Kukho obuthathaka, lowo unesitayile esihle kunye nonyango olungagunyaziswanga. Hayi, asithethi ngamadoda we Queer Eye ; sithetha ngeqela lomhlobo wakho. Ngaba uyafuna ukuqonda unxibelelwano phakathi kwakho nolwakho lwesihlanu? Ungajongi ngapha nangapha Myers-Briggs Uhlobo Isalathisi (MBTI ngokufutshane). Nantsi uhlobo lomhlobo oyiyo, ngokusekelwe kwiMyers-Briggs yakho.
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INTJ: Umcebisi
Njengolunye lwezona ntlobo zizimeleyo, zabucala kunye nezicwangcisiweyo kwi-MBTI, unomdla wokwenza uqhagamshelo lwengqondo olukhethwe ngononophelo kunokuba ubaleke kunye nesangqa esikhulu sabantu ongabaziyo. Xa kufikwa kwinkxaso yeemvakalelo, awungoyena ukhululekileyo ngeemvakalelo okanye intliziyo eshushu kunye nefuzzy-to-ntliziyo (impoxo kunye noburharha obumnyama bungaphezulu kwi-wheelhouse yakho), kodwa izakhono zakho zokujonga kunye nokunyaniseka kuthetha ukuba wonke umntu uza kuwe ukuze afumane iingcebiso. -idiniwe, kodwa kufanelekile.
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I-INTP: I-One-on-One
Ukuthiyile ukwenza izicwangciso… kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba ubathiyile abahlobo bakho, abanokuthi babelane ngokuhlalutya okufanayo kunye notyekelo lwemfundo njengawe. Kwisangqa sakho esingaphakathi, ungumhlobo othembekileyo owenza ukusilela kwenkxaso yeemvakalelo ngobutyebi besikhokelo esinengqiqo (singasathethi ke ngencoko exhokonxa iingcinga). Awungomntu wentetho encinci okanye intlebendwane (kwaye unokubonakala uzimele), kodwa akukho nto ikwenza ube nencoko ngakumbi kunemidla ekwabelwana ngayo okanye ithiyori yobukrelekrele ephakamileyo.
Jacobs Stock Photography Ltd/Getty ImifanekisoENTJ: Umyili wezakhiwo
Unokulindela okuphezulu, ENTJ, kwaye awukhangeli igxalaba lokulila. Kodwa uyinkokeli enomdla kwaye xa ufumana iqela lakho, ulapha ibhondi . Njengomcwangcisi wendalo, uhlala ukhokela nayiphi na indibano yentlalontle elandelayo, kwaye unamathele kwizibophelelo; kumntu wangaphandle, oku kunokufunda njengento eyoyikisayo, kodwa nabani na owaziyo uyakuthanda ngenxa yoko.
UTom Werner/Imifanekiso kaGettyENTP: Iqabane Sparring
Njengomxoxisi we-MBTI, uyingcaphephe yokuvakala kwezimvo zabo bonke abanye abantu. Kwaye nangona oku kunokuvela njengokuxambulisana okanye uluvo, abahlobo bakho bayazi ukuba uthanda incoko encinci ephilayo. Kuba unxibelelana kakuhle, ulungile ngokumangalisayo ekusebenzisaneni nazo zonke iintlobo zobuntu ... kodwa unobunzima bokunxulumana kwinqanaba leemvakalelo nomntu ngamnye.
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INFJ: Ingelosi
Njengomhlali ogqithisekileyo kwi-introvert, ucinga ukuba ulapho kubahlobo bakho kubaluleke kakhulu. Kwaye ayingobahlobo bakho, ngabalingane bakho bomphefumlo, dammit. Kodwa njengeyona inqabileyo ye-MBTI, awubazi uninzi lwabanye ababelana ngale mvakalelo. Ukuba kukhe kuvakale ngathi uthandwa kakhulu kunokuba ubungathanda, kungenxa yokuba abahlobo bakho bakubona njengamandla obomi akhuthaza ngokunyanisekileyo. Bayakuthanda; ungayithathi ngokobuqu kakhulu!
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Umntu ozinikele entliziyweni, uhlala ebaphakamisa abo bakungqongileyo. Kodwa ngenxa yokuba ezo zithethe zingena nzulu, ubudlelwane bakho obunentsingiselo bumbalwa kwaye buphakathi ... kodwa uthanda ngolo hlobo-ukunxibelelana kakhulu noluntu kuyaphela. Ngaphandle kokungeniswa kwakho ngokucokisekileyo, ubuntununtunu bakho kunye nokuqonda ngokweemvakalelo kuthetha ukuba wenza unxibelelwano ngokulula kwaye udibanise abantu ngokufanayo. Ufana nokutya okuthuthuzelayo kweqela lomhlobo wakho: Kuyathuthuzela, ukusuka entliziyweni kunye nolonwabo lokwenyani ukuba kufutshane.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniI-ENFJ: I-Cheerleader
Ukuba umntu uza kukhokela isemina ukugcina ubuhlobo, kuya kuba wena, ENFJ. Ulunge kakhulu kuyo. Kuyanceda ukuba ukhathalele ngokwenene ukwazi abantu kwaye ubancede baphumelele. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo abahlobo bakho bayalincoma ithemba kunye namandla owazisa etafileni, kodwa abantu ongabaziyo banokungakwazi ukuhambisana nomdla wakho. (Abakholelwa ukuba yinyani.)
