Ingxoxo yeQela ikwikholamu yeengcebiso zeveki yoLwazi, apho abahleli bethu baphendula imibuzo yakho malunga nokuthandana, ubuhlobo, usapho, imidiya yoluntu nangaphaya. Ngaba unombuzo kwincoko? Ngenisa apha ngokungaziwa kwaye siya kwenza konke okusemandleni ethu ukuphendula.
Molo, Ncokola yeQela,
Umntu endihlala naye (yena kunye nam sobabini sineminyaka engama-22) akathathi lula ukuhlala yedwa kwaye ubeka impilo yam emngciphekweni ngokupheleleyo. Nangona ilizwe lethu ngoku lidlakazwe yi-coronavirus, ugqibe kwelokuba kulungile ukwenza amatheko angaphakathi kunye nabantu abali-10, ngaphandle kwezikhalazo kunye noqhanqalazo.
La matheko abe yinto yeveki, kwaye andoyiki nje impilo yam, kodwa nempilo yakhe wonke umntu okhoyo. Ndingenza ntoni ukuze ndithethe ngengqondo kuye? Ndikhe ndacinga ukufowunela amapolisa, kodwa ndinexhala lokuba oko kuya kwandisa izinto kwaye bonakalise ubuhlobo bethu ngaphaya kokulungiswa. Ndifuna nje ukuziva ndikhuselekile ekhayeni lam kwakhona. Ndingenza ntoni?
Ozithobayo, uMhlali oLungileyo
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Justin Chan , owala ukuvumela nabani na ukuba angene endlwini yakhe enganxibanga isuti yeHazmat, uthi - Whuuu. Mandiqale ndiqale ngokuthi ndiyavuya kuba ndihlala ndedwa kuba olu luhlobo lwephupha elibi endingazange ndibe nalo xa ndihlala ndedwa phantse iminyaka eli-10. Umntu ohlala naye kufuneka aqonde ukuba ukuba uhlawula irenti, unento eninzi yokuthetha njengoko esenza malunga nokuba ngubani onokungena nokuphuma kwindawo ohlala kuyo.
Mxelele ukuba ngaphaya kokuba la maqela abeka impilo yakho emngciphekweni, akabacingeli abantu abahlala nawe. Eyona meko imbi kakhulu: Ukuba akamameli, yazisa umnini-mhlaba wakho ngaphambi kokuba ubize amapolisa. Oko kuya kunika umnini-mhlaba wakho ithuba lokujongana nale meko phambi kokuba abhenele kwabasemagunyeni.
Lost Pitter , okholelwa ukuba impilo kunye nenhlalakahle yakho akufanele ibekwe kwi-burner yangasemva, ithi — Kulungile, eli liqhinga kuba umntu obeka ubomi bakho esichengeni ngumntu ohlala naye nomhlobo wakho. Ndiyothuswa kukungaqwalaseli nokwazi, ngoko ndiyakwazi ukucinga indlela oziva ngayo. Andizukubiza amapolisa okwangoku, nangona kunjalo. Kuyacaca ukuba izikhalazo zakho kunye noqhanqalazo alufikeleli kuye, ke kuya kufuneka umnike isigqibo. Yintoni ebaluleke ngakumbi kuye? Ubuhlobo kunye nempilo yakho, okanye ukwenza itheko kwindawo enikuyo nobabini?
Iindwendwe ezilishumi nangaphezulu kwindawo yakho ngexesha le-COVID zininzi kakhulu. Kuthekani ukuba unciphise inani labantu kunye nokuphindaphinda kwabo ukuza? (Umzekelo, abantu ababini ukuya kwabathathu rhoqo kwiiveki ezimbini okanye njalo). Ngamanye amaxesha ukufumana isisombululo esiphakathi kusebenza kakuhle kubo bonke ababandakanyekayo. Kodwa kubo bonke ubunzulu, cacisa kakuhle ukuba ukwenza kwakhe amatheko angaphakathi ngexesha lobhubhani kukuzingca nokungabi naluvelwano, kwaye kukwenza njani ukuba ungonwabi kakhulu. Ndiqinisekile ukuba unegalelo kwindawo kanye njengokuba esenza, ke kufuneka ahloniphe indlela oziva ngayo. Mhlawumbi ukujula ezinye iinyani ngaphandle malunga nabantu abosulelwa yintsholongwane emva kweendibano ezinkulu kunokukunceda ukuba ulichaze ngokucacileyo ityala lakho.
Njengecebo lokugqibela, ndingacebisa ukuba ufake isikhalazo kwaye ukhangele umntu omtsha ohlala naye ukuba akaguquki. Ndiyathemba ukuba uyandimamela kwaye nobabini ningafikelela kwisivumelwano esifanelekileyo.
