Xa umntwana ohambahambayo womhlobo wayenikwe iindondo, ingcamango yam yokuqala yaba, Lusana oluseziglasini? Uhhhh, yintoni enokuba mhle? Kodwa umhlobo wam wayexhalabile. Intombi yakhe, uBernie, ayizange ikwazi ukunyamezela umnqwazi entloko-angayimela njani into ehlaselayo iindondo imini yonke, yonke imihla? Kwaye ezo nkxalabo zazifanelekile. Nje ukuba uBernie enxibe iindondo (kwaye ewe, wayekhangeleka emhle kakhulu), wazikhupha ngoko nangoko, wathi, hayi, hayi, hayi, wanyathela ngonyawo lwakhe walila. Ewe, yayiza kuba ngumngeni.
Kodwa ngoku, kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kamva, uBernie unxibe iifreyimu zakhe ezipinki rhoqo-kwiklasi yesiginci, epakini, naphi na. (Kwaye ewe, usajongeka emhle kakhulu.) Kodwa uBernie akanakuba nguye kuphela umntwana osele egadwe iindondo-kwaye umhlobo wam akanakuba nguye kuphela umzali onexhala ngalo mba. Ke, ndiye ndachwetheza umhlobo wam kunye noGqirha wamehlo kunye nonozakuzaku webrendi yeTransitions, uGqr. Amanda Rights, O.D., ukufunda ngakumbi malunga nobudlelwane obunobuqhophololo beeglasi.
Okokuqala, ngaba abantwana abaselula bafuna iiglasi? Bancinci kakhulu.
Ngokungafaniyo naloo minyaka ndandinxiba iindondo zomgunyathi ezivela kuClaire kuba ndandicinga ukuba kupholile (kwakungenjalo), uGqr. Amalungelo wasazisa ukuba imingeni yombono kubantwana abancinci iyinyani kwaye inokuchaphazela ukukhula kwabo, Ukususela kwiinyanga ezili-12 ukuya kwezingama-36, umbono ungomnye. zezivamvo eziphambili ezisetyenziswa ngabantwana ukufunda iikhonsepthi ezintsha nokufumanisa ihlabathi elibangqongileyo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zomyalelo, kubandakanywa ukukhuselwa ukuba bangaboni kakuhle kwiso elinye, ukuncedisa ngokumiswa kwamehlo anqamlekileyo okanye angahambi kakuhle kunye / okanye ukuqinisa umbono kwiliso elibuthathaka okanye elivila (amblyopic).
Naziphi na iimpawu ezilumkiso ezinokubonwa ngabazali?
Khangela ukukrwaqula, ukutyekeza iintloko zabo, ukuhlala kufutshane kakhulu nomabonwakude okanye izixhobo ezinje ngetablet okanye ukucikica amehlo kakhulu, utsho uGqr. Rights, Ukuba kukho nantoni na ephakamisa iinkxalabo, yenza idinga kunye nengcali yokhathalelo lwamehlo-nokuba ngugqirha wamehlo okanye Ugqirha wamehlo okwazi ukwenza uvavanyo lwamehlo lwabantwana olubanzi kunye novavanyo lombono ukuze aqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho omncinci unombono okanye imiba yempilo yamehlo efuna unyango. (I-Psst, ukuhlolwa kombono ngugqirha wabantwana okanye omnye ugqirha wokunyamekela okuphambili akugqalwa njengento ethatha indawo yovavanyo olubanzi lwamehlo kunye nombono olwenziwa ngugqirha wamehlo.) Kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna iiglasi? Amalungelo athi ukukhangela ivenkile yamehlo ephethe iimpahla zamehlo zabantwana kunye nogqirha wamehlo kwindawo kuba ukulingana kubalulekile.
Kwaye xa sele uneendondo, wenza njani ukuba umntwana wakho azinxibe?
Ngelixa uGqr. Amalungelo esixelele ukuba ukubona ngcono kunokukhuthaza ngokwaneleyo ukugcina iiglasi zivuliwe, siyabazi abantwana abathile ( ukhohlokhohlo , Bernie) onokucinga ngenye indlela. Ke ngoku wenzantoni? UGqr. Amalungelo ucebisa ukuba uvumele umntwana wakho abe nesandla ekukhetheni iifreyimu ukuze azive ebalulekile, ebandakanyiwe kwaye ke ngaphezulu ebhodini. Ngokubhekiselele kumhlobo wam, onke amacebiso awawafumanayo akhokelela kwingcebiso efanayo: ukunyoba-nokuba kukwimo yexesha lesikrini, i-snacks ekhethekileyo, iithoyi kunye neencwadi. Uye waqinisekisa ukuba intombi yakhe iyabona ukuba wonke umntu omngqongileyo wayenxibe iindondo-utata, umama, heck nkqu nabalinganiswa kwezinye zeencwadi zakhe azithandayo, Omnye wabahlobo bakamama wam undinike incwadi enkulu ebizwa ngokuba UArlo ufuna iiglasi malunga nenja efuna iindondo. Inja + incwadi = iiglasi-enxibe igolide.
Kodwa kuthekani ukuba umntwana wam usazikrazula? (Ndinqwenela apha!)
Uphefumlela phezulu. AWUKHO wedwa. Umhlobo wam waba namava amaninzi, kodwa yena nomyeni wakhe bawaqaphela amaxesha angqalileyo uBernie awayekhathazeke ngayo aze akrazule iindondo—ekupheleni kosuku xa wayedinwa, esemotweni, njl. njl. cinezela ngala maxesha kuba wayesele ekwisiphelo sakhe. Xa uBernie wayevukile ngokupheleleyo, esekhaya kwaye ekhululekile, bazibandakanya ekunyobeni okunempembelelo enkulu: Eyona nto [uBernie] ayithandayo kuBuso kunye nabazala bakhe. Ngoko, saqalisa ukumxelela ukuba kufuneka anxibe iindondo zakhe ukuba ufuna ukuthetha nabo. Emva kokuchasa kwakhe okokuqala, waqala ukudlala ngeendondo, ezibeka entloko. Simvumela ukuba ahlole kwaye athathe ixesha lakhe kunye nabo. Kancinci kancinci, waqalisa ukuziqhelanisa nazo waza wazigcina ixesha elide. Wade waqalisa ukuthetha negama elithi ‘iglasi.’
