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Abanye abantu banobuchule ekuqaliseni incoko nomntu ongamaziyo. Banqabile ukujongana nayo nayiphi na ingxaki okanye ukuthandabuza ekusebenzisaneni nomntu ongamaziyo. Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu oyinkunkqele kuyo kwaye ke, ukuthetha nomntu ongamaziyo kunokuziva kuyinto enzima kwabanye bethu. Kodwa enye ayinakuyikhanyela into yokuba ukuthetha nabantu ongabaziyo kunokusinceda ekwenzeni unxibelelwano olutsha kunye nokwazi abantu abasingqongileyo. Ke kwimeko enjalo, silapha ukukunceda. Ungahamba ngala manqaku akhankanywe apha ngezantsi ukuze wazi ukuba unganxibelelana njani nabantu ongabaziyo kunye nokwakha unxibelelwano.
1. Zama ukwenza uqhagamshelwano ngamehlo
Ukwenza unxibelelwano ngamehlo yenye yezona zinto zibalaseleyo zokwenza ngaphambi kokunxibelelana nomntu. Ukuba abantu abakungqongileyo basabela ngamehlo akho ngoncumo okanye ukunqwala okuqinisekileyo, ngokuqinisekileyo unokuqalisa incoko kunye nabo. Kodwa sukujonga kubo, iyakubaphazamisa. Endaweni yoko ungabacela ukuba bathethe ngeziqu zabo. Ngale ndlela unokuqhekeza umkhenkce.
2. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, Bancome
Ukuba ufumana into enomdla kuzo, ungadlulisa ukuncoma okuhle. Njengokuba unokubancoma ngeenwele zabo, iimpahla, izihlangu, ukubukela okanye nokuba ngumvambo. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ukuncoma kuyinyani kwaye kuyathandeka, kungenjalo umntu unokucaphuka. Njengokuba unokuzama ukuthi, 'Ndiyazithanda izihlangu zakho, ziyakunceda kwilokhwe yakho' okanye 'Ndiyazithanda iinwele zakho, zikwenza ubonakale umhle.'
3. Qalisa iiNtetho ezincinci
Ukuze uzisindise kwiimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo zokuzazisa kwindawo yokuqala okanye ukubancoma, unokucinga ngokuqala-iintetho ezincinci. Njengokuba ungathetha ngendawo, ipati okanye umsitho othathe inxaxheba kuwo
4. Zazise
Ukuze uqalise incoko nabantu ongabaziyo, ungaqala ngokuzazisa. Ukuzazisa kuya kukunceda ekwaphuleni umkhenkce kwaye ukhululeke. Nje ukuba uzazise, ungacela omnye umntu ukuba enze njalo. Kananjalo, ukuba uyazi umntu othile ethekweni okanye kwindibano yokuncokola kunokuba luncedo ngakumbi njengoko unokucela umhlobo wakho ukuba akwazise kwabanye abantu.
5. Ncuma kwaye ube noMdla wokwenene
Ukuzazisa kunye nokuqalisa intetho encinci akwanele ngelixa uzama ukuba nencoko nabantu ongabaziyo. Kuya kufuneka uphinde uvavanye ulwimi lomzimba lomntu ozama ukuncokola naye. Ukuba kubonakala ngathi bayaphazamiseka, banqumle iingalo / imilenze okanye bazama ukushiya oko kungumqondiso ukuba abanamdla ekuthetheni. Kwimeko apho, kungcono ukubanika indawo.
6. Musa ukubuza imibuzo eqhelekileyo
Ukubuza imibuzo enje kunokuba yinto ekruqulayo. Ukuba unomdla onyanisekileyo ngokwazi lo mntu, buza imibuzo efanelekileyo. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ungathethi ngemozulu! Kwimeko apho uziva ungakhululekanga, khangela umhlobo wakho ukuba akukhaphe xa udibana nabantu abatsha.
Ngale ndlela uya kuba nakho ukwaphula umkhenkce kwaye uqalise incoko elula. Ungabuza nokuba bavelaphi okanye benza ntoni ngexesha labo lokuzonwabisa.
7. Nika Isandla Sokunceda Ukuba Bayafuna
Yiba nobubele ngokwenene. Ukuba uzama ukuyenza inkohliso, umntu uya kuphuhlisa imiba yokuthemba. Ukuba ufumana umntu olahlekileyo, zama ukubanceda, ukuba bayalugatya uncedo lwakho, buya umva uhloniphe ukhetho lwabo.
8. Khangela Into Enifana Nobabini
Ukuba nento efana nayo inokuba yenye yeendlela ezilungileyo zokwakha unxibelelwano nabantu ongabaziyo. Ungazichaza izinto ozibona ziqhelekile phakathi kwakho nabo. Ukuba umntu uthanda izinto ezifanayo nangazithandiyo, kulula ukunxibelelana nabo. Okanye ukuba nobabini niye kwisixeko esiqhelekileyo okanye indawo, ninokuba nencoko emnandi.
9. Yiba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo
Ayisiyonto intle ukuba uhlala uqhula ngobomi bakho, zama ukuba ngumphulaphuli olungileyo, kuyakunceda ukunxibelelana nomntu ongamaziyo. Xa uzixabisile izimvo zabo kunye nemibono, kuya kuba lula kubo ukuba babelane nantoni na nawe.
Ukuba buthathaka kwaye ube buthuntu xa unxibelelana nomntu kunokuba yinto enkulu.
10. Kufuneka Uqonde Ukuba Umisa Nini
Ukuba awuyonwabele incoko ethile, ke phuma kuyo ngendlela egudileyo. Kodwa, ukuba uyathanda ukuthetha naloo mntu, mxelele ukuba uya kuthanda ukudibana nabo kwakhona. Sukuvakala utyhala okanye unqwenela, vele uziphathe ngendlela eqhelekileyo.
Nokuba zingaphi na iingcebiso esizongeza apha, eyona nto intle ukuyenza kukuba ngokwakho!