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Uninzi lwamantombazana esizukulwana sethu, uthando kunye nokuthandana zizinto ezihamba kunye. Sonke siyonwabela xa umntu athandana naye ethandana kwaye evakalisa uthando lwakhe ngathi. Ngapha koko, amanye amantombazana aya enyangeni xa umfana athandana naye ebonisa ukuzonwabisa esidlangalaleni.
Ewe inye into enokwenza nayiphi na intombazana izive ngathi iyinkosazana. Nokuba ukuthandana yinto oyifunayo ezitalatweni okanye ungathanda ukuba nayo ngaphakathi kweendonga ezine zegumbi lokulala, inyani iphantse ukuba bonke abantu basetyhini bayathanda ukuba nentando encinci kubomi babo bothando.
Okulusizi kuthi, ayingawo onke amadoda aluhlobo 'lwenkosi enomtsalane'. Kukho amanye amakhwenkwe asebenzayo kwaye awakholelwa kwinto yokuthandana kwaphela. Kukho abanye abandayo kakhulu ukuba bangacinga ngokuthandana. Abasetyhini abathandana namadoda anjalo bahlala bebonwa bengonwabanga ngokungabikho kothando ebomini babo.
Ukongeza koyeha babo, nanamhlanje, kwamkelwe ngokwasentlalweni ukuba yindoda yolwalamano ekufuneka iqale lonke uthando oluya kuyo.
Ukuba ungomnye wabo bafazi ucaphukisiwe yinto yokuba isoka lakhe alithandani ngokwaneleyo, eli linqaku lakho. Apha siza kuthetha ngamanyathelo alishumi onokuwamkela ukwenza ukuba isoka lakho lithandane ngakumbi.
1. Mxelele Into Oyifunayo
Amathuba kukuba umntu othandana naye akaqondi nokuba akathandani. Ke into yokuqala ekufuneka uyenzile ukusombulula le ngxaki kukumxelela ukuba ingxaki ikhona. Nje ukuba aqonde ukuba oku kuthetha ntoni kuwe, uya kuyenza inqaku kwaye azame ukuzilungisa. Oku kuyakusindisa ubudlelwane bakho kwaye kukunike le nto uyifunayo yiyo, kubalulekile ukuba ungaziva usoyika ukuthetha ngengqondo yakho.
2. Nxiba kakuhle
Ngelixa usenokuziva ngathi umntu othandana naye akasathandani kwakhona, isizathu saloo nto inokuba yinto yokuba wena unganomtsalane ngoku. Qiniseka ukuba utyala imali kwezempilo kwaye uzilungisa kakuhle. Ngale ndlela ke isoka lakho liza kuziva litsaleleke ngakumbi kuwe kwaye oku ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kumenza athandane ngakumbi.
3. Musa ukuMjongela phantsi
Kunokubakho amawaka ezizathu zokuba kutheni umntu othandana naye engathandani nawe. Isenokuba ngamava olwalamano oludlulileyo okanye esinye isizathu esenza ukuba alucekise uthando lwakhe. Ukuba uyintombi enzima okanye uhlala umngxolisa ngokufanayo kuya kumenza aqale akuthiye, kwaye leyo yinto ongayifuniyo.
4. Musa ukumthelekisa namanye amadoda athandanayo
Indoda eyindoda yinto enovakalelo kwaye njengentombazana eyintombazana luxanduva lwakho oluninzi lokuqinisekisa ukuba into efanayo ayithinteleki. Ngokuthelekisa isithandwa sakho kunye namanye amadoda athandanayo, wenzakalisa i-ego yakhe. Oku akuyi kumenza athandane. Ngapha koko, oku kunokumenza ukuba athandane nangaphantsi kunangoku. Eyona nto imbi onokuyenza kukuthelekisa amandla akho okuthandana nesithandwa sakho. Qiniseka ukuba awuzukuyenza loo nto.
5. Ukuvumelana ngeziganeko zoMtshato
Isithandwa sakho sinokufuna ukuba uzonwabise ngezinto wena ongazithandiyo. Ngelixa olu luhlu lususela kumnyhadala wezemidlalo kuye ulindele ukuba uchithe ixesha naye ngelixa edlala imidlalo yevidiyo, qiniseka ukuba awuyali nayiphi na. Ngale ndlela uyakubulela kuwe ngako konke okwenzileyo kwaye kwixesha elizayo xa umcela ngaphandle ngomhla wokuthandana, uya kukuvuyela ukuthobela.
6. Mxabise
Nje ukuba uchaze ukuba ufuna ukuba athandane ngakumbi, amathuba okuba uya kuba esenza iinzame ezifanayo. Qinisekisa ukuba uyayixabisa efanayo. Awunakulindela ukuba atyhile iphepha elitsha ngobusuku nje obunye. Ngokunyamezelana naye kwaye uxabise intshukumo yomntwana akwenzayo uya kwakha ubudlelwane obomeleleyo kwaye ube nalo lonke olo thando ubusoloko ulufuna.
7. Yiya ngaphaya kwe-Cliché Romance
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukuthandana kunokufumaneka kwiindawo ezingalindelekanga kakhulu. Ke phuma kuluvo lokuba ukuthandana kunokwenzeka kuphela kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sokukhanya kwekhandlela. Kunoko zama ukuya kwimisebenzi enithandayo nobabini. Ukuba umsebenzi ngokwawo uyonwabile, ezothando ziya kufumana indlela.
8. Qalisa i-Romance
Ukuba ngenene ufuna isuntswana lothando kubomi bakho bothando kwaye khange ukwazi ukufumana elo gumbi kwisoka lakho, ungathandabuzi ukwazisa okufanayo kubudlelwane bakho. Zimnkile iintsuku apho kuphela umntu wayenokwenza lonto. Kwihlabathi lanamhlanje lokulingana ngokwesini, akukho sizathu sokuba ungahambi nje uye wonakalisa umfana othandana naye.
9. Mxelele ukuba Ubaluleke Kangakanani Kuwe
Rhoqo sigqiba ukuthanda umntu kodwa singamxeleli ngokufanayo. Sikuthatha njengenyaniso yokuba omnye umntu azi. Kodwa khumbula ukuba isoka lakho alifundanga ngengqondo. Ngokumxelela ukuba uyamthanda, uyamkhuthaza ukuba athethe ngokukhululekileyo kuwe, nto leyo eza kumenza athandane ngakumbi. Enye indlela yokumxelela ngokubaluleka kwakhe ebomini bakho kukumhlambela ngezipho.
10. Kukho okungakumbi ebomini kunothando
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ufumane le nyani ngokuvakalayo nangokucacileyo entlokweni yakho. Ngenxa yokuba engathandani oko akuthethi ukuba uyakuthanda naphantsi. Asinguye wonke umntu onendlela efanayo yokubonisa uthando. Kwimeko apho engeyiyo yonke into enothando, unokucinga ngokuyeka ukuzama ukumtshintsha kunokuba uzame ukumamkela ukuba ungubani. Ngale ndlela uya kuzifumanisa wonwaba ngakumbi eluthandweni.