Amashumi amane ngama-30 amatsha Kulungile ukuguqula u4-0 omkhulu. Ufeze okuninzi, kwaye ulungile apho ufuna ukuba khona. Kodwa ukudideka kokufumana eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokubhiyozela le ngqungquthela kukukubuyisela kwisiphithiphithi esingenasiphelo se-20s yakho (ungasiphathi kakubi, ukuba i-24 yayimnandi, kodwa i-Mountain Dew kunye ne-mango vodka?). Ungaphindi ukhathazeke-size neengcinga ezahlukeneyo ezingama-40 zetheko lomhla wokuzalwa eliya kwenza lo nyaka ube yinto ekhunjulwayo. (Ingcebiso yePro: bhukisha umzanyana wakho ngoku.)
UDaniel Limpi / EyeEm / Getty Images1. Renta i-roller-skating rink
Isenokungabonakali njengeyona ngcamango yantlandlolo ehlabathini, kodwa ngubani okhathalayo? Yiyo ulonwabo, ngakumbi xa une-rink yonke kuwe kunye neqela lakho lasendle-okanye elimnandi kakhulu. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukuzibophelela kulo mbono, mema abahlobo bakho kunye nosapho ukuba banxibe. Ingaba i-'70s-themed, '80s-themed okanye i-Halloween khetha i-adventure yakho, ukongeza i-costume element kuya kuthatha eli qela liye kwinqanaba elilandelayo.2. Yiya enkampini
Konke okufunayo kwi-40th yakho kukuphuma kwi-dodge kunye ne-decompress entlango. Ke…kutheni ungahambi nabantu obathandayo? Ukuba abasebenzi bakho sele bezaliswe ziipros zenkampu, gcina nje izizathu ofuna ukuhlala kuzo kwaye uxelele wonke umntu ukuba eze nezinto zabo (kunye neemarshmallows ezongezelelweyo). Ukuba inkampu intsha kuwe, jonga kwiinketho zeqela ezinamalungiselelo okulala kunye neegrill esele zisekiwe. Kwaye ukuba unomdla, phanda iisayithi ze-glamping ezikufutshane nawe. Akukho mntu uthe kufuneka urhabaxa ukuze wonwabele uMama weNdalo.
3. Qasha i-Airbnb kwiiyure ezimbalwa ukusuka
An Ngaphantsi kweLanga laseTuscan umzuzu ngokuqinisekileyo uya kumangalisa. Kodwa awunalo ixesha okanye imali yokuzithumela kunye ne-16 yabahlobo bakho abathandekayo kwi-soiree yamazwe ngamazwe (singasathethi ke ngokuhlawula ukunakekelwa kwabantwana, yikes). Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukubaleka. Siqikelela ukuba uhambo olufutshane, kwiiyure nje ezimbalwa okanye kunjalo, lunokukumisa kwindlu entle eselunxwemeni, kwindawo entle yokuhlala esezintabeni okanye nakwindawo ekufutshane neshishini lewayini. Ikhaya eliqeshisayo kwindawo efana nale, ngakumbi ngexesha lexesha lamagxa, linokuba mnandi kwaye iyafikeleleka.
4. Livolontiya kwinto oyikhathaleleyo
Endaweni yeejezi ze-cashmere kunye nezatifikethi zesipho, cela abantu obathandayo ukuba bathathe inxaxheba ekuncedeni isizathu esisondeleyo entliziyweni yakho. Isenokuba livolontiya ekhitshini lesuphu, ukwakha ibala lokudlala loluntu olungakhathalelwanga okanye ukufundisa abantwana. Nokuba yintoni na, wena kunye neqela lakho ningenza umahluko (kwaye niyokusela iziselo emva koko).
