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Ngexesha elilungileyo, bekungeyonto imbi ukuhamba unxibe ibhulukhwe enkulu ... de umntu yagqiba ekubeni. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba ibinguwe na umntu (owenze isigqibo sokunuka kwakho) okanye umama notata wakho (abagqibe ekubeni bagqibile ukucoca ubumdaka obungeyomfuneko). Nokuba yeyiphi na imeko, isigaba esoyikekayo soqeqesho lwendlu yangasese saqala…

Kutheni sithetha ngembali yakho kunye nama-diapers, khangela le minyaka emininzi edlulileyo? Uvelwano, abantu. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuqeqesha umntwana osemncinci, njengemiba emininzi yokuba ngumzali, kuthatha umonde omkhulu, ngoko ke qalisa ngokungena kwimithombo yakho yovelwano. Kodwa kwakhona kufuna inkuthalo, uburharha kunye nesicwangciso somdlalo. Qhubeka ufunda ukuze ufumane ezona ndlela zibalaseleyo kunye neengcebiso zoqeqesho ngobumbi-zifinyeziwe, ukuze ukwazi ukuskrola kuzo ngexesha elithatha ukuba… uh, nokuba yintoni na.

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Ngaba Umntwana Wam Ulungele Ukuqalisa Uqeqesho Lweembiza?

Inxalenye yokuqala yomsebenzi wokuqeqesha i-potty inento yokwenza nokuvavanya ukulungela komntwana wakho. Uyayazi yonke into malunga nenkqubela phambili ngoku ... kwaye iditching diapers yenye yazo. Njengeminye imiba ephambili, le ayizufikelelwa ngaxeshanye ngumntwana ngamnye (kwaye uluhlu lubanzi), kodwa uninzi lwabantwana luqala inkqubo kwindawo ethile phakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 kunye neminyaka emi-3 ubudala.

Kodwa unokuqonda njani ukuba lixesha lokuba umntwana wakho ayenze? Ewe, ngo-1999, ijenali yeAmerican Academy of Pediatrics yapapasha a isikhokelo sesalathiso koogqirha abathethelele indlela ejolise kumntwana (ngaphezulu koko kamva) kwaye bacetyiswe ukuba bajonge ezi mpawu zingezantsi zokulungela ngokwasemzimbeni, engqondweni nangokweemvakalelo ngaphambi kokuba baqale:

• ukutsala okanye ukususa idiaper emanzi okanye emdaka
• ukwazisa (ukuthetha) ngesidingo sokuchama okanye ukuchama phambi kokwenza isenzo
• ukuvuka womile kwi-nap, okanye ukuhlala womile iiyure ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu zokuvuka
• ebonisa ukungonwabi malunga nokuba ne-diaper emdaka kwaye ucela ukutshintshwa
• ukuzimela/ukufuna indawo yabucala yokuchama okanye ukuchama

Kodwa intaphane yezinye izinto ezinokuba negalelo ekulungeni komntwana ngamnye, yaye maxa wambi iimpawu azicaci kangako yaye azicaciswanga ngokucacileyo, utsho uT. Berry Brazelton, M.D., injineli yendlela yokufundisa abantwana nombhali Uqeqesho lwangasese: Indlela yaseBrazelton . Ngokwe-AAP: Lo mzekelo woqeqesho lwendlu yangasese ubandakanya amandla amathathu ahlukeneyo ekuphuhliseni umntwana: ukuvuthwa komzimba (umzekelo, ukukwazi ukuhlala, ukuhamba, ukunxiba kunye nokukhulula); impendulo yangaphandle (oko kukuthi, uyaqonda kwaye uphendule umyalelo); kunye nengxelo yangaphakathi (umzekelo, ukuzithemba kunye nokukhuthaza, umnqweno wokuxelisa nokuchonga nabacebisi, ukuzimisela kunye nokuzimela).

Ukuziva ukoyisakala? Musa. Ukuba ubona ezinye zeempawu ezithile, ufumana ukukhanya okuluhlaza. Ukuba unawo nawaphi na amathandabuzo malunga nokulungela ukukhula komntwana wakho, thetha nogqirha wakho wabantwana kuqala ukuze akuqinisekise. (Kwaye khumbula, ukuba uqalisa kwakamsinyane kakhulu, unokusuka nje uyeke uzame kwakhona kamva. Akukho nto inkulu, ukuba nje awukwenzi enye.)

