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Yintoni ebhetele kunokuba neqabane elikukhathaleleyo njengayo nantoni na? Xa ufumana umntu okukhathalele ngokwenyani kwaye ekuthanda ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ubomi bubonakala bonwabile. Nangona kunjalo ukufumana umntu ngamaxesha obudlelwane obuqhelekileyo, ii-hookups, iziporho, ukubamba kunye nokuhamba ngenqanawa kunzima. Nokuba uwela iindlela nomntu obonakala eyinyani kwaye ekhathala, ingqondo yakho inokuziva ingathandabuzeki ngamanye amaxesha. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ngekhe unqwenele ukuba kunye nomntu ofuna ulonwabo kuphela kwaye ungabi nolwalamano olunzulu. Oku kwenzeka ikakhulu ngabasetyhini kodwa namadoda nawo akachaphazeleka yimvakalelo apho afuna ukwazi ukuba amantombazana athandana nabo ayabakhathalela okanye hayi.
Ke ngoko, namhlanje silapha kunye neempawu eziza kukuxelela (funda: amadoda) ukuba intombi yakho ikukhathalele ngokwenene. Kwaye ukuba uyayibona le miqondiso kwintombazana yakho, siya kukucebisa ukuba ungamvumeli ahambe.
Funda kwakhona: Iingcebiso ezili-10 ezinokukunceda ekubeni uthandane ngakumbi kwiQabane lakho
1. Uhlala enomdla kwindawo okuyo
Intombi yakho iya kuhlala ibonisa umdla wayo ekwazini ukuba uphi kwaye luhambe njani usuku lwakho. Uya kuqinisekisa ukubuza ukuba ubusidla isidlo sakusasa nesidlo sasemini ngexesha okanye hayi. Ayikuko ukuba uyintombi yakho kwaye ke, kufuneka azi ukuba uphi. Ngapha koko, angayenza le nto kuba ukukhathalele ngokwenene.
2. Uhlala enomqolo wakho
Nokuba imeko imbi kangakanani uya kuhlala enomqolo. Akasoze akushiye wedwa kwaye uya kuhlala ekuxhasa. Nanini na xa uziva uphantsi, uyakuhlala ekhona ukuze akuphakamise mhlawumbi akunike intetho okanye akunyanzele ukuba uphinde uzame kwakhona. Kananjalo akasokuze amelane nelinye igama ngokuchasene nawe. Uza kubavalela ngaphandle abo bathetha kakubi ngawe. Kungenxa yokuba uyazi ukuba ungumntu olungileyo kwaye uyakholelwa kuwe. Kwakhona, ukukhathalele.
3. Ubonisa imbeko ebantwini ebalulekileyo ebomini bakho
Uyazi ukuba zeziphi iindima ezidlalwa ngamalungu osapho kunye nabahlobo bakho ebomini bakho kwaye ke, uyabahlonipha. Awusoze umbone engabahloniphi abantu obathandayo. Kwimeko apho, ukhathazekile ngenxa yabanye abahlobo bakho, abantu osebenza nabo, amalungu osapho okanye izalamane, uya kukwazisa buqu kodwa angaze abahlonele. Uya kuzama konke okusemandleni akhe ukwazi ngakumbi malunga nosapho kunye nabahlobo bakho. Uyakumfumana ekhulisa ubudlelwane obuhle kunye nabo.
4. Uyonwaba kulonwabo lwakho
Umntu ofumana ukonwaba kwakho kuya kuba yenye yezona zinto zinyani ebomini bakho. Ngokufanayo, uya kufumana intombi yakho iziva wonwabile emva kokubona wonwabile ngento ethile. Uya konwaba nakwimpumelelo yakho encinci. Kwakhona, xa ulusizi, ngekhe umfumane ekwimo yovuyo yengqondo. Ngapha koko, naye uya kuziva elusizi kwaye enomsindo. Akayi kuyenza le nto ngenxa yokwenza kodwa ngenxa yokuba uqhagamshelene ngokunyanisekileyo nawe kwaye ukukhathalele.
5. Uyakhuthaza ukufezekisa iinjongo zakho
Ukuba intombi yakho ikukhathalele ngokwenene, iya kuhlala ikukhuthaza ukuba ufezekise iinjongo zakho kwaye uzalisekise amaphupha akho. Nanini na xa uziva uphantsi kwaye uphantsi, uya kuba yeyona nkqubo yakho inkulu yenkxaso. Uya kukwenza ukholelwe kuwe ukuze uhlale usenza konke okusemandleni kuwo onke amathuba. Kungenxa yokuba ukhathazeke ngokwenene ngawe kwaye ukukubona uhambela phambili ebomini bakho kuya kumenza abe nolonwabo ngakumbi. Akayi kukukhuthaza kuphela kodwa uya kuziva enelunda ngawe.
6. Uxhalabele Impilo Yakho
Olunye uphawu oluxelela ukuba intombi yakho ikukhathalele ngokwenene kukuba iyakuhlala iyikhathalele impilo yakho. Nje ukuba afumane ulwazi malunga nokutya okungahambisani nawe, yena ngokwakhe uya kuqinisekisa ukukugcina kude nako. Uya kuqinisekisa ukuba unesondlo esifanelekileyo kunye nokulala ngokwaneleyo. Ngamaxesha athile, ungamfumana ekuthwele njengaye umama wakho. Ukuba ubona intombi yakho ikukhathalele ngokokude kungabikho bulumko ekumyekeni ahambe.
7. Ukunika elona Cebiso liBalaseleyo
Umntu okukhathalele ngokwenene kwaye ofuna ukukubona ugqwesa ebomini bakho uya kuhlala ekunika elona cebiso lililo. Akayi kuze acebise into enokubangela iingxaki kwixesha elizayo. Ngokufanayo, ukuba intombi yakho ikukhathalele ngentliziyo iphela, iya kukucebisa ukuba uhlale ukhetha into elungileyo. Uya kukunika iingcebiso emva kokuhlalutya onke amathuba kunye neziphumo.
8. Uhlala ekhumbula zonke iinkcukacha eziNye Ngawe
Kutheni le nto umntu anokuthi anikele ingqalelo kwinkcukacha zakho ezincinci ukuba akakukhathalelanga? Intombi yakho iya kuhlala ikhumbula izinto ozithandayo nongazithandiyo njengaleyo ungayikhetha ngesidlo sakusasa okanye yintoni ekwenza uzive ukhululekile emva kosuku oluxakekileyo. Uya kuyikhumbula ihempe yakho oyithandayo, indawo oyithandayo yeholide, uhlobo lwakho lweencwadi, izinto ozithandayo. Ke, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba intombi yakho ihoyana nkqu neyona nkcukacha incinci ngawe, kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba uhlala usengqondweni yakhe.