlandlo xa kwafuneka adanise nomntu angafuni ukumphathaphatha, utshilo umama. Kuyingozi kubantwana ukuba bangabi nelungelo lokuthi hayi. Siyabafundisa ukuba akufuneki banyamezele nayiphi na loo nto, kwaye emva koko sibathumela esikolweni kwaye bafunde ngokuchaseneyo.
Emva kwesi siganeko, inqununu yaxelela i-Tribune ukuba yona nentsumpa baza kuwuphonononga umgaqo-nkqubo wesikolo omalunga nokuqhutywa kwemidaniso.
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