10'000Hours / Getty Images5. Thatha iklasi yobumba
Uyenzile rhoqo bendifuna ithuba lakho evilini. Kwakubonakala ngathi…kupholile! Isilumkiso se-Spoiler: Kunzima kakhulu kunokuba kukhangeleka, kodwa ayisosizathu sokuba awukwazi ukungcolisa izandla zakho. Jonga izitudiyo zodongwe ezikufutshane nawe ezibonelela ngezifundo zeqela. Ukuba ufuna ixesha elinye-on-enye kunye nomqeqeshi, gcina iqela elincinci elincinci.6. Yenza itheko elincinci lesidlo sangokuhlwa
Uyakuthanda ukupheka kunye nokusingatha. Ke nokuba uyigcina ilula ngeeresiphi zebhetshi ezinkulu okanye unxibe umnqwazi wompheki wakho, uthulile iirekeni kwaye ubethe iisoufflé ezingama-20 ezivuyiswe ngokugqibeleleyo, itheko elincinci lesidlo sangokuhlwa kwikhaya lakho lusuku lokuzalwa olumangalisayo lwama-40. ukhetho lweqela. Kwaye, ukuba wenza konke ukupheka, cela iindwendwe zakho ukuba zize newayini.
7. Qasha umpheki wabucala
Okanye mhlawumbi awufuni kuzipheka ngokwenene. Yiza nompheki onetalente ukuze alungiselele isidlo sangokuhlwa esimnandi. Ngokuxhomekeke kwincinci oyigcinayo itheko, isenokungabi yindleko njengoko unokucinga. Kwaye ayisiyonto intle ukucinga ngokutya ukutya kweenkwenkwezi ezintlanu kwikhaya lakho ukuba awunanto yakwenza nayo? Amaphupha ayenzeka.
8. Cwangcisa iqela le-pizza kunye ne-sommelier
Uyayonwaba ngokudlala kumacala omabini embonakalo ephezulu esezantsi-unokuthetha malunga nokusetyenziswa kwelensi ye-fisheye IFavorite imini yonke, kodwa uphinda wenze ixesha layo yonke ifranchise kwi Abafazi basekhaya bokwenyani indalo iphela. Oku kusizisa kwipizza ethobekileyo kunye newayini emnandi. Ewe, lubizo lwakho ngokufutshane. Oda kwipizza kwindawo oya kuyo, kwaye uqeshe i-som ngokubuza kufutshane nevenkile yakho yewayini, indawo yokutyela eneenkwenkwezi ezintlanu okanye iisnobs zewayini zikaFacebook.
Imifanekiso yeqhawe/Imifanekiso kaGetty9. Cwangcisa i-potluck
Yenza izinto zibe lula kuwe kwaye ucele wonke umntu angene ngaphakathi. Ubonelela ngendawo, indawo kunye nexesha, kwaye wonke umntu uzisa ukutya. (Qinisekisa ukuba kukho umntu osemsebenzini wekeyiki yokuzalwa, kulungile?)10. Bhukisha igumbi labucala kwindawo yokutyela oyithandayo
Yinto oyithandayo ngesizathu-ukutya kuhlala kumnandi, inkonzo intle kwaye amaxabiso akophuli ibhanki. Uya khona kanye ngeveki kunye neqabane lakho okanye usapho lwakho, kodwa kutheni ungabaniki ishishini lokubamba itheko elikhulu? Kwaye ukuba bayakwazi njengomthengi oqhelekileyo, amathuba okuba baphose kwezinye izinto ukuze bamanzise impempe yakho.
11. Okanye u-odole kwindawo yokutyela oyithandayo
Kulungile, ngoko ke indawo yokutyela ethandwayo yi-300 yeenyawo zesikwere kunye nenkonzo yekhawuntara kuphela. Xa kunjalo, zise indawo yokutyela oyithandayo kuwe. Oda isimbo sosapho kwaye usete i-buffet ekhitshini lakho ngesitshixo esisezantsi kodwa ubusuku obuyiyum.
12. Tyelela umzi wotywala
Ukuba ubusoloko ufuna ukubona indlela isoseji eyenziwa ngayo-kodwa ingenagazi kangako-ndwendwela indawo ethengisa utywala yasekhaya. Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yiBudweiser okanye iCoors Light, ihlala incinci ibrewery, okona kumnandi. Kwaye amathuba kukuba kunye nezinye iinqwelomoya ezinkulu zebhiya ezinye iimenyu ezinkulu.
