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Ke, manene, ukhetha yiphi, umfazi okanye intombi? Siqinisekile ukuba iipesenti ezingama-90 zinokukhetha ukuba nentombi, njengoko kungekho imitya iqhotyoshelweyo ngokungafaniyo kwimeko yomfazi.
Ewe, uphononongo lwakutsha nje lubonakalisile ukuba abafazi bayakufuna indoda eya kuba ngumyeni kubo, bafuna indoda eya kuba yeyabo kwaye ibe yeyabo bodwa, kodwa amadoda anokukhetha kwawo!
Indlela yanamhlanje ukuPhakamisa umtshato kumhlobo wakho oyintombazana
Amadoda akhetha intombi kunenkosikazi, kuphela kuba kukho inkululeko engakumbi kubudlelwane kunokuzibophelela ngokupheleleyo emtshatweni.
Xa ubudlelwane bungena ephepheni, kuye kube nzima kabini ukuphuma kubudlelwane, yiyo loo nto, amadoda ecaphukile ukuthatha isigqibo sokuhla ngedolo elinye.
Ke, manenekazi, ukuba ubucinga ukuba umntu wakho angathanda ukuhlala kunye nawe, lixesha lokuba uphinde ucinge okanye mhlawumbi uphinde ucinge, njengoko sizisa kuwe ezinye zezizathu zokuba kutheni amadoda efuna ukuba nentombi endaweni yomfazi.
Kutheni le nto kungcono ukuba ungabinayo intombi oyintombazana
Ezi zizathu, zikhankanywe apha ngezantsi, ziya kuyitshabalalisa ingqondo yakho kwaye zikothuse ungabinangqondo. Manenekazi, hlala phantsi, uphumle kwaye ufunde ukuze wazi ingqondo yendoda. Sikuzisa inyani embi, jonga:
Inkululeko engakumbi:
Xa unentombi, kukho inkululeko engakumbi, indawo ethe kratya yokuphefumla xa kuthelekiswa nokuba nomfazi, ohlala ejikeleze ikona ephefumla emva kwentamo yakho.
Akukho mntu unokuMbuza:
Umfazi uya kuhlala embuza umyeni wakhe malunga nokuba uphi, kodwa intombi ayiyi kuyenza, kuba yona ayazi apho ibhadula khona, nokuba kufanele kube phakathi kobusuku.
Amantombazana athandana nawo ayingabo abalindi:
Ngokungafaniyo nomfazi ogcina itheb kuyo yonke intshukumo yendoda yakhe, iintombi azilawuli kangako kwaye esona sizathu kukuba amantombazana ahlala ejikeleze indoda 24/7.
Uya kuba nexesha elininzi kubahlobo:
Ukuba unomtya wabahlobo ofuna ukubanika inxenye yobomi bakho, ungakwenza oko kuphela xa ungatshatanga. Nje ukuba ubeke umsesane emnweni wakhe, kuya kufuneka ulibale malunga nesangqa sabahlobo bakho. Esi sesinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba kutheni amadoda engakhethi ukutshata, ade aqiniseke.
Akukho Mvume ifunekayo:
Ukuba ufuna ukwenza inkampu kunye nabahlobo bakho, ungasoloko uphuma ngaphandle kokuthatha nayiphi na imvume. Kodwa, xa utshatile, indoda kufuneka icinge kabini kwaye ifune iimvume ezininzi zokuzonwabisa.
Ukungabikho kwamaxwebhu:
Umtshato uza namaxwebhu amaninzi. Kodwa, ngobudlelwane nje, akukho zintambo ziqhotyoshelweyo. Unokwazi ukuphuma nanini na.
Ulala ukulala nabantu abaninzi:
Nangona esi ayisosizathu sivakalayo sokucaphula, kukho amadoda amaninzi phaya akhetha ukuhlala kude nomtshato kuphela ngenxa yokuba eneentlanzi ezininzi elwandle anokujikela kuzo, ngaphandle komfazi omnye. Esi sesinye isizathu sokuba amanye amadoda akhethe ukuba nentombi kunenkosikazi.