Uneenyanga ezisibhozo ukhulelwe, kwaye intle kakhulu ikhazimle. Ukugula kwakho kwasekuseni kuye kwaphela iminyaka eyadlulayo, kwaye awukho mkhulu kangangokuba uyazulazula kwaye ujongana neentlungu zangasemva (okwangoku). Ngelixa uphume kwisidlo sangokuhlwa sangoLwesihlanu esiyimfuneko kunye nomhlobo wakho, uyakukhuthaza ukuba u-odole iglasi yewayini kunye nesidlo sakho. Umntwana sele ephekile ngoku, akunjalo? Ngaphandle koko, wasela iwayini xa wayekhulelwe abantwana bakhe bobathathu, kwaye babonakala bekhulu.
Kodwa awuqinisekanga kangako. U-Ob-gyn wakho uthe akunjalo, kwaye awusoze ufune ukwenza nantoni na ukwenzakalisa umntwana wakho. Ngoko ngaba ukusela iwayini ngexesha lokukhulelwa-nokuba nje kancinane-kulungile okanye akunjalo? Nantsi yonke into esiyaziyo.
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1. Iingozi Zokusela Ngelixa Ukhulelweyo
Ngelixa kuyingxoxo-mpikiswano ukuba ngaba ii-sips ezimbalwa zewayini-okanye iglasi okanye ezimbini-zanele ukwenza ingozi kusana olungekazalwa, akuthandabuzeki ukuba ukusela kakhulu. intando ukwenzakalisa umntwana ongekazalwa. Kungenxa yokuba utywala budlula kwiindonga ze-placenta, kwandisa ingozi yesifo esiyingozi kakhulu esibizwa ngokuba yi-fetal alcohol syndrome. Ngokutsho kwe-American Pregnancy Association, i-fetal alcohol syndrome inokubangela inkitha yeziphene zokuzalwa ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kwaye le miba inokuqhubeka nokuvela emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe (yikes). Okukhona umama esela utywala, kokukhona umngcipheko wokuba umntwana abe nengxaki yokusela utywala obungekazalwa. Kwaye inxalenye ekhohlisayo? Abaphandi abakaqiniseki ngokuthe ngqo ukuba utywala obuninzi bubeka ingozi okanye xa ukukhulelwa umntwana kunokwenzeka ukuba enzekaliswa.
Ngoko ngokutsho kweAmerican Academy of Pediatrics kunye neAmerican College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, akukho xabiso lewayini ligqalwa likhuselekile ukusela ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ngenxa yokuba akukho ndlela yokumisela ngokuthe ngqo ukuba bungakanani utywala obunokuba yingozi kumfazi ngamnye, kwaye ngeliphi ixesha ngexesha lokukhulelwa, la maqela enza isindululo esisebhodini ukunqanda utywala ngokupheleleyo. Kungcono ukhuseleke kunokuba uxolo.
2. Bacinga ntoni Oogqirha?
Uninzi lwe-OB / GYNs e-US lulandela izikhokelo ze-American College of Obstetricians kunye neGynecologists, ngoko baya kukuxelela ukuba kukhuselekile ukuba ungaphuzi iwayini ngexesha lokukhulelwa, ngokolwazi olungentla. Nangona kunjalo, kwidinga lokubeleka, ugqirha wakho amandla bonisa ukuba iglasi yewayini ilungile, ukuba nje awuseli kakhulu.
Xa ndabuza ugqirha wam malunga nokuba ndingasela utywala ngexesha lokukhulelwa okanye ndingaseli, impendulo yakhe yaba 'Abafazi baseYurophu bayenza,' ibhinqa laseNew York elinomntwana onempilo yeenyanga ezi-5 wasixelela. Uye wanyusa amagxa.
Oko kwathiwa, emva kokuvota abambalwa koogqirha, asikwazanga ukufumana umntu oza kuthi, kwirekhodi, ukuba iglasi yewayini ngamaxesha athile ilungile kubasetyhini abakhulelweyo, nokuba banokuthi baxelele izigulane zabo. Kwaye eneneni, oku kwenza ingqiqo epheleleyo: Ngelixa ugqirha enokuxelela isigulana esinye esisempilweni esingenambali yeengxaki zokuzalwa ukuba kulungile ukuba neglasi encinci yewayini kanye ngeveki kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa, unokungakhululeki ukwenza le ngcebiso kwibhodi zonke izigulane zakhe (okanye, kule meko, wonke umfazi okhulelweyo kwi-intanethi).
