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Ngalo naliphi na ixesha lobomi bakho kuya kufuneka ukuba udlule kwintlungu yokwaphuka kwentliziyo. UThixo akavumelekanga ukuba ukhe wajongana ne-ache nanini na ebomini bakho uyayazi indlela ekubuhlungu ngayo ukuziva. Kukho izinto ezimbalwa zokwenza ngexesha lokwahlukana.
Uzibuza ukuba ufanele wenze ntoni ngexesha lokwahlukana? Ngokukodwa xa ubuso obukutsala kakhulu, amagama abonakala njengesandi esimnandi somhlaba atshintsha ngamaza obomi ongenakuwaqonda.
Izizathu ezi-5 zokonwaba emva koqhawulo-mtshato
Ngelishwa, kuya kufuneka ujongane nayo. Ukuba akukho thando, akukho nto iya kolula ubudlelwane.
Ngoku, kuba nzima kubantu abaninzi ukuyithatha nayiphi na enye into eqhelekileyo yobomi. Abantu abaninzi baphulukana nokuzinza kwengqondo kwaye benza izinto ezingenangqondo. Mamela, unobomi obubodwa kwaye buhle kakhulu.
Cinga ngezinto ezintle onokuzenza ngexesha lokwahlukana njengoko kunokukunceda ukuba ufike kwintlungu.
Kukho izinto ezithile ekufuneka uzenzile ngexesha lekhefu. Ezi zinto zinokugcina uzolile kwaye zinike amandla angaphakathi okufumana kwakhona ekuphukeni kwentliziyo.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni ngexesha lokwahlukana? Ukuba ukwimeko leyo funda inqaku kancinci. Ukuba akunjalo, kuya kuhlala kulunge ngakumbi ukulungiselela okona kubi ngelixa ucinga okona kulungileyo. Yiya ngala manqaku alandelayo kwaye uya kwazi malunga nezinto ekufuneka uzenzile ngexesha lekhefu-
1. Ungaze uqhagamshelane ne-Ex yakho
Ukuba ufuna iingcebiso ngenene ngezinto oza kuzenza ngexesha lokuqhekeka, le yingongoma yokuqala kwincwadi yemigaqo. Ngokusisiseko, unqamle lonke unxibelelwano. Xa ubuthathaka ngengqondo ephazamisekileyo, oku kuya kukunceda ukuba ungabuyeli kubudlelwane obungenantsingiselo okanye emfazweni.
2. Tyhila iimvakalelo zakho
Kufuneka wenze ntoni ngexesha lokwahlukana? Ewe unentlungu enkulu engenakuchazwa ngamagama. Ke, khala, khwaza kakhulu, ukhwaze kakhulu. Kodwa ungaze ucinezele nantoni na kuwe njengoko iimvakalelo ezinjalo zinefuthe elibi kungekuphela kwengqondo kodwa nasemzimbeni wakho.
3. Yamkele
Ewe kubuhlungu. Kodwa ngaba uyazi ukuba yintoni ebuhlungu ngakumbi? Ukutsala ubudlelwane obungenanto njengomthwalo. Ke, zama ukuyamkela. Ngexesha elinye lobomi uya kuba nebhongo ngokwakho ukuba unesibindi sokuphelisa ubudlelwane obungenaxabiso.
4. Zikhumbule
Xa wawuthandana wawuphila omnye umntu. Elinye icandelo lakho lalibandakanyekile ukukhathalela iqabane lakho kwaye lenze izinto ngokwabo. Ngoku, ukhululekile. Unokuba nguwe. Zama ke ukukhumbula ukusasazeka kwakho ube yinto enye.
5. Yonwabele
Unzima, akunjalo? Kodwa zama. Yenza eyona nto uyithandayo. Yiba kunye nabahlobo bakho, pheka into ekhethekileyo, uye kuthenga. Yenza nje ingqondo yakho ukonwaba kwaye ixesha liyakwenza okunye. Le yenye yezinto ezifanelekileyo ukuzenza ngexesha lokwahlukana.
6. Musa ukuzinyanzela ukuba ulibale
Ukuba ufuna ukuzinyanzela ukuba ulibale iinkumbulo zangaphambili, ezo ziya kubamba ingqondo yakho ngakumbi. Ke, mayigcinwe njengealbham yakudala kwikhabethe yentliziyo yakho. Yivule ngamanye amaxesha, wosule uthuli, uncume okanye ukhale uze uvale kwaye uqhubeke.
7. Sukukhawuleza
Akufanele ube sesichengeni kangangokuba uvele uye kolunye ulwalamano. Zinike ixesha lakho. Kunzima ukubuyela kubudlelwane obunye ukuba inexabiso lokwenyani. Ke, ukuba uyangxama awuzukudlula kwi ex okanye ugxile kokulandelayo.
8. Camngca
Ngokuqinisekileyo ubomi luhambo olunzima. Kodwa unokwenza kube lula ukuba uzigcina uzolile kwaye ulungile. Ukucamngca kuyindlela yokuphilisa konke ukuphazamiseka engqondweni nasemzimbeni ojamelana nako ngexesha lokwahlukana.
Ke, uyayifumana into ekufuneka uyenze ngexesha lokwahlukana? Inkqubo yokuphilisa ngengqondo ayisiyonto inokuphiliswa ubusuku bonke ngokuthatha amayeza okubulala iintsholongwane.
Yomelela kwaye uzithembe, jonga ubomi ngokwembono elungileyo kwaye uya kufumana izinto ezininzi ekufuneka uzenzile ngexesha lekhefu ngaphandle kwala manqaku.