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Kuyatshiwo ukuba 'Yonke into ilungile kuthando nakwimfazwe'. Ewe, asazi malunga nemfazwe, kodwa ngothando, ngokuqinisekileyo, ubudala abunamsebenzi. Nanini na xa abantu bethetha ngobudlelwane okanye izibini, uninzi lwazo lunoluvo olucingelwayo lokuba umsantsa wobudala phakathi komfazi nendoda (kwimeko yesini esitshatileyo) ayisayi kuba yiminyaka emi-3-4.
Kananjalo, kwiindawo ezininzi, kukholelwa ukuba indoda kufuneka indala kunowasetyhini xa kufikwa kubudlelwane okanye ekutshateni. Kodwa, xa indoda okanye umfazi othandana naye eneminyaka eli-10 okanye engama-20 emdala kuwe, akuhlali kakuhle noluntu.
Abantu bahlala bethandabuza malunga nezi zibini kodwa inyani ifuna ukwahluka.
Ukuba ufuna imizekelo, unokuthatha isicatshulwa kwizibini ze-Bollywood ezinje ngo-Shahid Kapoor kunye no-Mira Rajput, abanesithuba seminyaka eli-14 okanye uMilind Soman no-Ankita Konwar abaneminyaka engama-26 ubudala bathandana kakhulu .
Baninzi abanye abantu abatshatileyo okanye abathandanayo nabafazi abancinci kubo. Izinto zisebenzela bona ngendlela engcono. Ungakhathazeki kwakhona, kuba sidwelise izizathu ezininzi eziza kukubonisa ukuba kutheni ubudala bungakhathali kubudlelwane-
1. Akukho kwanto inokubetha amava ahamba nobudala
Ngokudala, uya esiba namava kwaye uqonde izinto ezintsha ezikungqongileyo. Umntu oneminyaka engama-30 ubudala ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba namava ngaphezulu komntu oneminyaka eli-15 kwaye ke, umntu unokuhlala ekhokelana okanye axoxe ngezimvo ukuba badlula kwimeko enzima.
Umama wasekhaya waseBihar, uNeha (igama litshintshiwe) uneminyaka engama-24, wabelana ngamava akhe noBoldsky malunga nomba wobudala kwaye wathi, 'Xa ndanditshata nomyeni wam, ndeva abanye abantu besithi,' Amadoda amadala akaze amamele. Abafazi babo ',' Uya kucinezelwa ngamanye amaxesha '. Kwakulixesha elinzima kuthi kodwa into ethethwa ngabantu ayinamsebenzi ngoku. Sinesikhewu seminyaka eli-14, kodwa oko akuzange kungene phakathi kothando lwethu. Kwaye, ndifunda okuninzi kuye. Amava akhe obomi andincede ukuba ndizikhuphe kwiimeko ezinzima amaxesha amaninzi '.
2. Ngobudala buza kwinqanaba eliphezulu lokukhula
Abantu bafumana ukukhula kumava abo. Njengokuba amadoda esiba mdala, inqanaba labo lokuvuthwa liyonyuka kwaye ke, banokunceda amaqabane abo ababhinqileyo okanye abafazi ngelixa bethatha izigqibo ezibalulekileyo. Ngokwenene oku kunokuba yinto ebalulekileyo ekugcineni ubudlelwane busempilweni kwaye buhlala buhleli.
UNeha uthi, 'Umyeni wam uyakwazi ukuphatha izinto xa ndinomsindo ngento ethile. Ukuba ngumfazi omncinci, ndisabela kwizinto ngokukhawuleza, kodwa uhlala ekulungele ukusingatha imeko '.
Kodwa, akuyomfuneko ukuba ngalo lonke ixesha iqabane elidala kubudlelwane linengqiqo ngokwaneleyo yokujongana nemeko, ngamanye amaxesha iqabane eliselula linokujongana nemicimbi ngokuqolileyo. Oku kusindisa esi sibini kwimilo emibi kubudlelwane.
Ngamanye amaxesha, umyeni wam, u-Ajay uziphatha ngendlela yobuntwana, ngenxa yothando. Kodwa ngamanye amaxesha, ndimenza aqonde izinto ezihlala zintsokothile kwindalo. Oku kuyamonwabisa kwaye uyandincoma esithi, 'uya uvuthwa', ukhumbula uNeha.
Akukho nto ibizwa ngokuba 'kukuFunda'
Xa kuziwa ekufundeni, akukho mda wobudala. Xa aba bantu babini benesikhewu seminyaka, bayakwazi ukufunda izinto ezininzi omnye komnye.
