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Sonke sivile ngomzekeliso odumileyo- 'Umhlobo xa udinga ngumhlobo wokwenyani.' Kodwa, mhlawumbi asilisebenzisi eli qhekeza lobulumko rhoqo kwaye sixakeke kakhulu kubomi bethu kangangokuba ukunceda abanye babe yingcinga eyindalo. Kulo nyaka, kwi-2019, usuku lobuhlobo lungo-4 Agasti kwaye sonke ngoku sinesizathu sokunceda abahlobo bethu abasweleyo kwaye sibenze bonwabe.
Umhlobo wakho unokuba noxinzelelo, uxinzelelo emalini, unokuba likhoboka okanye kungenzeka ukuba uye waqhekeka. Unokuba noxinzelelo. Ukuze uncede umhlobo wakho, kufuneka ujonge kubunzulu bentlungu abakuyo. Kuya kufuneka uyiqonde imeko yabo, zibeke apho kwaye ucinge ukuba ubuya kuvakalelwa njani kwimeko yakhe kwaye uqalise ukucinga ngesisombululo. Ubuhlobo yitempile yonxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu ababini, apho wena nomhlobo wakho nidibanisene.
Ubuhlobo budinga ukuthembana kunye nokukholelwa komnye nomnye kwaye ubukhulu becala, ukulungela ukuncedana ngexesha lokufuna. Ke ukuba ucinga ukuba umhlobo wakho uyakudinga, ke qala ukumnceda aphume kwimeko akuyo.
Xa Abahlobo Bakho Befuna Wena
Kukho imiqondiso eliqela ebonisa ukuba umhlobo wakho ukufuna ngamandla. Iimpawu ezithile ezikwenza ukuba uqaphele ukuba umhlobo wakho uyakudinga ukuba utshintshe ngesiquphe kwindlela aziphethe ngayo, iifowuni zakhe zesiqhelo kuwe azisekho, unxibelelana nabo ngokwasemoyeni kwaye xa bekuphazamisa uziva uluvo olo.
Kananjalo uyazi ukuba umhlobo wakho uyakudinga xa ubona ubuso obunomtsalane nobuzukisayo babo butshintsha bumbala okanye buthuntu. Le yeyona miqondiso ilula ekwenza uqonde ukuba umhlobo wakho uyakudinga kwaye lixesha lokuba ubancede.
Nceda Umhlobo Wakho Ngawo Onke Amaxesha
Kakhulu, abantu bafumana iingxaki kule meko. Bayazi ukuba umhlobo wabo unentswelo kodwa abaqinisekanga ukuba banganegalelo njani ekuncedeni umhlobo wabo aphume kwimeko akuyo. Ewe, eli nqaku liyakukunceda ekufumaneni indlela yokuya kumhlobo wakho ngoncedo izandla.
Xa usazi ukuba umhlobo wakho ufuna uncedo lwakho kwaye uhamba kwixesha elinzima, uhlala uziva unomdla wokubanceda. Ngokwesiqhelo awuyiqondi indlela yokunceda nangona ungumhlobo osenyongweni. Kwenzekile kuthi sonke. Ke, ungakhathazeki. Kukho iindlela ezilungileyo kakhulu onokuthi ubonelele ngazo kwaye ziyimfuneko kakhulu kubo ngalo naliphi na ixesha. Nokuba abathethi, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kulwazi uncedo lwakho.
Ngale ndlela ungabanceda ngayo abahlobo bakho kwaye wenze ukudibanisa kube namandla ngakumbi-
1. Nika iNkxaso yakho rhoqo
Qaphela ngakumbi kuncedo olucwangcise ukunika umhlobo wakho. Ukuba nguwe umntu obabuza ukuba ngaba lukhona na uncedo onokubonelela ngalo, wenza iphutha. Umhlobo wakho sele enoxinzelelo kwaye isindululo sakho sokunceda siya kumbeka phantsi koxinzelelo kunokuba besimnceda. Akayi kukwazi ukuba loluphi uhlobo loncedo oza kuba nakho kwaye oko kuya kumenza angakubuzi.
Ke, xa usazi imeko akuyo, nikela ngoncedo lwakho ngokukodwa. Umzekelo, ukuba umhlobo wakho ufuna ikatala kwaye akanamali yokuthenga enye kwakhona. Nceda umhlobo wakho ngokunikela ngemali hayi ngokunikezela ngoncedo lwakho. Ukubonelelwa ngokukodwa zezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kwaye ziza kuluncedo kubuhlobo.
2. Bancede babone umfanekiso opheleleyo
Ukuba ucela ukunceda umhlobo wakho kwimeko ethile, kungcono ucinge ngoncedo olunika ngexesha labo lokudinga. Ngamanye amaxesha sithi kwaye sinike uncedo ngaphandle kokucinga. Ukuba umhlobo wakho uswele kakhulu kwaye ufuna aphume kuloo meko, kuya kufuneka unikezele ngezandla zakho ngoncedo.
Kodwa xa ungaqinisekanga ngemeko, kungcono uthathe inyathelo ubuye umva kwaye ucinge ukuba injani imeko. Qonda imeko akuyo umhlobo wakho ze unikezele ngesandla sakho ukunceda. Kungcono ngaloo ndlela.
Kufuneka uhlale uqinisekile ngoncedo olunika lona kwaye unganikezeli nje ngesandla sakho kuyo nayiphi na into ekunokwenzeka ukuba ungayenzi nayo. Ngale ndlela ungonakalisa ubuhlobo ngokunika igama kwaye ungaligcini. Uncedo lokwenyani zezo zikhethekileyo kwaye zicingelwa kakuhle. Uncedo lwakho luyafuneka kumhlobo wakho kwaye uncedo lwakho kufuneka luhlale luthe ngqo kwaye luyinyani kwindalo. Ungaze unike naluphi na uncedo olungenakubakho kwicala lakho.
3. Hlonipha iSithuba saBantu
Ukuba ungomnye umhlobo onyanisekileyo ungayihlonipha indawo yomhlobo wakho. Awunakunyanzela izandla zakho zokunceda xa engazidingi. Yiba nembeko kwaye ube nobuhlobo ngelixa unikezela izandla zakho unceda kodwa ungamcinezeli umhlobo wakho. Ukuba umhlobo wakho walile uncedo lwakho, sukumnyanzela ngoko. Xa uqhubeka ubacenga ukuba bancede, banokuziva bambi ngakumbi kunakwimeko abakuyo.
4. Mamela Iingxaki Zabo
Ngamanye amaxesha xa umntu ejongene neengxaki, ufuna umntu onokumamela nje nakweziphi na iingxaki anazo. Ukuba ubona ukuba umhlobo wakho unengxaki enjalo, hlala phantsi ubavumele bazityand 'igila kuwe. Unokubenza bazive ngcono xa umamele iingxaki zabo. Sukuthetha nabo kuphela. Ayizukumnceda umhlobo wakho. Ufuna ukuba bazityand 'igila kuwe babelane ngeengxaki abajamelene nazo. Leyo kuphela kwendlela onokwazi ngayo ukuba yintoni ingxaki kunye nento onokuyenza ukubanceda. Konke okufuneka ukwenze kukuphulaphula.
Olu suku lobuhlobo ukuba umhlobo wakho unalo naluphi na uhlobo lweengxaki kwaye uhamba kwinqanaba elibi, yiba sisilivere kubo.
Lonwabile usuku lobuhlobo kuni nonke!