Iindlela ezimbini zoQeqesho lwePotty

Zininzi iindlela zokuqeqesha iimbiza, kodwa ukuba ufunda kuzo kakhulu (unetyala!) Zonke zinokuqala ukuvakala zifana ngokufanayo ngohlengahlengiso oluncinci kuphela. Ngenjongo yokulula, nangona kunjalo, iphelela kumgca wexesha ocetyiweyo. Ngaloo ndlela, iindlela ezimbini eziphambili yindlela ekhokelwa ngumntwana (evunywe yi-AAP) kunye neentsuku ezintathu zoqeqesho lwe-potty (evunywe ngoomama emhlabeni wonke abafuni ukuchitha iminyaka emibini yoqeqesho lwamanzi). Zombini ezi ndlela ziyasebenza. Funda kwi-scoop kwisicwangciso ngasinye.

Indlela ekhokelwa ngabantwana

Le ndlela yaphuhliswa okokuqala nguGqr Brazelton kwi-1960 kwaye iye yahlala isinye sezikolo eziphambili zeengcinga kwihlabathi lokuqeqesha ngeembiza. Ugqirha wabantwana odumileyo, uGqr Brazelton waqaphela izigulane zakhe waza wagqiba ukuba abazali baqhubela abantwana babo ukuba baqeqeshe i-potty ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uxinzelelo olubekwe kubantwana lwaluchasene nenkqubo. Kwincwadi yakhe ethengiswa kakhulu, Iingongoma , uGqr. Brazelton ukhuthaza ukuba abazali babambe ade umntwana wabo abonise iimpawu zokulungela (kwindawo ethile malunga neenyanga ezili-18) eziquka ukukhula kolwimi, ukulinganisa, ukucoceka, ukuncipha kokungakhathali… Nje ukuba ezi mpawu zibonakale, uqeqesho lwendlu yangasese. inkqubo ingaqala- kancinci kakhulu kwaye ngokuthe ngcembe. Yintoni indima yabazali, uyabuza? Yinto yokwenza kakhulu. UDkt Brazelton uncoma ukuba abazali babonise umntwana wabo isinyathelo ngasinye senkqubo ... kwaye malunga nayo. Undoqo kule ndlela kukuba kufuneka ubuncinci wenze ngathi awunanxaxheba kwinkqubo xa umntwana wakho exelisa amanyathelo ombonisileyo, kwaye kufuneka wamkele ukuba kungathatha ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuba abonakalise umdla wokwenza. ishishini lakhe kwindawo efanelekileyo.

Amanyathelo oqeqesho lwangasese olukhokelwa ngabantwana:

Iveki yoku-1:Thenga umntwana wakho i-potty, mxelele ukuba kungokwakhe kwaye uyibeke kwindawo evelele-ngokukhethekileyo kwindawo apho achitha ixesha elininzi, ngoko kungekhona indawo yokuhlambela-kwaye umvumele ukuba athathe naphi na apho afuna khona.

Iveki 2:Emva kweveki okanye ngaphezulu, mthathe ukuba ahlale kuyo enxibe iimpahla zakhe . (UGqr. Brazelton uthi ngeli nqanaba, ukususa iimpahla kuya kuba nzima kwaye kunokumoyikisa.)

Iveki 3:Buza umntwana wakho ukuba unokuthatha i-diaper yakhe kanye ngosuku ukuba ahlale ebhodweni. Oku kukuseka nje inkqubo, ngoko ungalindeli ukuba ahlale ixesha elide okanye enze nantoni na xa elapho.

Iveki 4:Xa umntwana wakho ene-diaper emdaka, mse embizeni yakhe kwaye umjonge ukuba ukhuphe i-poop yakhe embizeni yakhe encinci. UGqr. Brazelton uthi akufanele ugungxule ilindle ngelixa ebukele, kuba nawuphi na umntwana uvakalelwa kukuba ilindle liyinxalenye yakhe kwaye unokothuka xa elibona linyamalala.

Iveki 5:Ngoku umntwana wakho ulawula ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba ebenomdla kwamanye amanyathelo, unokumvumela ukuba abaleke eze kwaye asebenzise imbiza ngokuthanda kwakhe. Beka i-potty egumbini kunye nomntwana wakho ukuze afike kuyo xa efuna. UGqr Brazelton uthi kulungile ukumkhumbuza ngobumnene iyure nganye ukuba uzame ukuhamba, kodwa unganyanzelisi.

Iveki 6:Ukuba umntwana wakho wenze kakuhle ukuza kuthi ga ngoku, ungayishiya ibhulukhwe yakhe ixesha elide.

