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Abantu batshata kwiminyaka eyahlukeneyo njengokhetho. Kananjalo, akukho xesha lichanekileyo lokutshata nangona abantu beziva ukuba nangaliphi na ixesha eliphakathi kweminyaka engama-25 ukuya kwengama-30 lelona xesha lifanelekileyo lokutshata. Olu luvo ngokubanzi lwabo bonke abantu abahlala eluntwini.
Isiqhelo ekuhlaleni sikhankanya eli xesha lexesha njengeyona ilungileyo yokutshata. Kule nqaku, uza kuvavanya iingxaki zokutshata emva kwexesha, yonke imiqobo ejongene nabantu abatshatileyo abakhetha ukulibazisa umtshato wabo kwaye batshate ngexesha wonke umntu alibona 'lifike kade'.
Yintoni ebonwa njengobudala 'emva kwexesha' lokutshata?
Ewe, lixesha elidlulileyo kwiminyaka eyi-25-30 yomtshato efanelekileyo. Kumadoda, nokuba ngama-30-35 anokuba lixesha lokutshata. Iimbono ziyahluka kwaye asinako ukuxelela ukuba yeyiphi iminyaka efika emva kwexesha. Nangona kunjalo, ukuhamba ngombono woluntu ngokubanzi, iminyaka engaphezulu kwe-35 yamadoda nangaphezulu kwama-30-32 kubafazi kuthathwa njengokufika kade.
Masiqhubeke sijonge iingxaki zomtshato wasemva kwexesha kwaye umntu makaphephe ukuba nawo. Izizathu zilula kwaye ziyaziwa kodwa sihlala sizihoya ezi zizathu. Eli nqaku liza kukukhumbuza ngezi zizathu kwaye liza kukukhokela emtshatweni.
Nazi iingxaki ezisixhenxe zomtshato womtshato ocothayo.
Inzondelelo Yolutsha Iphelile
Izinto obunokuzenza ukuba ubumncinci kakuhle, loo nto yenza umtshato osekude ube lilishwa elikhulu. Inzondelelo kunye nemincili yolutsha ithatha isandi sokubetha ukuba ukhetha ukutshata emva kwexesha. Izinto onokuzenza neqabane lakho zikwanomda ngaphandle kokuba wena namaqabane akho ninomdla omkhulu kwindalo. Ukuba utshata emva kwexesha, izinto ozenzayo komncinci zibonakala ngathi kukudlala komntwana kwaye ucinga ukungakuhoyi. Kodwa ezi zinto zenziwa zizibini ezitshatileyo, zigcina ulonwabo emtshatweni ziphila kwaye zibanceda ukuba babe nolwalamano olomeleleyo.
Kwimitshato yamva nje, olu dlamko alubonakali. Amaqabane akhule ngakumbi kwaye acinga ngokwenza izinto ezenziwa ngamanye amaqabane kwiminyaka yawo. Bayayityeshela imisebenzi yezibini ezitshatileyo zokuqala. Yiyo loo nto ukudibana phakathi kwabo kungaphantsi kunabo batshatileyo ngexesha.
Imali ibaluleke kakhulu
Ayisiyiyo imeko yokuba imali ayisiyiyo eyona nto iphambili. Kodwa kwimeko yomtshato osekupheleni, ucwangciso lwezezimali luza kuqala ngaphambi kwezinye izinto ezininzi. Yonke into ixhomekeke kwezemali kunye nendlela yokulawula kunye nendlela yokwakha usapho eza emfanekisweni ngokwenza imali ibe yeyona nto iphambili kubo.
Ukukhawuleza kwabantwana
Ukukhawuleza kwabantwana yenye into esebenza njengoncedo olukhulu ekutshatweni kade. Abantwana baba sisihloko sengxoxo rhoqo kunokuba kungenjalo kwaye ngekhe uthi hayi, akunjalo? Usapho lwakho luhlala lubuza, izalamane zakho, abahlobo kunye nabantu ekuhlaleni. Imibuzo engapheliyo eza nodliwanondlebe ikwenza uzive isidingo somntwana siyinyani kwaye uqala ukungxama ukwenza umntwana.
Awuyinike Ingcinga eyaneleyo
Ukuba ubunobudlelwane neqabane lakho ixesha elifanelekileyo ngaphambi kokuba nitshate, kulungile. Uninzi lwabantu, xa kuthathelwa ingqalelo yobudala, bahamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye batshata bengakhange baqonde ngokuchanekileyo into enokubakho.
Uziva ungaqhelekanga ngesiqu sakho
Ngokuqinisekileyo uphela uziva ungaqhelekanga ngawe kuba ngequbuliso uyaqonda ukuba umhlobo wakho sele enomntwana ofunda esikolweni ngelixa usandul 'ukutshata. Kukukhathaza wena neqabane lakho. Oku kuzisa imibuzo engqondweni yakho kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uqhubeka uzifunga ngokwakho ngokungatshati kwangoko. Uyazisola ngesigqibo sokutshata kade.
Ukufumana kunzima ukunika iqabane lakho ixesha elaneleyo
Ukuba utshata emva kwexesha, amaxesha amaninzi kunokuba kunjalo, umsebenzi wakho ubaluleke kakhulu. Kungenxa yokuba ngenxa yobudala, kuba nzima kuwe ukutshintsha imigca yomsebenzi kwaye uxhomekeke kakhulu emsebenzini wakho. Oku kukwenza unikezele kwiimfuno zomsebenzi wakho, nokuba zingenangqondo kangakanani, zingavumeli ixesha elaneleyo kwiqabane lakho.
Ukunciphisa umsebenzi wezesondo
Uxinzelelo entloko yakho ukulungelelanisa izinto aluvumeli isenzo esifanelekileyo sesondo. Ngaphaya koko, i-testosterone iyaphela kunye nobudala, emadodeni kwaye ulonwabo alufani xa wawusemncinci. Kwibhinqa, umnqweno wesenzo sokwabelana ngesondo uyehla kunye nobudala. Ukuncitshiswa kwemisebenzi yesondo emva koko iba sisizathu sokuqalekisana kunye nokutshata kade.
Ezi zizathu ziyasixelela, umtshato kufanele ukuba ucwangciswe kakuhle kwaye kufuneka wenziwe ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Awunakho ukutshata nje nangaliphi na ixesha. Umzimba wakho, ingqondo yakho kunye nezinye izinto zibaluleke kakhulu emtshatweni. Awunakho ukubaphepha nje. Sele nditshilo, umtshato sisenzo sabantu ababini abahlanganayo kwaye ukuba kwenzeka ngaphambili kungcono.
Ukuba ukuthandile ukufunda eli nqaku, nika ingxelo yakho ngezantsi kwicandelo lokuphawula.
Thetha nam ukuba unayo nayiphi na imibuzo esekwe kubudlelwane. Ungandibhalela ku-boldsky@oneindia.co.in
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