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Ngaba ucinga ukuba abantu abathanda ubulolo bonke bayangena? Ukuba impendulo yakho nguewe, mhlawumbi uyaphazama. Ukuba wedwa akuthethi ukuba umntu usisingeniso, endaweni yoko lukhetho olwenza ukuba umntu azi ulonwabo olukhulu lokuba semhlabeni wakhe.
Iindlela ezi-5 ezilungileyo zokuKonwabela xa unesithukuthezi
Baninzi abaya kuthi bavelise noluhlu lokuba kutheni ukuba wedwa kumangalisa. Njengathi!
Nokuba unabantwana abakhohlakeleyo, ulwa neqabane, uninzi lomsebenzi wasekhaya oshiyekileyo okanye owasekhaya uzisa imisebenzi yeofisi ilindile fumana ixesha lokuhlala wedwa.
Ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba namava okuzola kokuba wedwa, wazi umphefumlo wakho.
Ukuqala kunye nokuphelisa usuku ngeeshedyuli ezixakekileyo, ukugcina ingqondo kunye nomzimba wakho uxinezelekile akuyi kukufumanela olona xolo. Kodwa, ukuchitha ixesha wedwa, usenza izinto ozithandayo ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kukunika uxolo kunye nemvisiswano yomzimba nomzimba.
Ungakufunda Njani Ukuphila Wedwa?
Ukuba uyathandabuza ukuba kutheni ukuba wedwa kuyinto eyoyikekayo, apha singakunika izizathu ezinokukunceda ukuba uzifumanele impendulo.
Ukuphumla: Ukuba wedwa kangangexesha elithile kuya kukugcina ukhululekile. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, esi sesinye sezizathu ezibaluleke kakhulu zokuba ukuba wedwa kulungile. Oku kuyakunceda uphume kuxinzelelo nobunzima bobomi bakho.
Ukuba nguwe: Xa ukunye nomntu, kuya kufuneka ukhathaze ngobukho bomntu wesibini. Kodwa, xa uwedwa, unenkululeko yokonwabela ukuba ungubani.
Xabisa ixesha: Xa uwedwa, ungashiya ingqondo yakho izulazule naphi na ngaphandle kwezithintelo. Nokuba ukhetha ntoni, akukho mntu uya kuthintela loo mzuzu wokuzonwabisa. Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba kutheni ukuhlala wedwa kuyinto eyoyikekayo, nasi esinye isizathu.
Ixesha lokuCwangcisa Ukuba wedwa kwaye ukhululeke lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuthatha izigqibo ezizizo. Oku kuya kukunika ixesha lokuthatha isigqibo sokugqibela emva kokujonga i-pros and cons. Ukuba ufuna ukwazi ukuba kutheni ukuba wedwa kumangalisa, esi sisizathu sokwenyani.
Ukuxhotyiswa ngokomoya : Xa uwedwa, kude nokungxama nokukhawuleza kwehlabathi langaphandle, uya kuba namava okwazi wena kunye nomphefumlo wakho. Eli lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuba uphucule amandla akho omoya.
Ukucamngca : Hlala kude nehlabathi elixakekileyo kangangexesha elithile kwaye uzame ukucamngca. Oku kuyakunceda ukuzigcina womelele ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni. Ixesha elifanelekileyo lokucamngca sesinye sezizathu zokuba ukuhlala uwedwa kumnandi.
Yenza Nantoni Na Oyifunayo: Ewe sithetha inyani! Yenza nantoni na oyifunayo ngaphandle kokoyika uluntu okanye ukugwetywa. Ukuba wedwa lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuba uziphathe ngaphandle kokuthintelwa yimithetho yezentlalo okanye izithintelo. Ukucinga ukuba kutheni ukuhlala wedwa kulungile? Kungenxa yokuba ukwenza nantoni na oyithandayo kunye nokuziva ngathi unguThixo kuhle kakhulu, yiyo loo nto!
Ziphephe Iziphazamiso Ukuba ufuna ukufunda incwadi oyithandayo, mamela umculo opholileyo okanye ubukele ifilimu ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka, uhlala ukhetha ukuba wedwa. Le yeyona nto intle onokuyenza ukonwabela into oyenzayo. Kwakhona esinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba kutheni ukuba wedwa kumangalisa!
Ngaba ukhe wazama ukuchitha ixesha kunye nawe? Ukuba akunjalo, zama ngoku ukonwabela ukuthula kwaye uhlale ukhululekile!