Isiqhelo sihamba ngolu hlobo: Wena kunye/okanye iqabane lakho nifika ekhaya nibuze belunjani usuku lwakho? Kulungile. Eyakho? Kulungile. Ngaba sinokubukela iNetflix ngoku? Kwaye….ngokunjalo, umbuzo omele ukuba sisiqalo sencoko esivulekileyo uba sisiphelo sobudlelwane obusondeleyo. Ke, unokwenza njani ukubambana omnye nomnye kube nentsingiselo ngakumbi kunye nokuqinisekisa ubudlelwane? Ukuqala, buyisela usuku lwakho belunjani? ngale mibuzo ilandelayo. Nantsi isizathu.
Kutheni Umele Ungathi ‘Ibinjani Imini Yakho?’
Ngoku ka Inzululwazi Yabantu , belunjani usuku lwakho? i-trap iqala xa lo mbuzo usiba yi-logistical check-in ngokuchasene nethuba lokuqokelela iinkcukacha ezinzulu malunga namava eqabane lakho (ubani kunye nendlela abatshintsha ngayo njengoko beqhuba ubomi babo). Ngaphandle kokuba ipepile kuthotho lokulandela-ups, phantse isoloko ifuna impendulo engacacanga okanye impendulo yegama elinye.
Isicombululo? Ukuchaza ngokuthe ngqo. Ufuna ukukhetha umbuzo oya kunyanzela iqabane lakho ukuba lithethe into enzulu okanye-okungenani-ukufumana iinkcukacha ezingaphezulu malunga namava akho eemvakalelo. Le mibuzo ilandelayo zezinye iindlela zokoyikeka belunjani usuku lwakho? kunye nezo zikhuthaza indibaniselwano yento ethile, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba sesichengeni kunye nokuvuleleka.
Imibuzo Omele Uyibuze Kunokuba ‘Ibinjani Imini Yakho?’
1. Yeyiphi eyona nxalenye ilungileyo yosuku lwakho?
2. Ngaba ikho into ekothusileyo namhlanje?
3. Ukhe wafunda/umamela nantoni na enika umdla namhlanje?
4. Ingaba uzithathile iifoto namhlanje? Yintoni?
5. Ndingenza njani usuku lwakho lube lula ngemizuzu emihlanu?
6. Yintoni oyenzileyo eyenzelwe wena namhlanje?
7. Yintoni onqwenela ukuba uyenzile namhlanje?
8. Yintoni onqwenela ukuba ubungayenzanga namhlanje?
9. Yintoni ekwenze wahleka namhlanje?
10. Ngaba ikho into ekwenze waziva udimazekile namhlanje?
11. Ngaba uzifumene iindaba ezilungileyo namhlanje?
12. Zingaphi iikomityi zekofu obunazo namhlanje?
13. Yintoni oyibulela kakhulu malunga nosuku lwakho?
14. Yeyiphi eyona ncoko imnandi ubunayo namhlanje?
15 Ndixelele izinto ezintathu ezilungileyo, ezikwehleleyo namhlanje;
16. Ubunesidlo sasemini namhlanje?
17. Yintoni ekukhuthaze kakhulu namhlanje?
18. Yeyiphi into oyenzileyo namhlanje ongathanda ukuyenza yonke imihla?
19 Ngaba wenze into entle nabani na namhlanje?
20. Ukuba ubunokwenza nayiphi na inxalenye yanamhlanje kwakhona, ibiya kuba yintoni kwaye ngoba?
21. Uzive uxatyisiwe nini namhlanje?
22 Ukuba ubunokuthembisa into enye ngomso, ibiya kuba yintoni na?
23. Ukuba usuku lwakho luguquke lwaba ngumboniso bhanyabhanya, ungadlala bani?
24. Ngaba uya kuyikhumbula inxalenye ethile yosuku lwakho kunyaka ukususela ngoku? Iminyaka emihlanu? Kanjani?
25. Awuyi kundibuza ngemini yam?
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