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Amava katata nomama ngamnye ahlukile. Indlela abajonga ngayo ingxaki, indlela abayilandelayo ukuyisombulula kunye nendlela abasamkela ngayo iziphumo ziya kwahluka. Kuyafana nakwimeko yokoyikisa umntwana ngokunjalo.
Baninzi abazali abaya kuzama ukoyikisa usana lwabo ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Abanye bayoyikisa umntwana wabo omncinci ngokuthiya amagama abalinganiswa bokuthelekelela, abanye baya kungxola, abanye babethe okanye abanye baxelele ukuba baya kushiyeka bodwa ukuba usana luye lwenza ubudenge.
NQANDA UMNTWANA KUMALUME EEMOYI
Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu, ayisiyiyo kwaphela into elungileyo ukwenza ukoyikisa umntwana wakho. Ukuba uyaloyikisa usana lwakho, luya kudala iingxaki ezininzi zengqondo nezengqondo kubo.
Iintsana zincinci kunawe. Lungile! Kodwa, musa ukuyithatha le nto njengentando yokubonisa ubungangamsha bakho. Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba ufanele woyike umntwana, nazi izizathu ezi-5 eziphezulu zokuba kutheni ungafanele. Gcina oku engqondweni kwaye vumela umntwana wakho akhule ngazo zonke iinyikima ezifanelekileyo.
Ukuphulukana nokuzithemba: Ukoyikisa umntwana kuya kubangela ukuba badibanise ukuzithemba kwabo. Xa usoyika umntwana, oku kuyakwenza uloyiko olungafunekiyo kwingqondo yakhe. Oku akunakupheleliswa kwindawo ozama ukuyenza, kodwa inokwandiswa nakweyiphi na into enxulumene okanye edityaniswe nayo. Ke, ukuba ucinga ukuba kufuneka woyike umntwana, cinga kwakhona.
Ukungazithembi ngokweemvakalelo: Xa umntwana esoyika, oko kuya kubangela ukungazithembi ngokweemvakalelo ezingqondweni zabo nokuba ukhona wena neqabane lakho. Oku kuyakutshintsha kamva ukuya kwinqanaba lokudakumba okanye uxinzelelo. Kubalulekile ukugcina ingqondo nengqondo yomntwana wakho izaliswe ngumbono oqinisekileyo kwihlabathi.
Ukwahlukana koxinzelelo: Baninzi abazali abaya kuthi 'siyakuphuma singakuthathanga' ukubenzela ukutya ukutya okanye bayeke ukulila. Kodwa, oku kuyingozi kunokuba kubonakala. Oku kuya kubangela uxinzelelo lokwahlulahlula umntwana wakho kwaye baya kuhlala benoloyiko lokuba uya kumshiya yedwa.
Phuhlisa iingcinga ezimbi: Iintsana zincinci kakhulu ukuba zingahlulahlula, kutheni kwaye njani. Bayakukholelwa kwangoko oko ukutshoyo kwaye oku kuya kubanyanzela ukuba bahlakulele iingcinga ezimbi xa uboyikisa. Xa umntwana esoyika, kukwakho namathuba okuba bangadibani kakubi naye nawuphi na umntu okanye into ethile.
Iingxaki ngokweemvakalelo: Ukuba umntwana woyika kuwo nawuphi na umcimbi, kunokwenzeka ukuba baya kuwuthwala ubomi babo bonke. Njengoko bekhula, sinokuziva ngathi siyilibele. Kodwa, inyani kukuba iyakubakhona ngonaphakade ezingqondweni zabo zingazi. Xa kukho nayiphi na into ebangela oko, nokuba badala, iya kuphuma.
Yazi ezi ziphumo zoyikisayo zoyikisa umntwana wakho omncinci. Zama ukufumana izisombululo zoyilo kunye neengxaki eziza kuba nefuthe elihle kuphela kusana lwakho.