13 Yiya kungcamla iwayini
Akukho nto ifana nokutyelela isidiliya okanye indawo yokuthengisa iwayini ukungcamla imveliso kwindawo ekufutshane. Ngoxa i-Napa ilungele i-primo vino, kukho ininzi ye-wineries kunye nezidiliya kulo lonke ilizwe. Ngena ukuze ubone ukuba ungenza ugcino lweqela phambi kokuba uphume.
14. Yosa ikofu yakho
Ubungenakuphila ngaphandle kwentsasa yakho-kunye ne-3 p.m-yokunyusa i-caffeine. Kwaye ngoku xa ugqiba iminyaka engama-40, ayiloxesha lilungileyo lokufunda ukuba zenziwa njani ezi zinto? Ukuthatha iklasi yokosa ikofu kwivenkile yakho yekofu yendawo akusayi kuba luncedo kakhulu kodwa kumnandi kakhulu.
15. Yenza intlama emuncu
Njengoko sikhula, sityekela ekuqaliseni ukuxabisa ezona zinto zicolekileyo nezilula—njengesonka esimuncu esibhakwe kakuhle. Ngoko bhalisela iklasi yokubhaka i-sourdough ukuze ufunde indlela okwenziwa ngayo oku bumnandi (inzima kakhulu kwaye inomdla kunokuba ucinga) kwaye ubuye ekhaya kunye nesonka esitsha sokusika ekuseni kwisidlo sakusasa.
Imifanekiso yeqhawe/Imifanekiso kaGetty16. Karaoke intliziyo yakho ngaphandle
Gcina igumbi. Odola iibhekile zebhiya. Kwaye yiba nengoma yakho oya kuyo ilungile.17. Yiya kwimuvi
Ugqibele nini ukuya kwindawo yemiboniso bhanyabhanya kwaye waodola iipopcorn kunye neCoke? Thenga umqolo wamatikiti kwaye uze nosapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo bakho kumdlalo waphakathi wemini.
18. Okanye urentise iholo yeqonga
Ezinye iithiyetha, njenge-Alamo Drafthouse kwizixeko ezahlukahlukeneyo kwilizwe lonke, zikuvumela ukuba uqeshe ithiyetha kwaye ubonise imuvi oyikhethayo kubo bonke abahlobo bakho. (Kuya kuba njalo Umanyano Lwabo , enkosi kakhulu.) Elona candelo liswiti lelokuba, ngenxa yokuba yindawo yesidlo sangokuhlwa, unganika abahlobo bakho ukutya neziselo ngelixa belapho.
19. Bamba ubusuku bomdlalo
Ukhe wadlala iiSettlers of Catan kanye kwaye ngoku ulikhoboka. Yenza ubusuku bonke ngokumema abanye abahlobo bakho abadlala ibhodi okanye abaqalayo ukuba bafunde umdlalo owuthandayo.
20. Hamba kwi-bowling
Ayikhe ivakale imnandi ephepheni njengoko injalo. Yahlula iqela lakho libe ngamaqela ukuya kukhuphiswano, okanye ukhethe iibumpers kunye nebhiya eyongezelelweyo ukugcina izinto zimnandi.
21. Gcoba kwiqela lezemidlalo
Imisitho yezemidlalo inetheko elakhelwe kuyo. Nokuba ngumdyarho wogqatso, umdlalo webhola yomnyazi omncinci weligi okanye kwibhola ekhatywayo yasekholejini, khusela izihlalo ezithile kwi-bleachers (okanye izihlalo zebhokisi ukuba uyathanda) kunye neengcambu, ingcambu, ingcambu yeqela lasekhaya.
