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Kutheni uluntu lwethu lungaqwalaseli abantwana njengentsikelelo? Kule mihla ngenxa yendlela yokuphila exakekileyo, kuye kwaba nzima ukukhulisa abantwana kwizibini ezininzi ezingenalo ixesha nemali. Siphila kwixesha apho abantwana ikakhulu bajongwa njengomthwalo kunokuba bayintsikelelo.
Abantwana abasathathelwa ngqalelo njengempahla yezoqoqosho kodwa sele beqalisile ukuba luxanduva lwemali. Uninzi lwabantu abatshatileyo kule mihla babanjiswe kwingxaki yokuba babe nabantwana okanye bangabi nabo.
Kubonakala ngathi kukho imeko yokucinga exhaphakileyo yokuba abantwana banokuba sisiphazamiso, isithintelo, ukuphazamiseka, inkathazo, ukungalawuleki, ukubiza, ukuchitha kunye nesoyikiso kwihlabathi lanamhlanje elinabantu abaninzi. Abantu abaqapheli ukuba kanye njengomtshato uneentsikelelo ezininzi, ukuba nomntwana nako akunakuthelekiswa nanto.
Zininzi izibonelelo zokuba nabantwana kuba basinika uluvo loxanduva, basulungekile kwaye abamsulwa, bakwenza umntwana kwakhona, bakunceda ukuba wakhe ubuhlobo obusondeleyo, bangabantu abaxinzelela uxinzelelo, bayakunceda ukomeleza ukudibana kwakho neqabane lakho, kunika amandla ebudaleni bakho, ukuzithemba kokuphila kwaye okokugqibela bakunika imbono entsha ngobomi ukuze utyebise kwaye ubonwabise. Nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuba kutheni abantwana beyintsikelelo.
Ikugcina usempilweni
Ngokophando oluqhutywa sisiseko sempilo yengqondo yaseTaiwan, kwafunyaniswa ukuba abantwana bagcina abazali bephilile engqondweni.
Funda ukungazicingeli
Ukuba ngumzali kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima njengoko kungumsebenzi weeyure ezingamashumi amabini anesine. Njengokuba ixesha lihamba, uninzi lwabazali luya kutyekela ekuqondeni ukuba kufuneka ubeke iimfuno zomntwana wakho kuqala kunezakho.
Iphucula impilo
Ukuba nabantwana kungakhuthaza impilo yomzimba nengqondo yabazali. Abazali baba noxanduva lokuzinakekela ngobulumko kwezempilo njengoko besazi ukuba baya kuphendula ngokukhathalela omnye umntu. Ukudlala nabantwana kunokuba yinto enkulu yokuphelisa uxinzelelo (uxinzelelo lwebhasi).
Ukuzithemba kunye noxanduva
Xa usiba ngutata, uyaqonda ukuba uyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yobomi bomntu kwaye kuya kufuneka unikezele ngezinto ezimbalwa ezazibonakala zibalulekile. Oku kunokudala isiphumo esihle ebantwaneni bakho njengoko kunokuthintela indlela oziva ngayo ngawe kunye nempumelelo yakho njengomzali. Abantwana banokukhulisa ukuzithemba komzali xa bekuhlamba ngothando kwaye bathi ungoyena mama ungoyena tata ungcono kwihlabathi liphela. Olu hlobo lwesiteyitimenti lunefuthe elikhulu ekuzithembeni kwakho.
Funda ngawe
Uninzi lwabazali ngelixa bekhulisa abantwana baye banyamezeleka kwaye bahlala. Iyakwandisa umonde nothando kwaye ibenza ukuba bazi malunga nabo. Inceda abazali bafumane eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kubo ebomini babo kunye nento enokubonwabisa.
Uba ngumntwana kwakhona
Ukuba ngumzali ngamava atshintsha ubomi. Abazali bakholisa ukuba neemvakalelo ezininzi ezintsha. Ukukhulisa abantwana kukunika inkululeko yokwenza izinto zobuntwana. Kukho izinto ezininzi apho umntwana nabazali banokwenza kunye njengokudlala epakini, ukubukela iikhathuni okanye ukudlala imidlalo kunye.
Hleka ngakumbi
Izinto ezihlekisayo okanye izijeku zabantwana zinokwenza ukuba abazali bahleke ngakumbi. Abantwana bahlala besenza izinto ezinokuhlekisa kwaye zingenangqondo. Benza umoya owenza ukuba abazali bonwabe ngamanye amaxesha amnandi.
Yenza wonwabe
Abantwana banokuzisa umbono omtsha ebomini bakho njengoko kuyinyani eqinisekisiweyo yokuba xa uhlamba uthando kunye nothando emntwini uqala ukubathanda ngakumbi. Ukuba nabantwana kunokwenza ukuba abazali baneliseke ngakumbi kunesibini esingenabantwana. Oko kuthetha ukuba abazali bafumana uthando ngakumbi ebomini babo kwaye kubanika nesizathu sokuphila.
Hlaziya ulwazi lwakho
Abantwana baya kuhlala bekubuza imibuzo yokukhanda entloko kwaye bafuna ukuba unike iimpendulo ezahlukeneyo. Njengoko umntwana ekhula, baya kwenza ukuba abazali bahlambe ulwazi lwabo ngokubabuza nantoni na ukusuka kwiitafile zezibalo ukuya kwikomkhulu lamazwe.
Amabhaso angenakuthelekiswa nanto
Ukuba ngumzali kunika imbuyekezo engenakuthelekiswa nanto njengoko inguwe obumba ubomi bomntwana wakho. Inxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuba ngumzali kukukhulisa umntwana, okwenza ukuba uphile ubomi bakho ngokuthembeka. Ufuna umntwana wakho aphile ngokuziphatha njengokuphatha abanye ngentlonipho. Kwaye njengokuba umntwana elandela isimilo esihle kunye neenqobo ezintle omfundise zona kunganomvuzo kubazali.