Ke ngokwala manyathelo, indlela ekhokelwa ngabantwana ibonakala ngathi kukuzibophelela ngokufanelekileyo kweeveki ezintandathu. Hayi ncam. UGqr Brazelton uthi buyela ngqo kwi-diapers ukuba umntwana wakho unengozi emgangathweni, kwaye ukuba umntwana wakho uba nexhala okanye uxhathisa, buyisela umva ngokukhawuleza kwaye uyilibale. Zombini iingozi kunye nokuchasana akunakuphepheka, ngoko uya kuzifumana ubuyile kwisikwere amaxesha amaninzi. Ngaloo ndlela, indlela ekhokelwa ngabantwana inokuthatha ixesha elide kakhulu kwaye idla ngokuhambelana nokuqeqeshwa kade. Kwelinye icala, ukuba unomonde woqeqesho olukhokelwa ngabantwana, inkqubo ithambile kwaye iyayinqanda yonke imigibe eqhelekileyo yoqeqesho lombhobho, njengaxa uxinzelelo lwabazali ludala unxulumano olubi kunye nomzabalazo wamandla womntwana nomzali.

Iintsuku ezi-3 zoqeqesho lwePotty

Le ndlela yokuqeqesha i-potty-fire-fire-fire-fire is basically ichasene nendlela kaDkt Brazelton ekhokelwa ngumntwana kwaye yaqala ukuthandwa kwi-70s kunye nencwadi kaNathan Azrin kunye noRichard Foxx, Uqeqesho Lwezindlu zangasese Ngaphantsi Kosuku . Sele ilungisiwe ngababhali abaninzi kunye neengcaphephe ukuze ilingane kakuhle nemigaqo yangoku yobuzali. Ngokombono wethu, eyona ncwadi ingcono kwindlela yoqeqesho lweentsuku ezintathu Owu Crap! Uqeqesho lwePotty , ibhalwe ngu UJamie Glowacki , iguru lokuqeqesha ngeembiza kunye nozibiza ngokuba nguPied Piper wePoop. Undoqo wale ndlela kukuba ugxotha ngokusesikweni i-diapers, uvale ishedyuli yakho yempelaveki ende kwaye unikele yonke ingqalelo yakho ekujongeni yonke intshukumo yomntwana wakho omncinci ongenanto ukuba afunde iimpawu zakhe (kwaye umncede afunde eyakhe).

Uqala nini? Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ukuqeqeshwa ngeembiza kulula kakhulu xa kwenziwa phakathi kweminyaka engama-20 kunye neenyanga ezingama-30, ubhala uGlowacki, kodwa akukho mfuneko yokuba ukhathazeke kakhulu malunga nokulungela logama nje umntwana wakho emdala kuneenyanga ezili-18, kuba le nkqubo iqala ngeyakho. umntwana efumanisa ukulungela kwakhe. UGlowacki uchaza umda wexesha ngolu hlobo: Sithatha ulwazi lomntwana wakho kulo Andinalwazi ukuya Ndachama ukuya Ndiyachama ukuya Funeka Ndiyochama ngeentsuku ezimbalwa.

Amanyathelo e-3-Day Potty-Uqeqesho Indlela

1. Shiya i-diapers kwaye uvumele umntwana wakho azi ukuba wenza njalo. Yenze ibe mnandi kwaye ilungile, kodwa qalisa inkqubo nge-fanfare encinci kangangoko kunokwenzeka ukuze umntwana wakho azive ngathi uqeqesho lwe-potty eqhelekileyo kwaye hayi into enkulu. UGlowacki uthi ungazigcina iidiaper ebusuku nangezizathu ezibambekayo (njengokukhwela iimoto ezinde), kodwa uyalumkisa ukuba oku kuya kwenza inkqubo ibe nde kuba umntwana wakho esacinga ukuba lukhetho.
   
   
2. Kwiintsuku ezintathu zokuqala, awuyi kuphuma endlwini, awuyi kumfaka ibhulukhwe okanye i-underwear emntwaneni wakho kwaye awuyi kuwasusa amehlo akho kuye. Ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba uphawule ezinye zeempawu zomntwana wakho, mlahlele embizeni (okanye slayidela imbiza phantsi kwayo) ukuze umbambe i-pee okanye i-poo. Ukuba wenza isikhewu, khawuleza kodwa ungaphakuzeli. Ewe, ulwelo lomzimba luya kufika emgangathweni. Kodwa ingcamango kukuba oku kuya kwenzeka ngaphantsi nangaphantsi njengoko eqala ukuchonga iimvakalelo ezikhokelela ekumphuthumiseni kwakhe embizeni. Ekugqibeleni, xa evakalelwa kukuba uyeza, uya kukhetha ukuzifaka embizeni.
   