Kelsey Weekman , umbhali obetha isingqi sakhe sigcina iithebhu kubantu abakhohlakeleyo abangayi kuyeka ukuya emathekweni kula maxesha okubulala, utshilo. -Esinye sezizathu zokuba kutheni abantu besenza itheko kanzima ngenxa yobhubhani wokoqobo kukuba baziva ngathi abanako ukubeka ubomi babo ebumnyameni kangangexesha elingamiselwanga. Ngokucacileyo, akumnandi ukuhlala uzingela ngaphakathi - kodwa kuyimfuneko. Abantu abancinci abadumileyo abasaya kwiindibano ezinkulu benza oko ukuze bazive beqhelekile, kwaye baqhubeke nokubonelela ngomxholo kubalandeli babo.
Nokuba umntu ohlala naye udumile okanye hayi, yile nto iyenzayo ukubeka iifoto zepati kumajelo eendaba ezentlalo, eyona nto iyonwabisa abalandeli bakho. Olo luhlobo loxinzelelo kuye.
Olo xinzelelo lusebenza ngeendlela zombini, nangona kunjalo. Xa abantu bembona esenza itheko kwaye ebeka abantu abaninzi emngciphekweni, baya kumgweba. Uyamgweba okwangoku, kwaye yinto entle leyo. Bopha onke amandla akho okugweba ngokulungileyo, njengonongendi wenkulungwane ye-19 ogcina amalungu oonongendi abakhohlakeleyo emgceni ngexesha lobunzima. Qinisekisa ukuba uyazi ukuba nokuba akabakhathalelanga abantu anokubasulela, igama lakhe liza kungcoliswa ngonaphakade ukuba uqhubeka esenza ngolu hlobo. Ungaze uwajongele phantsi amandla okuhlazeka koluntu kwakudala.
iTyree Rush , okholelwa into oyiyo hayi Uzakwenza uzive ungakhuselekanga ekhayeni lakho, utsho- Ukuba nomntu ohlala naye kunzima kunye nemida yokuhamba kwindawo ekwabelwana ngayo yenye yezona zinto zinzima kakhulu ukulinganisa. Nangona kunjalo, kuyimfuneko ngokupheleleyo ukuseta kunye nokunyanzelisa imithetho yendlu ukuze ugcine impilo yakho yengqondo ekhaya, ngakumbi ngeli xesha.
Kuya kufuneka uphinde uxhalabele malunga nokhuseleko lwakho ngendlela eqinile nenemfesane. Mhlawumbi kwakhona ucebise enye indlela yokudibana naye embindini (njengokuba neendwendwe kodwa ugcine itheko lingaphandle ngokupheleleyo, okanye ukuba noluhlu lwemibuzo ye-COVID-19 yazo zonke iindwendwe ngaphambi kokuba bazivumele). Ekugqibeleni, nangona kunjalo, ukhuseleko lwakho yeyona nto iza kuqala kwaye ukuba ayinakuhlonelwa, kuya kufuneka ujonge ekwaphuleni isivumelwano kwaye ufumane enye indawo yokuhlala ukuze ube noxolo lwengqondo.
UMorgan Greenwald , ongazange aye ethekweni ukususela ngo-B.C.E. (Ngaphambi kweXesha leCoronavirus), utshilo — Ndiyaxolisa kuba umntu ohlala naye ekubeka kule meko ingathandekiyo. Ehlabathini elifanelekileyo, uya kuthobela izilumkiso zakho kwaye ayeke ukumema abantu. Kodwa, ukuba sele ukuthethile okukukhathazayo kwaye abakhange barhoxe, kusenokuba lixesha lokuba ucinge ngokuthatha izinto ezandleni zakho.
Inyaniso yeyokuba, ekupheleni kosuku, ekuphela komntu onegunya phezu kwakhe nguwe. Ngokucacileyo ayifanelekanga, kodwa ngaba uye wacinga ngokuhlala nabazali bakho okwethutyana (ucinga ukuba lukhetho olo)? Unokufuna ukucinga ngokuphula isivumelwano sakho sokuqeshisa kunye nokufumana abantu ohlala nabo owaziyo ukuba baya kuhlonipha imida yakho kunye nezithintelo ezibekwe nguwe. Ukuba umntu ohlala naye ngumhlobo wokwenene, ngoko baya kusiqonda isizathu sokuba uhambe, yaye baya kuhlonela ukuba kufuneka uye kwindawo ethile apho uziva ukhuselekile.
TL;DR - Ungakhokelela umhlobo wakho kulwazi lothintelo lwe-coronavirus, kodwa awunakumenza ukuba alulandele. Ngelishwa, amathuba okuba u-roomie wakho akaqapheli kwaphela umngcipheko awuthathayo ngokugibisela iitheko uphantsi, xa kujongwa ubuninzi bamabali othusayo e-COVID-19 kumajelo eendaba. Ukuba umcenga ukuba ayeke ukwenza itheko akuncedi nganto, ungathetha nomnini-mhlaba malunga nenyathelo elilandelayo. Kodwa ukuba akophuli nasiphi na isakhiwo okanye imithetho yelizwe kunye neendibano zakhe, eyona nto ingcono yokubheja inokuba kukwaphula isivumelwano sakho sokuqeshisa kwaye ubhabhe i-coop.
Ukuba uthanda eli nqaku, khangela Incoko yethu yokugqibela yeQela , kwaye Cofa apha ukungenisa owakho umbuzo.
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