Ngaba uRoss noRachel bebekwikhefu? Ngaba yayikhona indawo kaJack kwiplanga kaRose? Ngaba kwakukrwada kumhlobo kaCarrie ukumcela ukuba akhulule izihlangu zakhe epatini? Kulungile, ke asisoze sifunde iimpendulo zale mibuzo mibini yokuqala, kodwa kufuneka sazi: Ngaba Ngaba kukuziphatha kakubi ukucela iindwendwe ukuba zikhulule izihlangu zazo ekhayeni lakho? Okanye Kulungile ngokupheleleyo? Apha, sijonga kumacala omabini engxabano ngaphambi kokuba siphendukele kwiingcali zokuziphatha ukuze senze isigqibo sokugqibela.
ENXULUMENEYO: IiHacks ezingama-20 zokucoca ukugcina ikhaya lakho licocekile
KatarzynaBialasiewicz / Getty ImifanekisoEwe, unokucela iindwendwe ukuba zisuse izihlangu zazo
Likhaya lakho: Kuya kufuneka wenze njengoko ulungile nceda. (Ngenxa yokuba ukuba awukwazi ukuba nguwe kwikhaya lakho, ngoko unokukwazi phi emhlabeni?) Ngaphandle koko, ihlabathi langaphandle libi kakhulu. Izixeko zizaliswe zizo zonke iintlobo zeentsholongwane kunye ne-nasties (oh hey, impuku yepizza ). Akukhathaliseki ukuba indawo yakho yokuhlala ine-carpeting entsha emhlophe okanye i-linoleum exobuka kwiikona-kunengqiqo ngokupheleleyo ukucela ukuba iindwendwe zingazisi ukungcola ngaphandle kwekhaya lakho.
AntonioGuillem/Getty ImifanekisoHayi, kukrwada ukucela iindwendwe ukuba zisuse izihlangu zazo
Khawucinge ngoku: Izithende eziqhekekileyo, iinzipho ezichotshoziweyo kunye neekawusi ezingahambelaniyo zonke ziboniswa ngelixa wonke umntu esela irosé kwaye ngokuchubekileyo enze ngathi akaqapheli. (Kwaye yeyona meko ilungileyo-masingacingi nokuba kunokwenzeka iibhuni, ihamile yeenzwane kunye nonyawo lomdlali.) Eli likhaya, hayi ukhuseleko lwesikhululo seenqwelomoya. Ngokuqinisekileyo, umhlaba wangaphandle unokuba mdaka kancinci, kodwa kukho ukulungiswa okulula-fumana i-doormat. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba uyayikhathalela kakhulu ikhaphethi kunenkampani, mhlawumbi akufanele umeme abantu.
g-stockstudio/Getty ImagesIimbono zeNgcali
UMyka Meier, umseki we Beaumont Etiquette , ilinganisa: Undwendwe (nokuba lukwindawo yokutyela okanye kwikhaya) kufuneka luhlale luqhelisela amasiko kunye nenkcubeko yendawo ekuyo. Ngamanye amazwi, kwamkelekile ngokugqibeleleyo ukucela iindwendwe ukuba zisuse izicathulo zazo. Kodwa nantsi into yokubambisa-ukuba ucela undwendwe ukuba lukhulule izihlangu zalo, kufuneka umxelele kwangaphambili okanye umnike izihlangu zendlu ukuba zinxibe.
UPatricia Napier-Fitzpatrick, umseki we kwiSikolo seEtiquette eNew York , ithi kukho enye into ephawulekayo kulo mgaqo: Ukuba ubamba itheko apho iindwendwe ziza kunxiba iisuti kunye neengubo, ngoko akukho zihlangu zivumelekileyo umthetho, kakuhle, awuvumelekanga. Kumatheko anoluhlu lweendwendwe olubandakanya abantu abangengobahlobo abasondeleyo, kubukrwada nokungacingeli ukucela iindwendwe ukuba zisuse izihlangu zazo ngaphambi kokuba zingene ngaphakathi endlwini. Uqhuba athi, Iindleko zokuba neekhaphethi kunye nemigangatho zicocwe kusuku olulandela itheko kufuneka zibalwe kwiindleko zepati.
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