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Awunakuba 'nenkwenkwe' kwaye ungabinangxaki kumfana. Ingxaki yamadoda amaninzi kukuba abayeki 'amakhwenkwe'. Njengoko amadoda esala ukukhula kwaye kufuneka sihlale nawo, iingxaki zobudlelwane ezifanayo azinakuphepheka. Uninzi lwezi ngxaki lubakho ngenxa yokuba utya kwindawo nganye yabanye kubudlelwane. Nangona kunjalo, kukho isisombululo kuzo zonke ezi ngxaki kuba zonke zivela ngokwahluka kwesini okudala iinkqubo zakho zokucinga.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zobudlelwane ezinokukunceda ujongane neengxaki zesoka lakho oya kuthi umangaliswe kukwazi ukuba ziqhelekile.
Iingxaki ezi-5 eziphezulu zokuthandana:
1. Uyayiphepha Imiba Yokwenene: Amadoda awathandi ukucinga kakhulu ngobomi babo. Bayakwenza yonke imisebenzi yobuchopho kwezinye izinto kodwa ekhaya bafuna ukuphumla. Umntu wakho uya kukhetha ukubukela umabonwakude ukumamela uluhlu lwakho lwezikhalazo nokuba ucinezela kangakanani na. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba uninzi lweengxaki zobudlelwane eziqhelekileyo ziyenzeka xa abantu bengaxoxi ngemicimbi. Ke kuya kufuneka uxoxe kodwa xa ekwimo entle.
2. Akanankathalo: Hayi aka. Akazange athathe naluphi na uxanduva lokwenyani kunye noloyiko lokuba uya kusilela. Kungumthetho wendalo ukuba amadoda akhule mva kunabafazi nokuba bayontanga ngoko ke kufuneka wenze indawo kuloo nto. Uyakulibala usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lukanyoko okanye owakho, uyakufika kwitheko lakho lokuthweswa izidanga ngejee kodwa akangomntu ombi walonto. Mphathe ngokungathi uphatha umntwana kwaye iingxaki zesoka lakho ziphelile.
Uchitha ixesha elininzi nabahlobo bakhe: Njengentombazana ungathanda ukuncama yonke into ukuze ubenaye. Ungawushiya umsebenzi wakho, abahlobo bakho kunye nabazali bakho ekhaya kodwa ungalindeli ukuzincama okufanayo kuye. Uhlobo olusisiseko lwamadoda kukukhusela 'inkululeko' yabo ngokubonakalayo ukuze bazame ukungancami nantoni na ngenxa yakho. Mnike indawo kulwalamano kwaye uza kuza.
4. Akafuni Ukutshata: Hayi, akwenzi oko kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba akasoze afune njalo. Phantse bonke abafana banesibophelelo sokuzibophelela kwaye yeyona ngxaki ixhaphakileyo yobudlelwane. Kuya kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ixesha alifunayo lokufuna ukutshata lilingana nelakho. Amanye amadoda amakhwenkwe nokuba angama-40 angcono ukuhlala kude nalawo.
5. Akanazimvakalelo: Hayi, uyakwenza oko woyika nje okanye uneentloni zokubabonisa. Sukulindela ukuba alile xa enze impazamo enkulu. Akululanga emadodeni ukubonisa iimvakalelo kuba iyaphikisana nomfanekiso wabo kodwa kuya kufuneka ubethe kubo ukuthembakala kwabo.
Zonke ezi ngxaki zamadoda athandana naye okanye ingxaki zothando zinezisombululo. Kufuneka uzifumane kuphela.