Vuma: Wena kunye neqabane lakho nitshintshiselana ngokuhleba endaweni yentetho yomqamelo, anikanxibanga nenye yee-lacy teddy zenu. iminyaka kwaye wayeka ukusebenzisa igama lakho lekhowudi kwiminyaka eyadlulayo. (Ngokwengxelo, yayiyirharnati.) Siyayifumana, kwaye asibeki tyala. Ngamanye amaxesha uthando luya, enyanisweni, luyafiphala. Yiyo loo nto siye sacofa ingcaphephe yezesondo uCassandra Corrado, umfundisi wezesondo ozimeleyo oqeqeshelwe ulonwabo lwezesondo kunye neMpilo kwaye ngoku uyiNgcali yoLonwabo kwiqonga lezesondo laseSan Francisco. O.Isikolo , kwiindlela zokuthetha neqabane lakho malunga nokuvuselela ubomi bakho bothando. Nanga amacebiso akhe amathathu okuvula i-S.O yakho. malunga nokunyusa umdlalo wakho wesondo.
Iimveliso ze-Hinterhaus / Getty Images1. Yiza Incoko Ngaphandle Kwegumbi Lokulala
Inqaku lokuqala likaCorrado: Musa ukuzisa ukunganeliseki kwakho kwigumbi lokulala. Ukuthetha ngokufuna izinto ezintsha ngokwesondo kunokuba yincoko emnandi, kodwa inokuba yincoko esengozini, uCorrado uyabelana. Ukuba nayo ngelixa sele ukhulule ayiniki abantu ixesha okanye indawo yokufumanisa indlela abavakalelwa ngayo ngezinto. Ewe, njengoko kuhenda njengoko kunokuthi kuzise i-convo yezesondo kwindawo onokuthi ube nesondo kuyo, yinto enkulu hayi. Endaweni yoko, uCorrado ucebisa ukufumana indawo engathathi hlangothi apho omabini amaqela aziva ekhululekile (singasathethi ke, enxibe ngokupheleleyo). Nokuba nihamba nihamba kunye okanye nizingela kwikona ethe cwaka yekofu oyithandayo, qiniseka ukuba awukho phantsi kwamaqweqwe xa uvakalisa ukukhathazeka kwakho ngemeko yangoku.
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I-PlusOne2. Nxibelela Phantsi Into oyifunayo
Kwaye kwelo nqaku, zilungiselele ukuxoxa ngeenjongo zakho kunye nento oyifunayo ngokwenene kwincoko kunye nobomi bakho bothando. Ngaba kukho amava amatsha okanye izikhundla onomdla kuzo? Okanye izixhobo ezitsha ongathanda ukuzifaka kwigumbi lokulala-njengokuzama a plusEye mini massager kwaye into yokuthambisa kunye? UCorrado ucebisa ukuba wena kunye neqabane lakho ngokwahlukeneyo nithathe iikhwizi zesini kwi-intanethi ukuze nizibonelele ngento eningathanda ukuyifeza ngencoko. Bakuvumela ukuba ucinge ngoluhlu olukhulu lwezinto ezahlukeneyo onokuthi ube nomdla kuzo, kwaye ke uya kufumanisa kuphela malunga nezinto wena kunye neqabane lakho enidibana ngazo ngokufanelekileyo, ubhala uCorrado. Ngaloo ndlela, wena kunye ne-S.O yakho. ziqala kwindawo enolwazi, endaweni yokungena kwingxoxo ungazi ukuba unqwenela ntoni omnye umntu. (FYI: Uchazile, nangona kunjalo, ukuba iikhwizi ezininzi zikholisa ukwenza uqikelelo malunga namalungu esini samaqabane kwaye ke ayibandakanyi kakhulu.)
Paul Bradbury / Getty Imifanekiso3. Zama Ukubuza Ngokuthe ngqo nangokungathanga ngqo
Ekugqibeleni, uCorrado utyhila ukuba kukho iindlela ezimbini zokuvelisa isihloko: ngokuthe ngqo (njengoko, ungathanda ukuzama ubukhoboka ngexesha lokwabelana ngesondo? Ndingathanda ukuzama ukusebenzisa ezinye izithintelo zesandla. malunga nesikhundla se-sexy ungathanda ukuba nomdla wokuzama kwaye ubuze ukuba iqabane lakho licinga ntoni ngayo). Unokuzama kwakhona ukucebisa ngokuqhola izinto ngexesha lomboniso bhanyabhanya oqhumayo. Nangona kungekho ndlela iphosakeleyo, uCorrado uvakalelwa kukuba ukubuza ngokungangqalanga kunokuba yindlela efanelekileyo yokuqalisa: Kukuvumela ukuba uvule incoko kwaye ucinge ukuba iqabane lakho lingaziva njani ngaphambi kokuba uzivule ngokupheleleyo kulo, ubhala watsho. Kwaye ukuba oko akusebenzi, ukhetho lwakho olungaphumeleli lusondela kwisihloko. Ndiziva ngathi kufanele ukuba sibe ne-flamin 'eshushu, ephakamisa iinwele, oh-uthixo-ulungile ngesondo, kwaye akunjalo. Ndicinga ukuba kufuneka siyitshintshe loo nto, ke masithethe ngayo, yindawo elungileyo yokuqala.