Ukwabelana ngeziganeko oye wahlangabezana nazo ngelixa usakhula kunokuba yenye yazo. UNeha uthi, 'Ndifundise umyeni wam indlela yokudanisa kunye nokuhlala kufanelekile ngokwenza i-yoga kwaye uyanceda ukuxoxa nam malunga nezopolitiko, ezembali nokunye okuninzi'.
Andizange ndizazi ezi zifinyezo zokuncokola. Kwakundidida kakhulu kodwa uNeha uyandinceda ukuba ndazi ngezi zinto. Ndiza kufunda kuye ukuba yintoni ehambayo kwaye yintoni engekhoyo, utshilo umyeni kaNeha, uAjay (igama litshintshiwe).
4. Ukujonga izinto ngokwembono eyahlukileyo
Akukho nto ilungileyo nengalunganga. Kuxhomekeka kwindlela esijongeka ngayo notolika abantu nezinto ezisingqongileyo. Kuba la maqabane mabini anesikhewu seminyaka, banokuza neembono ezininzi ngelixa bexoxa ngezimvo ezintsha. Okufanayo akunakwenzeka xa amaqabane amabini evela kubudala obufanayo.
5. Inqanaba lokuqonda
Xa amadoda etshata okanye ethandana nabafazi abancinci kubo, bayazi ukuba kufanele kubekho inqanaba elithile lokuqonda. Amadoda ayazi ukuba kufuneka aqonde kwaye abe nomonde kuthando lwawo lwenenekazi. Kukwasebenza kwanjalo kuyo kwabasetyhini.
Funda kwakhona: Iimpawu ezili-11 zaBasetyhini abaJongayo ngelixa bekhetha uMyeni wabo wexesha elizayo. Madoda, Bambani ipeni nephepha!
Thatha uQeqesho kwiZibuko eziDumileyo ze-Bollywood
Zininzi izibini ezidumileyo ze-Bollywood ezinezithuba zeminyaka emikhulu kodwa zithandana kakhulu.
Jonga le post kwi-InstagramIposi ekwabelwana ngalo ngu Jonga uRajput Kapoor (@ mira.kapoor) ngo-Feb 25, 2019 kwi-7: 10 am PST
Esinye sezi zibini ngumlingisi uShahid Kapoor (38) kunye nenkosikazi yakhe uMira Rajput (25). UMira uhlala ethetha ngomtshato wabo kunye nesithuba seminyaka yabo kwaye iphephancwadi elithandwayo uVogue naye umcaphule esithi, 'Ubumnandi (bukaShahid) bakhe ebomini lolunye uphawu endiluthandayo. Undincede ndakhululeka kakhulu. Uhlale ixesha elide, ke ukuba ikhona into, ndingazuza kumava akhe kwaye naye unokuzuza kumbono wam omtsha. [1]
Kwelinye icala, u-Shahid wayecatshulwe esithi, 'Siye emathekweni apho ndibaziyo abantu abaninzi kunaye kodwa bendihlala ndimfumana encokola kakhulu nabantu ahlangana nabo ngaphantsi kwesiqingatha seyure eyadlulayo! '
Esinye isibini ngumlingisi kunye nemodeli, uMilind Soman (oza kugqiba iminyaka engama-54 nge-4 kaNovemba ngo-2019) kunye nenkosikazi yakhe u-Ankita Konwar (28). Esi sibini sinesithuba seminyaka engama-26 kwaye sichasene neenkolelo kuba bethandana.
Jonga le post kwi-InstagramIposi ekwabelwana ngalo ngu Milind usha soman (@milindrunning) ngoJulayi 26, 2019 kwi-8: 11 am PDT
Kodwa, bonwabile emtshatweni ngoku. 'Yeyona nto intle eyenzekileyo kum undifundisile ukuba ndiyiyeke, ndithandane, ndonwabe. Kwaye iihambo zethu zisanda kuqala. Andikwazi kulinda ukuhlala ubomi bam bonke kunye naye ', Utshilo u-Ankita kudliwanondlebe no 'Humans Of Bombay'.
UMilind ugezele u-Ankita esithi 'Unina mncinci kunam.' Esi sibini samandla sonwabile kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo siyinkuthazo kwabanye.
Jonga iZalathiso zeNqaku- [1]UKamath Akanksha, u-2019, uSeptemba 7. Ukhethekileyo: uShahid noMira Kapoor xa babeqala ukudibana, umtshato kunye neemovie. Vogue. https://www.vogue.in/weddings/content/shahid-and-mira-kapoor-exclusive-interview-love-story-marriage-movies. Ibuyisiwe nge-12 Septemba 2019