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ENFP: IGenie
Ngenxa yokuba unomdla onjalo wokwazi bonke abantu obaziyo—abanokrwece nabaqalayo ngokufanayo—unohlobo olukhethekileyo lomlingo olutsala abantu ukuba baphume kumaqokobhe abo. Ukuba nengqondo evulekileyo akukhathazi, kananjalo. Uyaziwa ngokubandakanyeka kakhulu kubomi babahlobo bakho, kodwa unokuba yinto enqwenelekayo kakhulu, kwaye xa bephoxa, uthatha ngokwakho. Ngokomntu kakhulu. Khumbula, kuninzi kwakho onokuthi unikele ngako, ENFP.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniISTJ: Umntu onyanisekileyo
Akukho mntu uya kukubiza ngokuzenzekelayo, kodwa ungathanda ukuba uthembeke kwaye unyaniseke, nangona kunjalo. Uyacotha ukwenza abahlobo, kodwa ihlala ihlawula xa isiphelo-isiphumo sisiqaqobana sobudlelwane obunzulu bomntu. Usisitshixo esiphantsi kakhulu kuninzi lwabahlobo bakho, kodwa ikwanguye osoloko elandela, nokuba kungenxa yezicwangciso zesidlo sangokuhlwa somzuzu wokugqibela okanye uhambo olukhankanywe kwiinyanga ezidlulileyo.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniISFJ: Mama
Ukuqwalasela indlela ofudumele ngayo kwaye ukhusela ngayo, akumangalisi ukuba wonke umntu akujonge njengomntu oqinisekisayo. Usondele kakhulu kubantu obabona rhoqo (njengomntu osebenza naye okanye umfundi ofunda naye we-yoga), kwaye kubo, ungumcebisi wenqanaba lokuqala kunye nomkhuseli onoburhalarhume. Kodwa ukunyaniseka kuneengxaki zako, kwaye utyekele ekutyesheleni iimfuno zakho zabanye-akukho nalinye lawona magama ongawathandiyo.
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Umzila ligama lakho eliphakathi, ESTJ, kwaye lisebenza kubuhlobo bakho, kwakhona. Isangqa sakho sichazwa kakhulu yimisebenzi efanayo kunayo nantoni na, kwaye mhlawumbi unokuninzi okufanayo nabahlobo bakho. Oko kwenza ukucwangcisa imicimbi yentlalo lula (ufana noKris Kardashian thabatha iqhinga), kodwa inokukushiya ufuna kwisebe lezantlukwano. Enye inkcaso enobuhlobo iya kukukhupha kwiqamza lakho.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniESFJ: USanta Claus
Yipha, yipha, yipha: Yisuti yakho eyomeleleyo. Uyaziwa ngokuba ngumthombo othe rhoqo wenkuthazo kunye nenkxaso yeemvakalelo phakathi kwabahlobo bakho, kwaye uya kuzama kangangoko ukuqinisekisa ulonwabo lwabo. Uziva usekhaya kwiqela elikhulu labantu, kwaye ngokungafaniyo neentlobo ezingeniswayo, unamandla angaphezu kwaneleyo okugcina ubudlelwane obuninzi-enyanisweni, zizinto ezikunika amandla kwindawo yokuqala.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniISTP: ILiwa elidadayo
Kunzima ukucinezela, ISTP, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokuba ulungile ekuhambeni nokuhamba. Oko kuthetha ukuba akunangxaki yokuqhelana; bubuhlobo bokwenyani-blue obunzima ngakumbi. Kodwa xa ubafumana abo bantu, banokuqiniseka ukuba uya kuba lapho ebunzimeni nasebuculweni. Usenokungakwazi isicwangciso iziganeko zentlalo, kodwa awuzange uphoswe nokuba.
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Akukho mntu ungcono kunoko hang kunawe, ISFP… kwaye uyavana naye nabani na, ngaphandle kokuba bayagweba okanye bayafuna. Abantu abakhetha ubudlelwane obucwangcisiweyo banokukufumana ulele-ngasemva okanye udelekile, kodwa awukwazi ukuxinzelelwa phantsi yimithetho okanye okulindelekileyo, ndoda. Xa usenza into eyonwabisayo nabahlobo bakho abasenyongweni kuxa uyekeke ngokwenene. (Kukho isizathu sokuba bakubiza ngokuba ngumhambi.)
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Ubume bakho obuzenzekelayo kunye nokuzithemba kukwenza ubomi bepati phakathi kwabahlobo, kwaye akukho mntu unokuze akubize ngokuba uyadika. Kodwa awuyena uthembekileyo-izicwangciso zenzelwe ukuba zaphulwe, akunjalo? Xa kuziwa kwincoko, uyibiza njengokuba uyibona (engcono okanye embi), kodwa isihlobo sakho esisondeleyo siyayixabisa olu hlobo lokunyaniseka.
Amashumi amabini anamashumi amabiniESFP: I-animator
Uvulekile, unomdla kwaye uyalithanda ixesha elilungileyo. Kuyinyani ukuba usisilwanyana seqela le-MBTI, kodwa kukho okungaphezulu kokudibana neliso. Akunjalo nje ukuba uphumelele kwisimo sakho njengebhabhathane lentlalontle-ukwakhathalele nabantu bakho kakhulu . Kutheni ungabeka iinzame ezingaka kuyo yonke imisebenzi yeqela? Ukuba wonke umntu uyonwabile, uyonwabile.
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