Ngaphandle nje
- Chaitra Navratri 2021: Umhla, iMuhurta, izithethe kunye nokubaluleka kwalo mnyhadala
- U-Hina Khan uyakhazimla phezulu nge-Copper Green Eye Shadow Kwaye i-Glossy Nude Lips Fumana ukuKhangela kumanyathelo ambalwa alula!
- I-Ugadi kunye ne-Baisakhi 2021: Spruce Jonga ukuHamba kweFestive kunye neeCelebs-eziPhefumlelweyo zeSuti
- I-Horoscope yemihla ngemihla: 13 Epreli 2021
Ungaphoswa
- UVishnu Vishal noJwala Gutta babopha iqhina ngo-Apreli 22: Jonga iinkcukacha apha
- Amabhaso amaqakamba e-New Zealand: U-Williamson uphumelele imbasa ye-Sir Richard Hadlee okwesine
- I-Kabira yokuHamba kweHermes i-75 yokuKhawulezisa ukuThengisa ukuSebenza ngeSikuta soMbane esaziswa eIndiya
- I-Ugadi 2021: UMahesh Babu, uRam Charan, uJr NTR, iDarshan kunye nezinye iinkwenkwezi zaseMzantsi zithumela iminqweno kubalandeli babo
- Ixabiso leGolide liwe ngokungekho xhala kwiiNBFCs, iibhanki kufuneka ziBukele
- Amatyala e-AGR kunye nefandesi yakutshanje yeSpectrum enokuthi ichaphazele icandelo leTelecom
- Isiphumo sokugqibela se-2021 samapolisa e-Bihar Bihar
- Iindawo ezili-10 ezigqibeleleyo zokundwendwela eMaharashtra ngo-Epreli
Ukuthanda umntu akuyiyo ikhekhe yokuhamba kunye nokwahlukana naloo mntu. Xa umthanda umntu ngokunyanisekileyo, utyala ixesha lakho kunye neemvakalelo zalo mntu. Ngewungazange ucinge ukuba uza kwahlukana nomntu omthanda kakhulu. Ukuyeka umntu ngenxa yayo nayiphi na ingozi eyintlekele, ukugula, uqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukwahlukana kuyaphula intliziyo. Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu sokwahlukana, iintlungu zinamandla kangangokuba abantu bahlala becinga ukuba banokufuna ixesha lokuphila ukuze boyise. Nangona kunjalo, nazi izikhombisi eziza kukunceda woyise le ntlungu ngendlela elula kwaye uyeke lowo ubumthanda kakhulu.
Skrolela ezantsi kwinqaku ukuze ufunde ngakumbi:
1. Vuma ukuba kutheni ubudlelwane bakho buphelile
Okokuqala, kufuneka uqonde ukuba yintoni engahambanga kakuhle kwaye kutheni ubudlelwane bakho buphelile. Ngaba yayikukulwa rhoqo nokungaqondani okanye ngaba yayiyinto embi? Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu sokuhlukana kwakho, kuya kufuneka usamkele. Ngaphandle kokuba awusifumani isizathu sokwahlukana kwakho, ngekhe ukwazi ukuyeka iqabane lakho.
2. Ziyekelele Iinyembezi Zakho
Siyaqonda ukuba unokwenzakala kwaye uxinezeleke emva kokuba ubudlelwane bakho buphelile. Unokonganyelwa ziimvakalelo malunga nexesha elilungileyo nelibi. Kwimeko enjalo, ukuzibamba iinyembezi kunye nokukrakra kunokwenza izinto zibe nzima. Ukuba uziva ufuna ukukhala nceda wenze njalo kwaye uzikhulule kwintlungu. Ukubambelela kwiinkumbulo ezikrakra nezibuhlungu akunakuze kukuncede ekuqhubeleni phambili ebomini bakho.
3. Nciphisa Bonke Abafowunelwa
Ngaphandle kwamehlo, ngaphandle kwengqondo- oku kuyakusebenza ngokwenene ukuba uyaqhawula onke amaqhina neqabane lakho. Eli lelinye lamanyathelo abalulekileyo wokuyeka umntu omthandayo. Kuya kufuneka ucime inombolo yakhe, umsuse kwiakhawunti yakho yemithombo yeendaba kwaye uphephe ukunxibelelana naye. Ukusilela koku, akunakukunceda ekumyekeni loo mntu kwaye uphilise intliziyo yakho eyaphukileyo. Awunakukwazi ukuqhubela phambili njengoko uya kuhlala ufumana ukubuyela kuloo mntu.
