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Ukuba ulapha, oko kuphakamisa ukuba awuqinisekanga malunga nokuba ifuna ntoni indoda yakho kulwalamano. Ewe, 'iinjongo zobudlelwane yintoni le ifunwa yindoda yakho kulwalamano' konke malunga neminqweno enzulu yendoda yakho kulwalamano.
Amaxesha amaninzi, sicinga ukuba uthando kuko konke oko kunqwenelwa yindoda kulwalamano. Kodwa ukunyaniseka zininzi izinto ezibaluleke ngakumbi ngaphandle kothando kubudlelwane. Yonke indoda iyazinqwenela ezi kwaye ukuba awuzinikezeli kulwalamano, ubudlelwane buya kuphela.
Yintoni Umfazi Ufuna ukusuka Indoda?
Intliziyo ifuna ikhaya, indoda ifuna ubudlelwane, umfazi ufuna isithandwa, ubudlelwane budinga isibini kwaye bazalisekise bonke aba bantu babini bangene kubudlelwane kwaye bazalise yonke imfuneko. Into ngobudlelwane yindlela ojongana ngayo kwaye wenze ngayo kuyo. Ukuba nguwe onika iinzame kwaye usabona ukuba indoda yakho ayonwabanga kubudlelwane, kuya kufuneka uyazi ngezi njongo zobudlelane indoda ifuna ubudlelwane.
Iinjongo Zolwalamano Yintoni Umntu Wakho Ayifunayo Ebudlelwaneni?
1. Intsebenziswano hayi ubuNini
Indoda ayifuni nje ubudlelwane ngenxa yayo, ifuna iqabane ukuba lihlale nayo. Xa abantu ababini bengena kubudlelwane, baba ngamaqabane, bayamamelana kwaye baxabise izimvo zomnye nomnye, ngakumbi xa kusindwa kwizinto ezinkulu ebomini. Amaqabane aqala ukuxhasana kwaye awadilizi.
Ngobambiswano, indoda nomfazi ababandakanyekayo kufuneka bakhumbule ukuba umntu omnye akufuneki anike ngelixa omnye esenza konke oko ikukuthatha njengobudlelwane obusebenzisanayo beproto. Oku kunokusetyenziswa kuyo nayiphi na into ekwenzeni iinzame zokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye nokwabelana ngomsebenzi wasendlini xa wena neqabane lakho nihlala kunye. Indoda ihlala inqwenela olo hlobo lobudlelwane apho ibona umfazi wayo njengeqabane lobomi bayo bonke.
2. Unxibelelwano
Indoda yakho ifuna ukwakha ubudlelwane nawe apho ninxibelelana kunye malunga nayo yonke into eneenkcukacha. Uthando oluhamba ngonxibelelwano lumgcina enomdla ngakumbi nangakumbi. Unxibelelwano lweebhulorho zininzi izithuba kwaye indoda yakho ihlala izama ukusondela kuwe ngoncedo lonxibelelwano. Unxibelelwano oluqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo lunxibelelana nokukhula ngokweemvakalelo kwabo babini kulwalamano. Ukugcina umntu wakho onwabile kubudlelwane, kuya kufuneka unxibelelane rhoqo. Yimpumelelo kulwalamano lwakho.
3. Ukukhula ngokweemvakalelo
Yonke indoda ifuna umfazi okhulileyo njengeqabane. Akukho namnye ofuna intombazana engavuthwanga ngokweemvakalelo eya kuthi nje idale uxinzelelo ngakumbi kubudlelwane. Ukuqonda kufanelekile ukuba kufaneleke, ngokungavisisani, intombazana iyazi ukuba yenzeni kunokuhlala nje kwaye yenze into ingakhuli kakuhle. Ukuqola ngokweemvakalelo kwindoda kulwalamano kubaluleke kakhulu. Ukuba ufuna umntu wakho onwabe, ke kuya kufuneka ukhule ngokweemvakalelo.
4. Ukhuseleko Kunye
Yonke indoda ebudlelwaneni ifuna ukuqiniseka ngobudlelwane. Ukhuseleko lomanyano lubaluleke kakhulu kuye. Ukuziva ukhuselekile kubudlelwane kuhlala kubalulekile kwindoda nakwinkazana ebandakanyekayo. Ukuba neqabane elithembekileyo nelinyanisekileyo kuyayinceda indoda ukuba ihlale kamnandi kulwalamano. Abafana abahlukanga kunamantombazana xa kufikwa ekufuneni ukhuseleko kubudlelwane kwaye bahlala beyicela kumfazi wabo.
5. Ukuthandana ngendlela yakho
Wonke umntu uthanda ukuthandana neqabane lakhe. Ukuba awuthandani neqabane lakho, indoda yakho inokuba irhalela kwaye ingahlali ixesha elide. Kungcono ukuthandana kunokuba uphulukane nendoda yakho. Yonke indoda ifuna umntu obhinqileyo abavakalelwa ukuba banokuthandana esidlangalaleni kwaye banokuba nexesha elingcono lokuthandana ngendlela yabo kubudlelwane. Ubudlelwane buhlala butshiswa emhlabeni ngenxa yothando oluphantsi, kubangela iimpikiswano ezininzi ezingeyomfuneko kunye neziphazamiso.
6. Ukusondelelana ngokwasemzimbeni
Wonke umntu uyayifuna. Amadoda nabasetyhini banqwenela ukuba ngumzimba. Yonke indoda ifuna umntu obhinqileyo onokuthi avuleleke malunga nolwalamano lwabo nabo kunye nolwalamano kwaye angakonwabela ukusondelelana naye. Ngelixa abantu basetyhini benxibelelana ngokungcono ngesenzo sonxibelelwano, amadoda ayaziwa ngokungcono ukuba aqhagamshele ezona zilungileyo kunye nesenzo sokuba ngumzimba. Ukusondelelana kubaluleke kakhulu kubudlelwane bonke.
Ezi zezona zinto zibalulekileyo zifunwa yindoda kubudlelwane. Unqwenela ukuba ezi zinto zifunekayo zizalisekiswe kwaye ukuba ucwangcisa ukwanelisa iimfuno zomntu wakho, kungcono uqalise ngazo kwaye ubone ukuba ubudlelwane bakho buhamba buhle kanjani bube ngumyezo wothando.
Ukuba ukuthandile ukufunda eli nqaku, nceda unike ingxelo yakho ngezantsi kwicandelo lokuphawula. Ungalibali ukwabelana ngayo kwimidiya yoluntu.
Ukuba unemicimbi yobudlelwane, bhalela kuthi ku-boldsky@oneindia.co.in
Masinwabe!