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Xa ndithetha inyaniso, ndandineminyaka emihlanu kuphela ubudala Umtshato woMhlobo wam osenyongweni yakhululwa, kwaye kwakutsha nje, njengoko ndandikhangela izihloko zothando kwiAmazon Prime, ndiye ndakhubeka kwesi sihloko se-'90s. Ukuthathela ingqalelo lonke uphononongo oluhle oluvela kubagxeki, ndiye ndacinga ukuba kufanelekile ukubukela, kwaye ke ndayidubula.
Kwabo abangekatsibi kule bandwagon, Umtshato woMhlobo wam osenyongweni ulandela uJulianne Potter ( UJulia Roberts ), umgxeki omncinci wokutya ofumanisa ukuba ngokwenene uthandana nomhlobo wakhe osenyongweni, uMichael O'Neal (Dermot Mulroney). Ingxaki kuphela? UMichael unezicwangciso zokutshata nomnye umntu kwiintsuku nje ezintlanu, nto leyo ethetha ukuba uJulianne unokuphulukana nethuba lokuba naye ngonaphakade. Ngaba unokuwumisa lo mtshato kwiindlela zawo aze afumane eyona nto ayifunayo?
Ngokukhawuleza phambili iyure enye kunye nemizuzu engama-45, kwaye bafana, ndaziva ndididekile kakhulu ngokubukela le filimu. Ndibuxabise uburharha, kodwa i-TBH, ndichithe ixesha elininzi ndikroba esikrinini kuba andikhange ndikwazi ukumelana nokuziphatha okunetyhefu kukaJules (ngaba kuye kwafuneka anyanzelise umhlobo wakhe osenyongweni ukuba adlale umntu awayeza kutshata naye?). Nangona kunjalo, u-Jules's narcissism yayingekuphela kwento eyayindikhathaza. Umfana wakhe wamaphupha, uMichael, naye wayenemiba enzulu, kwaye ndivakalelwa kukuba le nxalenye ihlala ingahoywa ngenxa yezenzo zikaJules. Yiya ngaphaya, Jules (sekutshiwo ngokwaneleyo malunga nomlingiswa wakho). Nazi izizathu ezihlanu zokuba umlingiswa kaMichael uyingxaki.
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URonald Siemoneit / Getty Imifanekiso1. Ukulungele ukuvumela uKimmy ukuba ancame ikamva lakhe ukuba aqhubeke nomsebenzi wakhe
Kuyathakazelisa ukuba uKimmy (uCameron Diaz) ufuna ukuxhasa iinzame zomsebenzi womlingane wakhe, kodwa yintoni ebuhlungu kukuba uMichael akabonisi inqanaba elifanayo lokuxhasa kuye. Kwiminyaka nje engama-20 ubudala (mayitshone…), uKimmy wonwabe kakhulu ukuba ayeke isikolo kwaye alandele umyeni wakhe phesheya njengoko esebenza njengombhali wezemidlalo. Kodwa xa ethetha malunga nokuba neengcinga zesibini, uMichael uyavuthuza aze amqhubele ekubeni acinge loo nto yena umntu ombi. Um. Intoni?
2. Indlela asabela ngayo xa ebona iBFF yakhe ihamba ze ayifanelekanga kakhulu
Ukuba uyakhumbula, kukho umboniso omnye kwifilimu apho uMichael engena ngempazamo kuJulianne njengoko etshintsha kwigumbi lakhe lehotele, kodwa xa embona enxibe iimpahla zakhe zangaphantsi, akagungqi. Ngaphandle kokucela uxolo, uMichael umi apho kwaye uyaqhubeka ewonwabela umbono, ehlekisa ukuba sele embonile ehamba ze. Ngaphambi kokuba abuyele phandle, uthi ukhangeleka emhle kakhulu enganxibanga.
Ngoku, ndilungise ukuba ndiphosakele, kodwa ukuba umyeni oza kuba ngumyeni ungena ngokungakhathali kwi-BFF yakhe enesiqingatha-ze kwaye ithuku lakhe lokuqala kukudlala ngothando, ngoko ke luphawu lokuba lo mfo akakakulungeli ukuzinikela kuye. umtshato. Ndiyathetha, ukuba yena noKimmy bayavuma ukuba ne ubudlelwane obuvulekileyo , ke libali elahlukileyo elo. Kodwa kule meko, ukhokela omnye umfazi ngokukhutheleyo njengoko elungiselela ukubopha iqhina nomntu ozimisele ukuncama umsebenzi kunye nemfundo yakhe ngenxa yakhe. Thetha ngokujijekileyo...
