Ngamanye amaxesha i-vibes elungileyo kuphela isibonakaliso yenza ingozi ngaphezu kokulungileyo.
Ubume obuyityhefu ibhekisela kwingcamango yokuba ngokumfamekileyo ukuhlala unethemba kusenokuthetha ukugatya nantoni na enokubangela iimvakalelo ezidimazayo. Oku akuthethi ukuba uyaqhubekeka iimvakalelo kunye neziganeko ngendlela ephilileyo, utyhalela ecaleni iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, ezibangela ukuba zibe mandundu.
Ukugqithiswa kwe-positivity, njengokugqithisa kwayo nantoni na, kunokuba yingozi-ingakumbi kwixesha elinje ngoku, apho sihlala sixelelwa ukuba la maxesha angazange abonwe ngaphambili kwaye ukuba sonke sinamathelana singadlulela kwelinye icala. Nale nto iya kudlula, akunjalo?
Ubume betyhefu bungene kwi-overdrive ukusukela oko kwaqala ubhubhane. Abantu bayakhuthazwa ukuba bahlukane nemiba engathandekiyo kunye neyokutsala nzima yokuvalelwa bodwa kwaye bayacelwa ukuba bamkele ukuqonda okwenziwa lula ngakumbi malunga nento eyenzekayo emhlabeni. Kuyonakalisa ngaphandle nangaphakathi emntwini: Awusaziva ngathi kukho omnye umntu onokuguqukela kuye kwaye ukucinezela iimvakalelo kunokuwohloka. impilo Yengqondo .
Kwi-The Know wenze udliwano-ndlebe noGqr. Amanda Darnley, isazi ngesayikholoji yeklinikhi enikwe ilayisenisi, nothe washwankathela ukumila okuyityhefu kumzekeliso wendlu etshayo.
Ndithanda ukucinga ngayo njengesikweko sendawo apho indlu yakho inokutsha kufutshane nawe, kwaye uhleli apho uncumile usithi ukonwabela kangakanani ubushushu, utshilo uDarnley. Lilonke, litshitshisa amava okwenene abantu.
Ngokutsho kukaDarnley, ukufumana uluhlu olupheleleyo lweemvakalelo-ezilungileyo nezibi-akukho mpazamo, kusenza sibe ngabantu.
Asinakukhetha ukuba zeziphi iimvakalelo esiya kuba nazo, uNoel McDermott, ugqirha wezengqondo, uxelele. Indawo yokucoca29 . Ukuba sizama ukususa iseti enye yeemvakalelo, siya kuzisusa zonke kwaye sibe ndindisholo kuzo zombini iimvakalelo ezimnandi nezingathandekiyo. Ukuba uzama ukususa iimvakalelo ezimbi, uyonakalisa ihlabathi lakho langaphakathi.
Iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, nangona zinokuziva zinzima kangakanani na ngamanye amaxesha, zinceda ukwakha ukomelela kwakho kunye nokukwazi ukumelana neengxaki ezizayo - kuba kukho rhoqo iya kuba yingxaki kwixesha elizayo.
Ngelixa ingenguye wonke umntu ofanelwe yinyani engacocwanga yobomi bethu, uMargie Warrel wabhala Forbes , ukunyanga ihlabathi leemvakalelo zomgunyathi kusihlukanisa nabantu abanokunceda ukuthwala imithwalo yethu ngcono.
Iindlela ezisempilweni ezinokuthi zibe netyhefu enokubandakanya ukuqinisekisa abanye kunye nokunyaniseka kuwe nakwabo bakungqongileyo. Ukunceda umntu akuthethi ukuba kufuneka usombulule iingxaki zakhe, phulaphula nje ngenyameko kwaye uqonde iimvakalelo zakhe.
Ekugqibeleni, khumbula: Kulungile ukuba ungahambi.
Unomdla kwisayikholoji yepop? Fumana ukuba yintoni uhlobo lwakho Myers-Briggs uthi ngawe.
Okungakumbi okuvela kwi-In The Know:
Ukwazi ulwimi lwakho lothando kunokubugcina njani ubudlelwane bakho
Ithebhulethi yoMlilo ekwinqanaba eliphezulu leAmazon ithengiswa ngeedola ezingama-35 kuphela
Abathengi baseAmazon bayayithanda le yekhilimu yezikhonkwane enceda ukukhuthaza izikhonkwane ezisempilweni
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