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Indoda eyindoda sisimo sengqondo esidaliweyo. Inokuba yinto elungileyo okanye engalunganga kuba ixhomekeke kwimeko yendoda. Kuba nzima ukuthatha i-ego engathandekiyo kunye nokujongana nayo. Okona kubi kuxa indoda ingazami ukugcina i-ego yayo ngasemva kulwalamano.
Isini esilawulayo siyazikhukhumeza ngamanye amaxesha kwaye kunzima ukuba umfazi akwazi ukumelana neso simo sengqondo. Kubudlelwane, i-ego yawo omabini amaqabane akufuneki ihambelane. Kodwa ngelishwa, le ego iyavela ngalo lonke ixesha, ngakumbi ngexesha lokulwa.
'Andizukuthatha inyathelo kwaye mvumele eze', yile nto ihamba engqondweni yendoda. Amadoda ane-egoistic agciniwe kwaye kunzima ukuba aqhelane naye nabani na. Kungangcono ukugcina isidima sakho siphila ngamaxesha anje. Ukuba akalunganga kuwe malunga nokuziphatha sukuthatha naliphi na inyathelo. Mnike ixesha lokuba aqheleke. Oku kunokuphula kuphela ukuzithemba kwakhe.
Ungaze uzibone uphantsi phambi kwakhe. Umgaqo omkhulu onzima kubafazi kukungaphumeleli okanye ukuphulukana phambi kwamadoda. Ukuba benza njalo, umfanekiso wabo uya kuwa ngokuzenzekelayo ungaphantsi kwenqanaba lendoda kwaye oku kwahluka kuya kubambelela engqondweni yakhe ngonaphakade. Ukugcina isidima sakho phambi kwendoda yakho xa ibonisa ukuzazisa kuwe kuya kukunceda ujongane nobudoda bendoda ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elikhulu.
Amadoda acinga ukuba akukho nzima kubo ukufezekisa nantoni na abayifunayo. Ngamafutshane, bazithemba kakhulu ngokubhekisele kuthando. Luluvo lwabo oluqhelekileyo lokuba amantombazana aya kuza kubo njengoko bekholelwa ukuba amantombazana afuna ngaphezulu kwabo. Yaphula le mbono ngokuba ngumntu oguqukayo kule meko. Ukuba uyazi ukuba indoda yakho ingumntu ozimeleyo zama ukuba ungazivezi ukuba umfuna kakubi. Yindalo yomntu ukuya kwilifu le-9 ukuba kukho umntu ophambeneyo kuwe.
Shiya umntu wakho yedwa ukuba uzama ukubonisa ubuqaqawuli bakhe nakweyiphi na imeko. Ukuba ukugqabhuka kwakhe kufanelekile kwaye impendulo yakho isonakalisa isidima sakhe phambi kwabahlobo bakho okanye izalamane zakho emva koko uzame ukuyisombulula kwangoko. Ukuba i-ego yomntu yenzakaliswe kube kanye, ihlala ixesha elide kwaye ithambekele ekonakaliseni ubudlelwane.
Kunqabile ukuba amadoda azamkele iimpazamo zawo agobe. Zama ukumenza aqonde impazamo yakhe njengoko iya kubulala kuphela ukuzazisa kwakhe. Olunye uxolo okanye inyathelo lokuthuthuzela umsindo uyayiphepha kodwa amadoda ambalwa awayithathi kwi-ego yabo. Bayayiqonda ukuba yimpazamo yabo ke ngoko bazama ukulungisa isimilo sakhe.
Qonda imiqondiso ayibonisayo ukuba uzama ukusondela. Musa ukwamkela kwangoko. Thatha ixesha kwaye umenze akholelwe ukuba uyayiqonda impazamo yakhe neyakho. Ungaze ubonise i-ego yakho ukuba uzama ukubuyisela iimpazamo zakhe. Oku kungongeza ngakumbi kwi-ego yakhe kwaye ke i-ego yakho ekugqibeleni iya kulonakalisa ulwalamano lwakho.
Ungaze uxolise phambi kwendoda yakho ukuba awunaphutha. Okona kuziphatha kwakhe kuya kumnqanda ekubeni athethe nawe iintsuku ezimbalwa okanye iiveki kodwa uza kuza kuwe ekugqibeleni njengoko uthando lwakhe luza komelela ngokulinganayo njenge-ego yakhe. Ukujongana ne-egoist akunzima kangako. Into oyifunayo yinkalipho kunye nobukrelekrele bokuphendula umva kulawulo lwakhe.