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Ukuba nobudlelwane nentombazana eneentloni, kuya kufuneka uhambe ngesantya sayo kungenjalo, uya kutsiba kwelinye icala lomkhondo. Ukuqonda intombazana eneentloni xa uyintloko phezu kwezithende othandweni nayo kunzima kwaye kunzima.
Nangona kunjalo, zikhona iindlela ezithile zokwaphula umkhenkce phakathi kwenu nobabini. Kuya kufuneka uthathe inyathelo lokucothisa kwaye uzinze ukuze uphumelele ugqatso.
Ubudlelwane nentombazana eneentloni kunokukhokelela ekubeni umntu alahleke kwiingcinga zakhe. Ke ngoko, kufuneka aqonde umxholo wokumenza azive eyinkosazana. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuyakubakho iparadesi kunye no-Novemba kunetha ngokungathi kunkqonkqozwa emnyango wezulu nje ukuba aqale ukuphatha ngendlela afuna ngayo.
Nantsi indlela yokuba nobudlelwane nentombazana eneentloni. Ilula kwaye kulula ukuyilandela. Yenza uphando oluncinci kwintombazana ngaphambi kokuba uthathe inyathelo eliya phambili.
1. Chonga udidi lweentloni angena kulo
Zintathu iindidi ezahlukeneyo zokuba neentloni xa kufikwa kwintombazana.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uneentloni-Uthetha kancinci kwaye uhlala engenanto kwincoko.
Uneentloni ngokwasemzimbeni- Uyarhoxa xa ebanjwa.
Vala iintloni-xa engaze avumele ubudlelwane bakho buye kwiincoko ezincinci ezidlulileyo.
Ezi ke zintathu iindidi kwaye kufuneka ufumanise ukuba loluphi na udidi. Kuya kuba lula kuwe ukuba wazi ukuba ungasondela njani kuye kubomi bemihla ngemihla kwaye yonke into ekufuneka uyenzile kukwenza ukuba avuleke ngaye.
2. Ukuba kubudlelwane nentombazana eneentloni kunzima
Kuya kufuneka uyihloniphe indalo yakhe eneentloni kwaye uhambe nokuhamba. Musa ukumnyanzela ukuba enze nantoni na angakhululekanga ngayo. Kuya kubakho amaxesha apho ezi ntlobo zamantombazana zingafuni ukuba wedwa kunye nawe.
Mse kwindawo apho kukho abantu abaninzi abakhoyo, iyakumenza azive ekhululekile. Kunzima ukulungelelanisa le ndlela, kodwa kuyamenza ukuba akhululeke ngakumbi ukuba kunye nawe kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe uya kuyeka ukuba neentloni kwaye akhululeke nawe. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukuba ube nomonde kwaye uvumele izinto zenzeke ngendlela ebekufanele ukuba ziyenzeka.
3. Ukuxhalabela inqanaba lentuthuzelo yakhe
Qaphela ulwimi lomzimba wakhe ukufumanisa ukuba ukwindawo engonwabanga na. Ukuba kunjalo, mbuze ukuba uyafuna na ukuhamba. Ukujonga intombi yakho eneentloni kubudlelwane bakho ngenye imini kuyakuqhekeza iindonga zolu hlobo. Yiba nexhala ngakumbi ngento ayithandayo nangayithandiyo kwaye yindlela onokuthi umqonde ngayo, ungene nzulu kwingqondo yakhe edla ngokubanjiswa yingqondo yokuba neentloni.
Ukuba nenkxalabo kumbonisa malunga nesimo sakho esinoxanduva kuye. Oku kumenza abe nendawo yokuthuthuzela xa umjikelezile.
4. Khetha isihloko esifanelekileyo onokuthetha ngaso
Ngale ndlela, uya kufunda ukufumana ukuthembela kwakho kwaye izinto ziya kuhamba kakuhle. Musa ukuthetha malunga nexesha lakhe elidlulileyo ukuba uyazi nayiphi na into ade akulungele ukuthetha nawe ngayo. Makhe azivule njengoko efuna. Sukulinyanzela ukuba likuxelele. Akayi kwenza ngaphandle kokuba akafuni. Yihlonele loo nto ngaye. Thetha ngezihloko anomdla kuzo, kunokuba zingamvaleli.
Khumbula ukuba ufuna ukuba avuleleke kuwe kwaye angabi njengaye wonke umntu. Kufuneka uthethe ngezinto ezinengqiqo kuye nangezinto ezenza ukonwaba kuye. Fumana izihloko athanda ukuzifunda, axoxe ngazo kwaye abhale ngazo. Oku kuyakunceda ukuba nihlalisane kakuhle.
5. Mnike indawo eyoneleyo kulwalamano
Ukuba kubudlelwane nentombazana eneentloni kunokuthatha ixesha elide ukuba ivulele abanye. Amantombazana aneentloni athambile ngokweemvakalelo, ke into ephambili kukuba nobubele. Kungangabikho zizathu zentloni okanye zinokuba zininzi kwaye akazukuvumela ukuba ungene kuwo okoko engaziva enomnqweno wokuba ube naye ngonaphakade.
Uthambile ngentliziyo, ngenxa yoko agcina ikhaka lokuba neentloni. Ukuze azivulele kuwe, unokufuna indawo eninzi kwaye oko kunokwenzeka kuphela xa umnika yona. Khumbula, konke malunga nokuba naye. Ukuba umfuna ngokwenene, kuya kufuneka wenze izilungiso ezinje.
Landela ezi ngcebiso kwaye ufune uthando olufunayo kwintombi yakho enentloni. Kulungile ukuba nomonde kunye naye kule nkqubo.