3. Zithini iziFundo?
Nantsi into enomdla: Akukho toni yezifundo ezipapashwe malunga nabasetyhini abakhulelweyo kunye notywala, kuba oko kuya kufuna ukuba izazinzulu ziqhube iimvavanyo. kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo . Ngenxa yokuba lo msebenzi uthathwa njengomngcipheko komama neentsana, kukhuselekile ukuxelela abafazi abakhulelweyo ukuba bayeke.
Nye uphononongo lwakutsha nje eyenziwa yiYunivesithi yaseBristol ye-epidemiologist yezempilo uLuisa Zuccolo, Ph.D., yafumanisa ukuba ukusela iziselo ezimbini ukuya kwezintathu ngeveki kwandisa umngcipheko wokuzalwa kwangaphambi kwexesha nge-10 ekhulwini. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba olu phando belunqongophele, uZuccolo uthi uphando oluninzi kufuneka lwenziwe ngalo mxholo.
4. Abafazi bokwenyani balinganisela
Ngokwedatha eqokelelwe yiCDC, I-90 ekhulwini yabasetyhini abakhulelweyo eU.S. bakhwebuke etywaleni (okanye ubuncinane bathi benza kwirekhodi). EYurophu, kwelinye icala, ukusela ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwamkeleke ngakumbi. Le ncwadana yokukhulelwa yaseNtaliyane , ngokomzekelo, ithi ama-50 ukusa kuma-60 ekhulwini amabhinqa aseItali asela iziselo ezinxilisayo ebudeni bokukhulelwa.
Khumbula umama weSixeko saseNew York onomntwana oneenyanga ezi-5 osempilweni? Emva kokuthetha nogqirha wakhe, abahlobo kunye nosapho lwakhe, ekugqibeleni wagqiba ekubeni enze imbibe. Ukuba ndivela eYurophu, ndenze uvoto olukhawulezileyo lwabanye babahlobo bam ngaphesheya kwechibi kwaye uninzi lwabo baqinisekisa into ethethwe ngugqirha wam, wachaza. Umakhulu wade wandixelela ukuba wayedla iglasi yecognac rhoqo ebusuku ngoxa ekhulelwe utata! Ngoku, andizange ndiye kakhulu kude kube ngoku, kodwa emva kwekota yokuqala, ndiye ndafumana iglasi encinci yewayini kunye nesidlo sangokuhlwa- mhlawumbi ibe nye okanye ezimbini ngenyanga. Bendimane ndirhabula noba yintoni ebesela umyeni wam. Yayiyimali encinci kangangokuba andizange ndikhathazeke ngayo. Kodwa ndandichulumancile kakhulu ngokuba negilasi enkulu yewayini xa kuqalwa ukuqhawuka-into idoula yam (owayengumdlezana) kunye notitshala wethu weklasi yangaphambi kokubeleka wayendixelele ukuba ayilunganga nje ukuyenza kodwa uyancomeka kuba iyakuphumza. Ndaphela ndisebenza ngo-1 ekuseni, ngoko ke iglasi yepinot yayingeyonto yokuqala engqondweni yam.
Omnye umfazi esithethe naye, umama womntwana oneenyanga ezi-3 osempilweni, ugqibe kwelokuba kungcono ukhuseleko kunokuzisola emva kokwenza olwakhe uphando. Ndaphunyelwa sisisu, ngoko xa ndiphinda ndamitha, ndandisoyika ukuba ndiza kwenza into ebeka emngciphekweni impilo yosana lwam, nangona iingozi zincinci kakhulu, watsho. Andizange nditye iqhekeza elinye lesushi okanye iqanda elinye elibalekayo, kwaye andizange ndisele neglasi enye yewayini.
Ukuba unengxaki yokusela ngokumodareyitha, mhlawumbi kulula ukuhlala kude notywala ngokupheleleyo. Ndinento encinci yobuntu obukhoboka, omnye umama wasixelela. Ke ukuya kwi-turkey ebandayo bekumnandi kum. Andizange ndicinge ngewayini kanye ngexesha lokukhulelwa kwam.
Ngaba usela okanye ungaseli nje intwana encinci, iglasi encinci yewayini ngexesha lokukhulelwa? Ngoku uyazi zonke iinyani, ukhetho lolwakho.
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