3. UMichael unyaniseke ngakumbi kuJules kunakwiqabane lakhe lomtshato
Kangangoko ndingazange ndikwazi ukumelana nokuziphatha kukaJules nokuzingca kunye namazwi kaMichael angafanelekanga, ndiya kuvuma, lo mboniso undinike wona. zonke iimvakalelo. Ukuba sesichengeni okwabelwana ngako. Indlela uJules noMichael abajongana ngayo. Ukusabela kukaJules xa uMichael embiza ngokuba ngumfazi ebomini bakhe. Kwaba ngathi ubukele iHallmark ekrakra yothando. Kodwa madoda, andizange ndikwazi ukuyishukumisa into yokuba yonke le nto yayisenzeka kunene ngaphambi komtshato kaMichael.
Kulo mboniso, uyavuma ukuba ucinga kakhulu ngoJules kwaye ukhankanya ukuba le nto ingaba ngumzuzu wabo wokugqibela bodwa. Ngokucacileyo, le yayiyindlela yakhe yokunika uJules ithuba lokuzityand’ igila ngendlela awayevakalelwa ngayo, ibe nam ndaba njalo ngoko eqinisekile ukuba uza kuthetha (ingakumbi ecinga ngobude awayesele ehambile ukuze wonakalise umtshato wakhe). Kodwa okumangalisayo kukuba, wayengenaso isibindi sokuthetha indlela awayevakalelwa ngayo ngokwenene.
Sekunjalo, i-chemistry emangalisayo ecaleni, oku akusiyo indawo engcono kakhulu yokuba nabani na xa beza kutshata nomntu abambiza ngokuba luthando lobomi babo. UMichael wadlala ngothando kuJules, emva koko waphalaza imbilini yakhe kuye malunga namathandabuzo awayenawo ngomtshato wakhe. Ndiyazi ukuba uJules ngumhlobo wakhe osenyongweni kunye nabo bonke, kodwa uJules wayenjalo hayi lowo ebefanele ukuva oku. Ukuba uMichael wayelithanda ngokwenene kwaye elihlonipha iqabane lakhe, ngewayenembeko yokunyaniseka kuKimmy ngendlela awayeziva ngayo.
4. Wamunca uKimberly'Umsesane womtshato kaJulianne's umnwe
Imibuzo yePop: Ukuba uza kutshata nomntu kwaye ubone ukuba umsesane wobudlelwane ubambekile kumnwe womhlobo wakho osenyongweni, ngaba ungenza a) iihacks ezikhuselekileyo zikaGoogle zokususa amakhonkco aqinileyo, b) yiqabe ngebhotolo kunye nethemba lokulungileyo okanye c. ) bawufunxe ngokulukuhla emnweni wabo? Kubonakala ukuba uMichael wakhetha ukhetho lwesithathu kwaye, bafana, ingxabano yezesondo kuloo ndawo yayingqindilili ngokwaneleyo ukuba inqunyulwe ngemela. Kuyaphawuleka ukuba akazikhathazi nokubuza uJules malunga ngoba Uzamile lo msesane kwasekuqaleni, kwaye nangona ndiqonda ukuba wayeziva ekhathazekile ngoKimmy, impendulo yakhe yayingekafaneli kwaphela.
5. Umdaniso wakhe wokuqala kunye nomtshakazi wakhe omtsha yingoma ekhethekileyo awabelana ngayo noJulianne
Kwakunzima ngokwaneleyo ukuba bobabini uMichael noKimmy bavuma ukuvumela uJules, oyena mntu ubalaseleyo, ukuba aye kumsitho wabo. Kodwa xa uJules wathi uza kubaboleka kwaloo ngoma ikhethekileyo abelana ngayo noMichael, ndothuka. Ndinyanisa, ngokwenene ? Ngaba uMichael akazange azive ekhululekile malunga nale nto, ecinga ukuba uJules wayevumile ukuba uyamthanda kwiiyure ezimbalwa ngaphambi komtshato? Ngaba akazange acinge ngendlela iinkumbulo zakhe noJules ezinokumthintela ngayo ekwenzeni entsha, enentsingiselo nomfazi wakhe? Nokuba oku kwakuthethwa njengesenzo sobubele, akubonakali njengeyona ngcamango ilungileyo yokuba umyeni asebenzise ingoma ekhethekileyo emele ubudlelwane bakhe nomnye umntu.
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