Ngaba uziva izinto kuqala kwaye ucinge okwesibini? Ngaba uqhelene kakhulu neemvakalelo zabo bakungqongileyo kangangokuba umzimba wakho usabela kwiimvakalelo zabo ngokungathi zezakho? Newsflash, unokuba i uvelwano . Funda ukuze ufunde ngakumbi malunga nokuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba novelwano, kunye nokuba yintoni na uhlobo uvela kuGq. Judith Orloff, owabhala incwadi engovelwano— Isikhokelo sokusinda se-Empath .
Yintoni I-Empath?
Ngelixa uphawu aluyiyo ncam i-ESP, uvelwano luhambelana ngokunzulu noko abantu ababangqongileyo bakuvayo— ngokweemvakalelo nasemzimbeni —yaye loo mvakalelo yeva ngathi yeyabo, ngokufuthi kungekho mfuneko yokuba bakhuphe nelimdaka. Iimfesane ziziva izinto kuqala, ngoko cinga, nto leyo echasene nendlela abantu abaninzi abasebenza ngayo kuluntu lwethu olungaphaya kwengqondo. Ngokutsho kwe-Orloff, uphando lubonisa ukuba uvakalelo oluphezulu luchaphazela malunga neepesenti ze-20 zabemi, nangona iqondo lobuntu bunokwahluka.
Yintoni umahluko phakathi kokuba novelwano kunye nokuba novelwano?
Nangona amagama ephantse afane, ukuba novelwano nokuba novelwano zizinto ezimbini ezahlukeneyo. Per Orloff, uvelwano oluqhelekileyo luthetha ukuba intliziyo yethu iya komnye umntu xa behamba kwixesha elinzima. Ii-Empaths, nangona kunjalo, ziziva iimvakalelo zabanye abantu, amandla kunye neempawu zomzimba kwimizimba yabo.
Zeziphi ezi ntlobo zi-3 eziphambili zee-Empaths?
Nangona yonke imfesane iphila ngamava ahlukeneyo, incwadi ka-Orloff ichaza iintlobo ezintathu eziphambili, kwaye ichaza ngolo hlobo.
1. Uvelwano loMzimba
Uqhelene ngakumbi neempawu zomzimba zabanye abantu kwaye udla ngokuzifaka emzimbeni wakho. Unako kwakhona ukomelezwa yimvakalelo yomntu yokuphila kakuhle. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umhlobo womzimba ukhalaza ngeentlungu ezibukhali zesisu, uvelwano lomzimba lunokuqala ukuva intlungu efanayo emzimbeni wabo.
2. Uvelwano ngokweemvakalelo
Ikakhulu uchola iimvakalelo zabanye abantu kwaye unokuba sisipontshi seemvakalelo zabo, bobabini bonwabile kwaye belusizi. U-Orloff unika lo mzekelo ukuba yintoni uvelwano lweemvakalelo: 'Banokuhlala ecaleni komntu odandathekileyo ngelixa bebukele umdlalo ohlekisayo kwaye baphume kwindawo yemiboniso bhanyabhanya beziva bedakumbile. Njani? Intsimi yamandla yomnye umntu idibanisa nentsimi ye-empath ngexesha lefilimu.'
3. I-Intuitive Empath
Ufumana iimbono ezingaqhelekanga ezifana ne-intuition ephezulu, i-telepathy, imiyalezo emaphupheni, unxibelelwano lwezilwanyana kunye nezityalo, kunye nokunxibelelana nelinye icala. Uvelwano olubonakalayo lunokwahlulwa ngakumbi kwezi ntlobo zisixhenxe (zikhokelela ekubeni oku kuguqukele ngakumbi ngokomoya kunenzululwazi):
Nasiphi na kwezi zingasentla isandi esiqhelekileyo? Ukuba ucinga ukuba unokuba novelwano, jonga le 11 imiqondiso eqhelekileyo , emva koko uthathe incwadi ka-Orloff ukuze ufunde indlela engcono yokusebenzisa amandla alo mkhwa.
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