22. Yiba nobusuku kwimyuziyam
Khumbula eso siganeko apho uRoss noRachel besenza khona kwindawo yeplanethi? Ewe, musa ukuyenza loo nto. Kodwa jonga ngobusuku obudala okanye amalungu kwimyuziyam yendawo yakho, okanye ubuze malunga nokurenta indawo yomsitho wabucala. Iicocktails kwiphiko laseYiputa? Ungakhathazeki xa sisenza.
Imifanekiso yeqhawe/Imifanekiso kaGetty23. Cwangcisa ikhefu lokufika
Uye waba nayo San Miguel de Allende engqondweni yakho unyaka wonke. Kodwa ulucwangcisa njani uhambo lwamazwe ngamazwe lokuzalwa? Ke, akufuneki. Ibizwa ngokuba yiholide yokuyeka, kwaye iminyaka eyiwaka ibenze into. Ekuphela kwento ekufuneka uyenzile kukubhukisha indawo yakho yohambo kwaye umeme abantu ukuba bazibandakanye nawe kuyo nantoni na enengqiqo kubo. Becinga ngohambo lwakho, banokubhukisha uhambo lwabo kunye neendawo zokuhlala kwaye mhlawumbi bazenzele ezabo izicwangciso. Wonke umntu wenza into ayifunayo kwaye intombazana yokuzalwa ifumana ukubona abahlobo. Kulula!24. Cwangcisa ‘uhambo olude lwesandwich yeham’ ngobusuku
Ulivile ibinzana elithi uhambo olude lwesandwich ye-ham, mhlawumbi emva kokubalisa ibali elide ngokwenene elinesiphelo esingenasiphelo? (Sonke sikhona.) Kulungile, kutheni ungacwangcisi uhambo olude lokwenyani lwesonka seham…okanye ezininzi? Mema iqela labahlobo bakho ukuba bathathe inxaxheba kwisangweji yesandwich apho abathathi-nxaxheba batyatyadula ngokwabo kwisandwich yeham (mhlawumbi kunye ne-cocktail yotyikityo). Nokuba iqela liyahamba na, ii-Ubers okanye iibhayisekile ukusuka ekhaya ukuya ekhaya kuxhomekeke kuwe.
25. Thatha uhambo lomhlobo osenyongweni kuphela
Uxinzelelo lokwenza itheko elikhulu luyinyani. Kodwa kwabanye bethu, ingcinga yomntu wonke esimaziyo kwigumbi elinye yanele ukusenza sifune ukukhasa phantsi kwetafile kwaye singaze siphume. Yenza izinto zibe lula ngokugcina itheko lakho libe kubahlobo bakho abahlanu okanye abathandathu kuphela abasenyongweni. Yiphakamisele phezulu ngokudibanisa wonke umntu kwindlu yeeholide okanye kwihotele yodidi—amaqabane aquka (okanye hayi).
Imifanekiso yeSolStock/Getty26. Bamba iKlabhu ethi 'Incinci yezinto zonke'
Ukuba unenjongo yokuququzelela iklabhu yeencwadi okanye into enjalo, i-Little Bit ye-Yonke into yeKlabhu inokuba ilungile. Isiseko emva kwe-ALBEC ifana nebhulabhu yeencwadi, kodwa akunjalo nje iklabhu yeencwadi. Endaweni yoko, umamkeli ukhetha kwizinto ezahlukeneyo ukuze abathathi-nxaxheba benze, nokuba ufunda inqaku elide elide (okanye nje eliqhelekileyo!), Ukupheka iresiphi enomdla kunye, ukumamela isiqendu sepodcast, ukudlala ividiyo entsha. umdlalo, njl. Njengoko ungayifundi yonke incwadi, abantu abaninzi baya kukwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba! Kwaye ngubani owaziyo? Mhlawumbi uya kuqalisa isithethe esitsha.27. Yiba netheko ‘lokungafoni’
Kufana nepati eqhelekileyo, kodwa ngaphandle kweziphazamiso zesikrini sakho. Ewe, uqokelela iifowuni zomntu wonke. Hayi, awukubambisi (ungayenza ukuze nabani na akwazi ukufikelela ngokulula kwiifowuni zabo ukuba ufuna njalo), kodwa umema iindwendwe zakho ukuba zibekho kwaye zibandakanyeke. Isenokuphelela ekubeni ibe yinto ebethayo, isenokungaphumeleli ngokupheleleyo, kodwa hee, ubuncinci uzinika i-banter elungileyo yokuqalisa ubusuku nayo, akunjalo?