4. Yamkela ukuba awusekho kunye
Nokuba nobabini beninobudlelwane obonwabileyo nobusempilweni kwaye ninike konke okusemandleni enu ukwenza ubudlelwane buhlale ngonaphakade, kuya kufuneka ukwamkele ukuba anikho kunye. Kukho izibini ezizinikezela ngokupheleleyo kulwalamano kodwa azikwazi ukuhlala kunye ngonaphakade. Yamkela nje oku kwaye emva koko uya kuziva ulula ukudlulela phambili.
5. Shiya ngasemva kwexesha elidlulileyo
Ukuyeka umntu omthandayo akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uyeke ukunxibelelana naye kwaye uqhubeke ebomini bakho. Ngapha koko, ikwangokushiya ngasemva kwexesha elidlulileyo. Kuya kufuneka uyeke iinkumbulo zabo. Ukuba undwendwela ezo ndawo apho nobabini nihlala nichitha ixesha kunye, zizalisa lusizi neentlungu, ke kungcono ushiye ngasemva elidlulileyo. Siyaqonda ukuba ngekhe ulilibale ixesha enilichithe kunye kodwa ke akukho sizathu sokubuyela kwixesha elidlulileyo kaninzi.
6. Cinga ngokufanelekileyo
Kungenxa yokuba ulwalamano lwakho aluhlali ngonaphakade, oko akuthethi ukuba unephutha. Okukhona ucinga nzulu ngento eyenzekileyo kwaye ukuba ubukhe wenza nantoni na ukusindisa ubudlelwane, ngekhe ukwazi ukushenxa kubumnyama. Kuya kufuneka ugcine ulwalamano kuwe uphila, kungenjalo izinto azizukuba lula.
7. Tsalela Abahlobo Bakho Nabanye Abantu Obathandayo
Abahlobo bakho kunye nabantu obathandayo banokukunceda ekuyekeni komntu omthandayo. Kuthiwa abantu obathandayo banokwenza izinto zibe lula nangamaxesha akho anzima. Yiyo loo nto ukuba awukwazi ukudlulela kwintlungu yakho emva koko ungatsalela umnxeba abantu obathandayo. Ubukho babo buya kukwenza uzive ungcono kwaye wonwabile.
8. Sebenzisa ixesha lakho ekwenzeni umsebenzi onentsingiselo
Kungcono ukuba uzibandakanye ekwenzeni into enemveliso nenentsingiselo. Akukho sizathu sokukhala ngento engahambanga kakuhle njengoko ungekhe wenze nto ngoku ukulungisa izinto. Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ungabenza ngcono ubomi bakho ngokusebenzela amaphupha akho kunye nokwenza ikamva lakho liqaqambe. Oku akuyi kukunceda kuphela ukuba uphumelele kodwa kuya kukwenza ushiye ngasemva ubukrakra kunye nenqala.
9. Khangela ulonwabo lwangaphakathi
Ungaziva ulusizi kwaye unoxinzelelo lokuyeka iqabane lakho emva kokuba ulugqibile ulwalamano lwakho. Oku akungenxa yokuba ulwalamano lwakho aluzange lusebenze kodwa ngenxa yokuba ngekhe uyilindele le ebomini bakho. Ufuna ukuhlala neqabane lakho kwaye ke, uphuphe into efanayo ngekamva lakho. Kodwa ke, ekubeni ubomi buye batshintsha ngendlela ongayilindelanga, ungaziva ubuhlungu kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, oku akuthethi ukuba awungekhe wonwabe. Fumana ukonwaba kwakho, wenze izinto ezikwenza ukuba wonwabe kwaye ulibale ngentlungu yakho. Ubomi buba lula xa uyeka intlungu, inzondo kunye nenzondo.
10. Thatha uQeqesho kuyo
Emva kokuba uyeke ngempumelelo iqabane lakho langaphambili, kuya kufuneka uthathe umkhondo kubudlelwane bakho obungaphumelelanga. Ukuba isizathu sokuphelisa ubudlelwane bakho yayiyindlela yokuziphatha enetyhefu yeqabane lakho, ke kungcono ukuba ungabuyeli kubudlelwane obufanayo. Endaweni yokuba ungafunda izifundo ezibalulekileyo kwaye uzigcinele nakweyiphi na ubudlelwane obunobungozi kwixa elizayo.