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Ngaba uyazibuza ukuba ungazidibanisa njani nesoka lakho? Ewe, ukuqhekeka kunye nokuchaphazeleka kuyinxalenye yomdlalo. Awudingi ukuba ngequbuliso uqhekeke ukuba ukwahlukana kuyakothusa. Ngapha koko, ukuba ucacile entlokweni yakho malunga nobudlelwane kunye neemfuno zakho, unokuqhuba izinto ngendlela yakho. Ukuba unqwenela ukumsusa, lelo libali elahlukileyo. Kodwa ukuba ucacile ukuba ufuna lo mfo, kuya kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo athile ngokukhawuleza kwaye ukhethe iqhosha lokukhetha ukuze ulawule umonakalo kwangoko.
Ngexesha lamanqanaba okuqala alo naluphi na ulwalamano, omabini amaqabane athambekele ekuhlaleni omnye komnye. Kodwa njengokuba ixesha lihamba, omabini amaqabane aqala ukuthathana ngokungakhathali kwaye kuxa kwenzeka ikhefu ngokubanzi. Ukuba ubukhathalele ngokwenene ubudlelwane, kuya kufuneka usebenze kwiindawo ezithile kwaye uqinisekise ukuba zihlala ixesha elide. Kodwa ngaphambi koko, kufuneka uqale ubambe iqhosha kunye nenkwenkwe yakho. Inkqubo iya kuba lula kakhulu, ukuba umthanda ngokwenene ngaphakathi entliziyweni yakho.
Nazi iingcebiso ezi-5 zokudibanisa isoka:
Ukufikelela: Nangona kulungile ukusika unxibelelwano ngamanye amaxesha emva kokuqhekeka, kubalulekile ukumisela unxibelelwano emva kwexesha elithile. Ukuba nobabini nithe cwaka ixesha elide, thatha inyathelo lokuqala kwaye uqhekeze umkhenkce. Nokuba uyamthumela umyalezo okanye umfownele uthi 'molo'. Izinto ziyakulunga ukuba ubeke i-ego yakho ecaleni kwaye umbize ngokungakhathali ngokungathi akukho nto yenzekileyo. Endaweni yokuchitha ixesha uzibuza ukuba uza kudibanisa njani nesoka, thatha inyathelo ngokukhawuleza.
Uxolo: Sonke siyazenza iimpazamo kwaye leyo yinxalenye yobuntu. Ukuba umntu othandana naye wenze into ekucaphukisileyo, kungcono umxolele entliziyweni yakho kwaye ulibale iimpazamo zakhe. Ukuba wenze into emcaphukisileyo, cela uxolo. Musa ukuthandabuza. Uyakuva ulula xa uthe waxolisa.
Iimbambano: Qinisekisa ukuba awuthethi nantoni na enokuphikisana xa ulungisa. Sukubanjwa ziimpikiswano njengoko zinetyhefu kulwalamano lwakho. Eyona njongo iphambili yesiphene kukuphinda kwakhiwe ubudlelwane. Ke, qiniseka ukuba awuwonakalisi umdlalo ngokumba amathambo amadala.
Umange: Ukwanga umntu omnye kuphilisa amanxeba aliwaka. Ewe, umntu othandana naye uyakuthanda ukuwola. Mnike enye xa usiya kufuna isiziba. Ngapha koko, le yenye yezona ngcebiso zilungileyo zokudibanisa nesoka.
Mcele ngaphandle: Ukuchitha ixesha elisemgangathweni kunye nesoka lakho kubaluleke kakhulu ngakumbi xa utshatile. Cwangcisa uhambo olonwabisayo okanye iqela lolwandle xa ugqiba inkqubo yokudibanisa. Ukusondelelana kwezothando kudlala indima ebaluleke kakhulu ekomelezeni amaqhina.
Ngoku, uyayiqonda indlela yokudibanisa isoka lakho? Kulungile, phatha ubudlelwane bakho ngenkathalo ukusukela ngoku. Isiziba emva kokwahlukana kufanele ukuba someleze iqhina lakho. Apho kukho umyolelo, kukho indlela. Ukuba uzimisele ukubuyela kuye, uya kuyazi indlela yokudibanisa.