28. Yiba netheko lesinxibo
Ngubani okhathalayo ukuba usuku lwakho olukhulu luhlala malunga neHalloween okanye hayi? Ukunxiba ku ulonwabo . Nika iindwendwe zakho ngomxholo (ishumi leminyaka, inkcubeko yepop, njl.njl.) okanye ubavumele bakhethe i-adventure yabo.
Pakorn Kumruen / EyeEm/Getty Imifanekiso29. Bamba ubusuku bekhasino
Ukuzisa isiXeko esincinci saseAtlantic kuwe kulula kunokuba kuvakala. Nab a poker kunye/okanye roulette ilaphu elivela eAmazon, odola ukutya kwaye uvumele imidlalo iqale. Unokude uphakamise i-stakes (uyifumane?) ngokuqesha umthengisi oqeqeshiweyo. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na, nangona kunjalo, indlu iyaphumelela.30. Yiza nomfundi wekhadi letarot
Isenokuvakala ngathi yi-woo-woo encinci, kodwa uya kumangaliswa ukuba iindwendwe zepati yakho ziya kuthontelana njani ukuze amakhadi azo afundwe. Nokuba ubamba i-shindig kwikhaya lakho okanye uzisa izinto kwindawo, ukwaphula isihlwele ngokuzonwabisa komntu omnye kukusingatha itheko 101.
31. Funda izazi ngeenkwenkwezi
Kwangolo hlobo, uya kumangaliswa kukufunda ukuba uMalume uFred uyazi ukuba lilanga loMhlaza, i-Aries ephumayo kunye nenyanga yeScorpio. Ukumema isazi ngeenkwenkwezi kwiqela lakho yindlela entle yokuphatha iindwendwe zakho ngexesha lam lobuqu njengoko zifunda iitshathi zazo. Kwaye ngubani ongathandi ukuva ukuba iSaturn kwiPisces iya kuchaphazela njani imali yabo? (Qinisekisa ukuba uxelela iindwendwe zakho ukuba zize zilungiselelwe kanye neyure kunye nendawo ezizalwe kuyo.)
32 Uqeshe igqirha
Kukho iinketho ezimbini nale. Ungaya kwi-cliché, umlingo omkhulu we-cheesy-akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngaloo nto. Okanye, ungafumana inkohliso yale mihla enomnqwazi ongaphezulu kunye needyasi ezingaphezulu kunye neblazer yaseZara entle. Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, qiniseka ukuba uyalifumana ithuba lokukhetha ikhadi, naliphi na ikhadi.
33. Hamba uye kujuxuza
Unokuba nomqolo obuhlungu kunye neenyawo ezithe tyaba ezingasakwaziyo ukunxiba i-stilettos. Kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukuphuma uye edolophini kwaye unqumle umbhoxo. Fumana iklabhu enikezela ngobusuku be-'80s (okanye nayiphi na i-jams ongenayo.) Okanye, ukuba ingcinga yomgangatho wokudanisa ogcwele abantu abaneminyaka engama-20 ubudala ucebile kakhulu kwigazi lakho, qesha u-DJ ukuba ajikeleze kwiqela lakho labucala. - okanye heck, nakwigumbi lakho elingaphantsi.