   
3. Phakathi kweedashi ukuya kwi-potty, khuthaza umntwana wakho ngezikhathi ezithile kwaye umkhumbuze ukuba aphulaphule umzimba wakhe. Sukungxama ngokugqithisileyo, kuba oko kuyakukhathaza, kwaye ukubamba kuyacaphukisa. Mncome umntwana wakho ngayo nantoni na ephela embizeni, kodwa musa ukuyibaxa, kuba ukungena embizeni eqhelekileyo . Ukuba uchama uya emgangathweni endaweni yoko, musa ukucaphuka okanye ungxolise, vele uthethe into enje, Owu, kwixesha elizayo siza kuyibeka embizeni endaweni yoko.
   
   
4. Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa zokusebenzisa i-potty, unokubeka umntwana wakho kwinqanaba elilodwa phantsi-ibhulukhwe okanye impahla yangaphantsi. UGlowacki uthi kungcono ukuba ungenzi zombini, kuba abantwana banokudidanisa ukuvakalelwa kwamacandelo amabini kunye nemvakalelo yokugqoka i-diaper. Ngamanye amazwi, xa ucinga ukuba ukulungele ukuphuma endlwini, qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uya kwi-commando.
   
   
5. Okunye yimbali. Izakhono ziya kuqhubeka ziqinisa, kwaye ekugqibeleni awuyi kufuna ukuzisa i-potty yangaphandle kwimisebenzi yakho.

UGlowacki uchaza inkqubo kwiibhloko, hayi iintsuku, kodwa kuninzi lwabantwana yonke into yenzeka ngokukhawuleza-naphi na ukusuka kwiintsuku ezintathu ukuya kwiiveki ezimbini ukuya ekubeni baqeqeshwe ngokupheleleyo. Kuphela ibhloko yokuqala ifuna ukuqaphela ngokupheleleyo, kuba ngeli nqanaba umntwana wakho akakakwazi. Ukuvala ezimbini kusafuna iliso elibukhali, kodwa ngeli xesha umntwana wakho uya kubandakanyeka kakhulu kwinkqubo. Ibhlokhi yesithathu imalunga nokomeleza izakhono, utshilo.

Isizathu sokuba le ndlela isebenze ngokukhawuleza kukuba akufuneki uhlehle kuphawu lokuqala lokuchasa. UGlowacki ucacisa ukuba ibhloko nganye inomdlalo wayo owahlukileyo omele ujonge phambili kuyo, kwaye indlela osabela ngayo kulo mdlalo iya kugqiba inkqubela kunye nesimo sengqondo somntwana wakho ngale nkqubo. Umntwana wakho uya kuluxhathisa utshintsho kwaye usenokuziva esoyika. Yenza hayi zenza zingasebenzi iimvakalelo zakhe, utshilo uGlowacki, kodwa hlala ungaguquguquki okanye uya kugqibela ngokuzondla kuloyiko lwakhe. Ukuba ujongene nomsindo ogcweleyo ngokusebenzisa i-potty, uGlowacki uxelela abathengi bakhe ukuba baqine kodwa bathambe: Khumbuza uze uhambe ... akaze umntwana abe nomsindo kwigumbi elingenanto.

Ndingayikhetha Njani Indlela Elungileyo?

Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yeyiphi indlela oyikhethayo, ukuzithemba kweprojekthi. Iingcali kuzo zombini iinkampu ziyavuma ukuba uxinzelelo lwabazali lutshaba xa kuziwa ekuqeqesheni okuphumelelayo kweembiza. Ngokwenene, le nyaniso ziindaba zakudala kuluntu lwezonyango. Oogqirha kwi-AAP bayaqaphela ukuba ezininzi iingxaki zoqeqesho lwangasese ezinikezelwa kubasebenzi bezempilo zibonisa iinzame zoqeqesho ezingafanelekanga kunye noxinzelelo lwabazali. UGlowacki uyavuma: Ngaphezu kweminyaka elishumi yamava esebenza neentsapho ekuqeqesheni iimbiza, uye wazibonela ngawakhe indlela ezona ndlela zimbini zixhaphakileyo zoxinzelelo lwabazali—ukushukuma nokuqhubela phambili—ziphumela kungquzulwano lwamagunya oluphazamisa inkqubo. Awunako kwaye awusoze uphumelele umzabalazo wamandla wokuqeqesha nge-pot kunye nomntwana ohambahambayo.

Ke ngokusisiseko, yidlale ipholile okanye uya kucoca impahla yangaphantsi emdaka ixesha elide (kwaye uyonakalisa imini owazisa ngayo umntwana wakho kwi-crapper).

ZEZIPHI Ezona zindlu zangasese ZOQEQESHO NGEPOTTI?

Yonke into iqala ngesitulo sombhobho, ke qiniseka ukuba ufumana okulungileyo kwaye ukhululekile. Jonga ezi ngcebiso malunga neepotties ezivunyiweyo ngumzali kunye nabantwana abancinci.

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