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Buyintoni ubudlelwane bendoda nomfazi ukuba abuhlutshwanga lucalucalulo? Ukucalulwa ngokwesini zezinye zeengcinga ezisemgangathweni malunga nesini esahlukileyo esibambelele kuzo kwaye sizisebenzise ukuze zisetyenziselwe ixesha elizayo. Nanini na xa i-ego yethu isongelwa lilungu lesini esahlukileyo, iqabane lethu okanye umntu esithandana naye sibuyele emva kwezi ngcinga zesini ukuzikhusela kwaye ke umzabalazo uyaqhubeka.
Ayisiyonto intsha le kodwa sisiko esithe sanikezelwa kuthi ngookhokho noomama. Ukuba sihlalutya ngobulumko, uninzi lweengxaki zobudlelwane eziqhelekileyo zivela kwezi ngcinga zesini zigxunyekwe kakhulu kubuntu bethu. Nazi ezinye zezona zinto zixhaphakileyo ngokwesini ukuphepha kulwalamano lomntu oyindoda.
Iingcinga zesini zokuthintela ubuDlelwane baBasetyhini:
- Akanakho ukufumana ngaphezulu kwam.Kwaye kutheni kufanele ukuba njalo? Kuya kufuneka wonwabe ukuba uyayenza, kuthatha umthwalo woxanduva emagxeni akho. Ewe i-ego yakho eyindoda isongelwa yile kodwa ihlakaniphile. Yimalini eyizayo ukuba ibaluleke ekugqibeleni.
- Akakwazi ukupheka:emva koko mfundise. Ukuba iizakhi zofuzo ezingamadoda bezichongelwe ekubeni zingaphenduli kwizakhono zokupheka emva koko bonke abapheki beenkwenkwezi ezintlanu abaphezulu ngekhe babe ngamadoda! Abasetyhini banesabelo malunga nekhitshi kodwa intombazana engenangqondo ukuba kulungile ntoni ukuba nezinto xa ikwenza wenze wonke umsebenzi. Khululeka okwethutyana kwaye umenze enze umsebenzi onzima nokuba uyaxakaniseka.
- Akakwazi ukuqhuba:Ewe kulungile! Kukho abafazi ababalekayo abaqhubi beemoto ngoku. Ngaba unokwesaba nje okanye ukhathazeka okanye iingcamango zakhe azicaci. Mqeqeshe ukuqhuba. Kodwa yintoni kuwe? Kukho inzuzo ebaluleke kakhulu onokuyifumana ukuba umhlobo wakho oyintombazana okanye umfazi uqhuba kakuhle. Ukhululekile ukuba unxile kuwo onke amatheko kwaye uya kukuqhubela ekhaya!
- Ulindele ukuba ndenze idini lomsebenzi:ayilunganga kodwa ke yintoni. Ungamxhaphaza ngenxa yoko. Kubudlelwane bomfazi obhinqileyo, umfazi uhlala elindelwe ukuba azincame ngomsebenzi. Masithi ufumana umsebenzi kwilizwe langaphandle, kulindeleke ukuba uwushiye owakho umlandele. Kodwa buyisa umva imeko kwaye ngekhe! Kodwa oko kulungile, kutheni ufuna ukuthatha uxanduva lakhe. Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukumfundisa isifundo yeka umsebenzi wakho kwaye uchithe imali yakhe kumxholo wentliziyo yakho. Oko kufanele ukuba kumfundise into okanye naye malunga nokuba 'lelona lungu lifumana umvuzo' wosapho.
Xa udlala igqwetha likaSathana kubudlelwane bomfazi kunye nazo zonke iingxaki kunye nezinto ezincinci, kufana nokubukela umdlalo wentenetya phakathi kwabachasi ababini abafanayo Nangona kunjalo, iziqhulo ezahlukileyo kuhlala kungcono ukuba nobudlelwane obuvuthiweyo bezingavakaliswa ezi ntlobo zocalucalulo.