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Ulwalamano lwexesha elide luyimfuneko ukuze uphile ubomi obonwabisayo. Bayakunceda ujongane namahla ndinyuka obomi.
Ngokwenyani, iqabane lakho liyakuchaphazela kwaye uhlala unefuthe kwiqabane lakho. Indlela owenza ngayo izinto, ucinga ngayo okanye uthetha ngayo itshintshe ngokupheleleyo emva kokuba 'usete' nomntu ixesha elide.
Ngapha koko, unokukhulisa ulwimi lwakho oluyimfihlo ukuze uthethe ngokufihlakeleyo esidlangalaleni! Yiloo nto indlela ubudlelwane bexesha elide obunokukuchaphazela ngayo. Nazi ezinye iinyani malunga nobudlelwane bexesha elide ekungekho mntu ukuxeleleyo.
Awungekhe ube mhle ngalo lonke ixesha
Oko kwabonakala kukuhle ekuqaleni kobudlelwane kungangabonakali kukuhle ngonaphakade. Ngapha koko, ezinye izinto ezenziwa liqabane lakho zinokukucaphukisa.
Ngexesha, imbono yakho yeempawu zomlingane wakho iyatshintsha kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba umgangatho wobudlelwane uyatshona. Ngapha koko, uhlala utyekile.
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Ngaphambi kokungena kubudlelwane, kuyindalo ukucinga ukuba yonke iseshoni yokwenza uthando iya kuba mnandi. Kodwa emva kokuba ungene kubudlelwane bexesha elide, unokuqonda ukuba kukho izigaba apho wena okanye iqabane lakho lingenakho nokuba nomnqweno 'woko'.
Kwezinye iintsuku, uyonwabela umdlalo onomdla kwaye ngezinye iintsuku, usenokungafumani nokuwolwa! Kodwa kulungile! Ubudlelwane bexesha elide buphumelela kuthando kunye nokudibana.
Unokubona iqabane lakho lidlala ngothando ...
Ungathini ukuba iqabane lakho liyonwaba xa umntu othile edlala nalo? Ewe, awudingi ukuba nexhala ngaphandle kokuba iqabane lakho liye kwinqanaba lokukukhohlisa. Kubudlelwane bexesha elide, izibini zihlala zikhulisa ukuqonda phakathi kwazo.
Izinto ezincinci aziyi kubenza bangazithembi. Bayayazi into eyethutyana kunye nengapheliyo.
Ubugcisa bokuxolela
Uya kuqonda ukuba ubudlelwane abunakuphumelela de ufunde ubuchule bokuxolela iimpazamo zomnye nomnye. Ukuba ubuthathaka kakhulu okanye ungqongqo, ubudlelwane bexesha elide abunakuphila.
Ukuba unomkhwa wokujonga phantsi zonke iimpazamo ezenziwe liqabane lakho, ukuze ujongane naye ke uyalonakalisa ulwalamano lwakho nezakho izandla.
Ngamanye amaxesha unokuziva usengxakini
Ngamanye amaxesha, ungonzakala ngokulula xa iqabane lakho likrwada kuwe. Okanye iqabane lakho linokuziva licatshukisiwe zizenzo zakho.
Izinto ezinjalo ziyenzeka kwaye zilungile. Uya kufunda ukuzibeka ecaleni kwaye uqhubele phambili xa uku ubudlelwane bexesha elide. Ukuba luthando-dovey ngalo lonke ixesha akunakwenzeka. Utyekele ekuxabiseni umfanekiso omkhulu endaweni yokujonga iinkcukacha ezincinci.
Awudingi kwidyayi yeswekile nantoni na
Xa umtsha emntwini, uhlala uthambisa iswekile-yonke into okanye uzenza ngathi uninzi. Kodwa unokuba ngumntu wakho wokwenene xa sele unolwalamano lwexesha elide. Awudingi ukunxiba imaski xa ukunye neqabane elikwamkele njengoko unjalo. Lelona candelo lililo.
Unokwabelana ngegumbi lokuhlambela
Khawufan 'ucinge. Uvuke wangena ngqo kwigumbi lokuhlambela wafumana iqabane lakho liphendula iifowuni zendalo. Okanye iqabane lakho linokuqonda ukuba i-flush ayisebenzi kwaye inokucela ukuba uthathe ibhakethi lamanzi. Izinto ezinjalo ziqhelekile kwizibini ezitshatileyo. Xa abantu ababini beqhelana, bayakhululeka.
Kulungile Nokuba Kuqala Impikiswano
Xa umtsha emntwini, unokuzibuza ukuba ingaba ubudlelwane bakho buya kuqhawulo emva kwengxabano enkulu. Kodwa xa uku ubudlelwane obude, uyazi ukuba uya kuba kunye nasemva komlo ombi! Ngapha koko, xa usondele emntwini, nokuba uthetha rhabaxa ngamanye amaxesha akunakuphazamisa.
Kulungile ukuba neSithuba sakho
Xa umtsha emntwini, unokuziva uphuke intliziyo okanye ungakhathalelwanga xa iqabane lakho lifuna 'ixesha lam'. Kodwa kubudlelwane bexesha elide, izibini ziyanikana indawo yokuphefumla umoya omtsha. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngokuthatha ikhefu elincinci kulo naluphi na ulwalamano ukuze ufumane ulwazi olutsha.
Uthando alusoze luphele kwifashoni
Ukuvakalisa uthando akuphelelwa lixesha okanye kuphelelwe lixesha. Ke, nakubudlelwane bexesha elide obuhlala amashumi eminyaka izibini zithi 'Ndiyakuthanda' omnye komnye. Kwaye akukho mntu unokuziva enesithukuthezi ukuthetha loo migca okanye ukumamela loo migca. Ngapha koko, yiyo loo nto ubudlelwane bexesha elide bunamandla kwaye buhlala ixesha elide!