Artur Debat / Getty Imifanekiso34. Chitha imini kwi-spa yaseKorea
Into eyonwabisayo malunga nespas ezininzi zaseKorea kukuba zibonelela ngokumangalisayo kumaqela amakhulu-ukukunika umbono, iSpa Castle eQueens yi-100,000 square-fiet. Cinga: ukukhuhla umzimba, ii-saunas, iibhafu zomphunga, i-massage kunye nokunye. Gcina ukhumbula ukuba iinkonzo ezininzi zezesini esifanayo kuphela. Ke ukuba ubamba itheko labasetyhini bonke, oku kungagqibelela.35 Yenze ibe yimfihlelo yokubulala
Ungabamba itheko lesidlo sangokuhlwa esidala…okanye ungabamba itheko lesidlo sangokuhlwa apho kukho umntu okhoyo wabulawa . Ukuphakama komdla kumava ayimfihlo okubulala kuthetha ukuba kukho into eninzi onokukhetha kuyo kwindawo yakho. Nokuba intsebenzo (spoiler: akukho mntu ubulawa ngokwenene) iza kuwe okanye uye kubo, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuba sisidlo sangokuhlwa kunye nomboniso.
36. Thatha uhambo
Ngaba uyafuna ukufumana ikeyiki yokuzalwa? Ewe, ngoku ukuba ngokwenene zi phezu kwenduli, kutheni unganyuki enye? Akunyanzelekanga ukuba ibe yi-Everest (okanye i-basecamp), kodwa fumana uhambo lokuhamba kufutshane nawe apho wonke umntu okwitheko lakho angathatha inxaxheba. Pakisha umxube womzila kunye namanzi endlela kwaye ubhiyozele ingqungquthela yakho ngee-PB&Js ezithandekayo kunye neefoto ezintle kakhulu. ngaphezulu.
37. Ipikiniki epakini
Kodwa yenza njalo ukuya mdaka. Oku kuthetha ukufanisa amalaphu etafile, iibhasikithi ezithandekayo, itshizi evela kwimarike yendawo yamafama kunye newayini eyaneleyo yokwanelisa umkhosi omncinci. Akunjalo ekuhlaleni phantsi? Kulungile ukuza netafile yakho.
IiShots ezinkulu/Imifanekiso kaGetty38. Lungiselela usuku lwentsimi
Oku konke malunga nostalgia. Thepha kwezo nkumbulo zesikolo samabanga aphantsi ngokuququzelela i-50-yard dash, umdlalo wokubamba iflegi, umtsi omde, ibhola yokukhaba nokunye. Uzisa izixhobo kunye nosompempe abangakhethi cala (heyi, kulungile ukubuza abanye ububele bomhla wokuzalwa), kwaye usapho lwakho kunye nabahlobo banokuzisa isimo sengqondo esinempilo sokhuphiswano. Iintloko phezulu nangona: Ukokwa epakini kunyanzelekile ukunceda wonke umntu agcwalise amandla emva koko.39. Balekani ugqatso
Ubungena kwimilo kwaye ngoku ulungele ukuqhuba loo 3K! Hayi indlela okuvuyisa ngayo! Kutheni ungamemi iimbaleki ezingoogxa bakho ukuba zingenelele? Ngokukodwa ukuba ukubaleka kungenxa yesizathu esihle, uya kumangaliswa kukuba bangaphi abahlobo bakho kunye namalungu osapho angatsibela ebhodini ukuze enze umbhiyozo omncinci womhla wokuzalwa.
40.Yenzela itheko elingalindelekanga…ukwenzela abahlobo bakho
Eli lelinye inqanaba elilandelayo lokusingatha, kodwa nantsi eyona nto: Umema abahlobo, ibenye ngexesha, kwinto abayenzayo. cinga sisiganeko esikruqulayo (uthi, isidlo sangokuhlwa sokuthetha ngesindululo sePTA). Emva koko, xa befika apho…Mmangaliso! Litheko lakho lokuzalwa leminyaka engama-40! Qiniseka nje ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo ngokwaneleyo ukuba iindwendwe aziyi kubanjwa zikhuselekile sisinxibo, kwaye qiniseka ukuba zinendlela ekhuselekileyo yokufika ekhaya emva koko.
ENXULUMENEYO: Iimuvi wonke umntu obhinqileyo kufuneka azibone ngaphambi kokuba abe neminyaka engama-40
